Why does almost every guy I go on a date with from online try to hold my hand on the first date. When did this become normalised?

I have actually asked them “why does every guy want to hold hands” or “you guys love hand holding don’t you” or “a lot of people ask to hold my hand!”
but I suffer from Asperger's making me a bit brutally honest at the worst times

Why does almost every guy I go on a date with from online try to hold my hand on the first date. When did this become normalised?
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