I’m mad at my boyfriend for sending Venmo to this girl. Should I be mad?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of three years went out with his homies yesterday to a brewery an hour out of where he lived. They carpooled out there, anyways he stopped updating me after awhile whatever fine. I called he didn’t answer, said he was at the table with everyone and couldn’t answer but that he’s chilling and they are gonna go bowl after. I didn’t respond, he texted me again hours later saying they are at a restaurant and then again later saying he’s on his way home. I seen on Venmo he sent money to some girl and guy for food, bowling and the brewery. I was confused as to who the girl was and the guy. I didn’t expect females to be there, I asked him and he said “ the same people I went camping with awhile back, we celebrated Leo’s birthday and the girl I sent money to was his girlfriend” I looked at her Venmo and see that this Leo guy and her send money back and forth for rent and other stuff. I don’t know what to believe and honestly I’m mad he’s sending money to another female it’s triggering. Am I overreacting?

[slatyb]

Maybe, maybe not. Venmo is commonly used to settle restaurant bills. I’m wondering why she was invited but you were not.

[spartan55]

Uh, yeah you are. Why does he have to constantly update you when he is out with his friends? Controlling much?

[SolitarySolace]

Would you have done the same for some guy?

[RealDaveThomas]

yeah