Why do some guys get annoyed when you realised that they played you all along and get angry because you played them back?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, I used to have a crush on a guy that I realised later on that he was just playing around with me because he knew about my crush on him. I realised later on that he was having me as a game piece and he just wanted me to stick around as much as possible. When he finally "tried to make a move" I called him out and I founded out some days later that he was shading me to my friends and he was basically blaming me about the whole situation what so ever. Anyways I was wondering why do so guys do that? Is it because he actually was interested and he was expecting something to happen? Or is it because he got embarrassed because I founded out?

[Anonymous]

why do women act like complete cunts and hurt good guys

[Asker]

Okay listen, this is my question and I will appreciate it if your reply was relevant with my question. And by the way I said SOME guys

[spartan55]

Somehow I have a feeling his version is different.

[Asker]

Not gonna lie I DEFINITELY think his version will be different

[spartan55]

There are many parts of your version that seem like assumptions.

[Asker]

For example?

[spartan55]

That he knew you liked him, that he used you as a game piece etc.

[Asker]

First of all I told it to everyone and this "game" that we had was happening between us for years. Also he tried to make me jealous multiple times and when he succeeded it he was laughing right infront of my face and after that he was ignoring me

[spartan55]

But you stuck around, even when he showed you who he is?

[Asker]

Yes unfortunately

[spartan55]

If it's one thing I've learned in all my years is that people will ALWAYS show what type of person they are, usually very early in the relationship. This goes for friends and SOs

[Asker]

That's a very good advice

[spartan55]

Glad I could help. Good luck!