Why do my ex boyfriend think that I tryna manipulate him by the bday cake I give him?

[Anonymous]

We just broke up, and he said one things that I tryna manipulate him by putting his dog picture there and he think that I talked to another guys when I actually not so he thinks that’s manipulate? Last year I gave him silver matching bracelet he didn’t like it cuz he wants gold necklace. I feel so bad that he never liked anything I done for him.

[Anonymous]

i know that feeling. i just baked a 2 layer cake for my s. o and i didn't even get so much as a thank you. got them a birthday card as well and no thank you. last year a 14k gold butterfly pin year before a diamond necklace and diamond earrings year before that a meteorite year before that named a star after them and every year not one thank you

back in 2020 flew 3000 miles to see them just to get stood up this year traveling 3 1/2 almost 4 to 5 hours to see them again for their career a few days before their birthday i go out of my way and get no appreciation out of it

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, I don’t know. It could be his ego, insecurity, fears, etc. I don’t know your guys’ relationship

[Guy13]

No one buys a birthday cake for their Ex... make sense?

[Asker]

I bought that when he’s my boyfriend but now he’s my ex

[Guy13]

I don't get it but alright?

[Drumlin2001]

If he's 33 and scting like that you're better off without

[Asker]

His dog died so he thinks that’s why I tryna manipulate him but I gave him cuz I think he really loves his dog

[Andres77]

Its a good thing that he’s an ex