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What is with men's obsession with "humbling" women they don't know? (Page 2)
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This question makes absolutely no sense. Why are YOU concerned with men who humble women who are driven by material gain in their dating relationships? Why don't you just go suck some rich penis instead?
PROBABLY that you don't actually deserve to have such standards? ur not wroth that much?
I won't provide anything to an overly rated or high maintained women. Reject stamped on her forehead loud and clear.
Jealous, controlling, insecure and afraid that they won't get it THEIR WAY.
"let alone can actually afford to keep one"
She admits that women are prostitutes by nature.
Because the women lack humility?
Some women just have that toxic femininity and need to get their head on straight.
Maybe you're the one who has toxic masculinity and needs to get his head on straight.
I've reflected on your suggestion and found it unlikely. Given that you're literally the one rejecting humility in your question, I'm quite confident we can verify that my statement is more accurate. But your feedback is appreciated.
Sorry. I mean asker is the one rejecting humility.
Mmmm the thing is it's not "women" it's women who have a certain type and stick to it, without being disrespectful to anyone else.
Because from what I've seen you guys do not do the same to men, whether he's a gold digger, only dates size 2s etc. It seems like you're okay with your guy friends dating whoever they want. Even using girls for sex, but God forbid a woman wants what she wants.
y'all have no interest in paying attention to the women who are proud doormats and mules
Plenty of women accept the bare minimum. But a lot of you are more interested in making a woman lower her standards than going to those women.
Calling it "having a type" doesn't make it healthy or respectable.
Guys aren't going around doing that stuff though, that's why no one feels the need to say anything to them. You don't see guys looking for money, and even with other aspects of preference they don't restrict romantic interest by their evaluation of their worth (ego). And when they do happen to get good things for themselves in a relationship it actually can merit a genuine "good for you" if they have a humble attitude about it.
"women wanting what they want"
Doesn't make it universally good.
For example, if you want to destroy the world I'm going to call you a super-villain and "god forbid I want what I want" is not a valid excuse for that. Sorry.
There are boundaries to acceptable behaviour and rejecting other people's perspective when you're being abrasive isn't going to make it better. Insisting that you're better than others isn't going to make it better.
What door mats and mules?
Why don't you unclench and tell me what really bothers you about me dating rich men?, because guess what every man I've dated loves it paid to maintain it. Are you under some illusion that I'm manipulating anyone? These are grown men doing what they want with their money. I don't use men, I've always dated generous men who love spoiling me with their own free will.
imagine hating women because they enjoy things that literally harm no one like lavish luxuries, nice dinners, travel, elite books & media, being glamorous, taking ultra good care of herself and her appearance.
The way that I spend money on myself... I can never be with a man that’s not willing to top that for me. And Iet them know that, so why does that bother you?
"tell me what really bothers you about me dating rich men?"
Nothing. That's a mis-framing of the problem. The problem is the lack of humility and the assumption that others are the problem.
It's got nothing to do with the guy's wealth. If you lacked humility and were being an ass while dating a poor guy, it would be the same problem.
"because guess what every man I've dated loves it paid to maintain it."
" These are grown men doing what they want with their money."
Doesn't mean you're being humble and it doesn't mean it's healthy.
"literally harm no one like lavish luxuries, nice dinners, travel, elite books & media, being glamorous, taking ultra good care of herself and her appearance."
Imagine saying that and thinking that you're humble. Wow. Just oblivious.
Let me unpack that for you: How about you buy me luxuries I'm interested in and the things I want?
And I'm assuming the answer is "no"... and if it is then that *exactly* illustrates my point.
I don't really care what you want, that's not the point. But that fact that you make it all about you and what you want makes my point stronger, which is that it's about *ego*. Want whatever you want, just don't pretend to be humble about it, *that* is what bothers me. Don't act like it's some external societal problem. It's ego signaling, this is what narcissists do to inflate their ego. I'm fine with narcissists quietly admiring themselves, but when you blast it out onto the internet that's when it's been inflated too far and you need to learn some humility.
Okay I've never said I was humble, I'm super arrogant. So in that case you're correct, I'm not humble at all.
Exactly. That's fine, whatever, people are like that. But it makes no sense to put men on blast for addressing problems in women that you yourself exemplify. That's all.
To make themselves feel better by putting people down
To each their own. Everyone wants different things. If a woman wants something that I don't have, I do not hold it against her in any way.
Men will be men. Just ignore and do your thing. It's not like they're paying you for you to listen to them
Women do this a lot too. All the time actually. “You’re obviously no catch” is just a popular insult.
Probably as they assume your not Virgins or even virtuous. Nothing worst then a High maintenance, entitled, aspiring to be retired carousel rider. Thinking they deserve to be served.
Incel alert🚩. You're projecting
@CuteLingsAppreciator Maybe you meant Classy instead of High maintenance, which is a different thing.
Found the incel.
I don't know why but it is fun to reduce them to tears and put them in their place. I will never stop doing it because it makes my smile
Who are the men you mentioned? I don't give a shit what you do, I don't know you.
prob owns 50 pairs of shoes... lol no thanks
im only happy when it rains girls are too much drama...
The fact you tell other women they should think the world of themselves too.
Why shouldn't other women be confident too, high maintenance or not? Relationship gurus always talk about "women have higher value on the sexual marketplace" and blah blah blah, if they are so valuable, why shouldn't they be confident? I don't agree with them, I just think confident women are amazing and I want to be their girlfriend.
Because an boom is followed by a heavy crash. Women are artificially inflating their value, price fixing as it were.
Men won't continue to buy the product forever and when the alternative cascades through the market because of the huge unsatisfied demand you deliberately keep there to inflate value that value will crash unbelievably hard.
Once that value crashes the incentive for men to earn more than the tax cut off will be gone and then the only people funding women will be other women. While men have let women leach off them without complaint for centuries I get the feeling women will be far less accepting of other women leaching off of them.
@Smegskull This is already happening
@CuteLingsAppreciator Confidence is fine. It only becomes problematic when women feel like they can dictate their sexual market value to men.
Uh oh, someone is butt hurt. What is eating you? Got dumped recently?
@OlderAndWiser nails it best.
Feel free to be high maintenance, and single.
They want to train them for future wifey material
Men humbling women? How does that work?
I think what she was implying I that sometimes and a lot of the time guys throw insults as a flirting technique. I've had this done to me a few times and it doesn't feel good
@Minx7282 Did they get any action?
Hell no