It’s a friends with benefits. It’s easy for a guy to play an act while he’s receiving pleasure because he feels like he’s on cloud 9 while having sex. He wants to have unlimited access to you so if you have past people contacting your phone then that means his friends with benefits will no longer be available to lay around with.
You also mentioned he said he didn’t want a relationship so that’s clear he’s only in it for the fun with no strings attached. The two of you never went out on a date or spent quality time that involves building an emotional connection. Bedroom action is built around lust and he can tell you “I love you” as well in that moment but doesn’t mean he means what he’s saying. If it feels good to him in the moment he’ll tell you anything you want to hear to continue creeping around with him in the bed. Validation and instant gratification is a drug to some humans. He applauds and you act.
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That's a hard one, doing that while saying is not a relationship is a mix sign. MAYBE he thinks you want to end the friends with benefits thing? Or maybe he's jealous of someone he thinks you like (which is evidenced with the exes problem). Anyway, is hard to say, I guess you'll have to ask him ^^"
He's having feelings for you now. Friends with benefits don't care if you are with or talking to other people.
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He's fallen in love with you and probably in denial. Think about it, he's doing things a couple would do.
Commitment issues. Obviously has feelings. But afraid to seal the deal
Talk to him about it. Just tell him what u want exactly from him.
Why the fuck are you asking us, we're not your friends with benefits
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