Why do guys at work seem to be attracted to me yet they seem to try to make me jealous by mentioning other girls?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if its really happening but i dont get jealous over it. Why dont they just man up and ask a woman on a chivalrous date to pursue marriage with me? I am chaste and do not fornicate.

[SueShe]

You are an exception in today's messed up society when you mention that you don't fornicate and are chaste. I commend you for your attitude and hope you can keep this view for a long time.

A great number of guys cannot comprehend that a girl does not open her legs to men to "have fun". Their #1 brain between their legs dictates their behavior and jealousy, dirty jokes, cursing and other innuendos are the only reply their "brain" can come up with since they are ruled by their sexual hormones.

With their behavior, they are attempting to make fun of you and to see your reaction. They are assessing you whether they can turn you and your views of the sexuality topic around.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Probably because they are players? Or want a response from you?
It’s hard to know.

[Asker]

They are players but if making me jealous is what they want then they are failing. I thought players were skilled at what they do

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Not always. Players are good at what they do if the unsuspecting victim is naive 😁 Lol.

[Asker]

Do you think players give up ever? Maybe they finally just treat a woman right and ask her out and be straightforward?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

They eventually give up. Players aren’t typically looking for long term relationships in my experience

[Asker]

Oh okay😊

[spartan55]

Maybe they don't want to ask you out.

[Avicenna]

Maybe they see you as „one of the guys“

[Iron_Man]

Sometimes that’s what guys do

[Asker]

Haha wow