Hi everyone!
I currently really like someone who I've known for years - we recently became more than friends when I visited him when I had a holiday back home - and it was amazing. Unfortunately, I had to leave to go back home - we live on different continents currently.
I've always liked him and he actually tried to tell me he liked me around 5 years ago, but at the time I felt like the timing wasn't right, so we just remained friends. However, we kept in touch over the years through long conversations on messenger, and I always felt like there was something super special about him.
I left 3 months ago, and we are in contact, however the distance makes me extra needy, and although we talk maybe every other day through texts, voice notes etc, we only call maybe once a week which is initiated mostly by me - though he initiates most of the texts. He has expressed that he misses me so much, every day, and is currently trying to get me to come back and visit him by helping me with his ticket.
These are all great signs, and I'm happy, however as I said I'm super needy and there are certain things he doesn't do that makes me question the strength of his feelings. In my mind, he is so special, unlike anyone I've ever met, but his effort makes me wonder - does he feel the same way about me, or is this just something he could take or leave. I tend to overthink, so unsure if it is just all in my mind. I am also a little scared of getting hurt.
I have guys I don't like that call me often, and more, which leads me to question this. I guess when I like someone I want to spend hours on the phone with them, lol. He is a super practical person though, and not sure if he's that type to do that with anyone. I was wondering what everyones thoughts are? Thank you so much
