Would you say it’s obvious he’s not interested in me romantically?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

[Crafteroon]

Yes, pretty obvious. Also continuing to flirt with someone you know is seriously dating tells more about you and your standards than about them.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m not doing it again

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Would you say it makes me look desperate?

[spartan55]

It makes you look like a gross hoe with no morals.

[boggboss]

It would seem he is not trying to mix work and pleasure no

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Is it obvious I’m flirting? Should I address it like oh I was just joking or just leave it

[boggboss]

I would say it was and no dont ad he made it obvious he wasn't intrested

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

To be honest I only one class left with him so I thought what do I have to lose lol maybe he’s just not one to mix business or pleasure maybe I’m not his cup of tea who knows

[whiskeyontherocks]

Men especially have to be carful when flirting back in a professional capacity so I wouldn’t expect anything obvious it he does.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I think it’s rather clear he just isn’t into me don’t u think

[whiskeyontherocks]

Likely not

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Does it mean he’s just not attracted to me or thinks I’m ugly

[whiskeyontherocks]

Not sure but I would not date a client

[Anonymous]

I don't know. Maybe he'd be down to showing you how to do a different set of hip thrusts! And on a different kind of sheets! ;)

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Uh no

[Opinion Owner]

You're not interested?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I was but he clearly thinks I’m desperate and isn’t interested in me. Also I found out he’s taken

[Opinion Owner]

Is his girl really attractive?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

She’s average ok looking plane Jane according to my friends (I didn’t wanna give an opinon bc I don’t wanna seem biased) but she is pregnant …

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting. So if he DID make a move on you at this point, would you be interested? Or does the fact that he has a girlfriend mean you're no longer in to him?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

The fact he has a girlfriend means he’s not an option for me so I’m not going to try again or see him as someone i can flirt with bc he’s taken

[Opinion Owner]

That's cool. But if that's true, why do you care about whether he's interested in you romantically?

[Guardian45]

WDaH kinda convo is THAT? Talk about mixing work with lust!

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

It’s that obvious I’m flirting huh?

[Guardian45]

Yes, and it's a dangerous portend.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Dangerous how so

[Guardian45]

Who's the Superior?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

What do you mean? He’s a trainer who I pay monthly to come to the gym with me once per week and show me how to train… I only had one more session with him so I thought why not flirt. Do you think he just thinks I’m ugly or something

[Zolly99999]

He sounds professional.. do it's hard to tell

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

It it obvious I’m flirting?

[Zolly99999]

Not really.

[TallAnon]

Yes, if anything it seems like he was actively discouraging it.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Does it mean he’s not attracted to me? He’s been gently flirting w me irl i found out he has a pregnant girlfriend I guess he just wants the excitement of gentle irl flirting without the proof or drama on text

[TallAnon]

He's taken, he doesn't want anything romantically with you, heck, if you flirt with him, he might stop training you altogether

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Should I address it or just stop it and don’t try again

[TallAnon]

Just stop it and focus on training

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Yeah the “I want to educate you…” etc makes it seem like he’s trying to tell me he just wants to help me because it’s a job that’s it. i only have one more lesson with him so I thought I’d be bold at least he wasn’t rude about it

[TallAnon]

Don't do that to someone who's about to have a kid, that's weird.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yeah he's not interested and to be honest you look desperate

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

What makes it seem desperate lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause he seem uninterested but you still tryin to get his attention

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Lol This is awesome

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

What makes it awesome

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Because he rejected me?

[spartan55]

Wow you are seriously reaching

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Reaching? I flirted and he played it off unless it wasn’t clear I was flirting I don't know

[spartan55]

Flirting by asking about check in sheets? Oh my...

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I mean the emoji and stuff? Isn’t it obvious it’s flirty

[spartan55]

Not even close... you mean the thumbs up emoji... 😂😂

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

No I mean the smirk emoji if someone said that to me I would think I’m being flirted with but maybe that’s my problem. 😂😂😂 us woman read into things and think guys take tiny hints

[spartan55]

Yeah we don't. You should know that by now (I would think)

[bowenw]

No it doesn't seem like he's interested.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Would you say it’s obvious I was flirting and he’s rejected me

[bowenw]

It's sort of obvious, depending on what hip thrusts are.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

An exercise where you thrust your hips

[bowenw]

It seems like he doesn't get that you are interested, assuming you are. You may have to keep trying and make it a little more flirty.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I found out he has a lady, better luck next time it’s good he’s loyal

[bowenw]

At least you figured it out. Better luck next time for sure!

[Jamie05rhs]

Why do you have 2 accounts?