Why my boyfriend get jealous all of sudden?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend just got back together after breaking up for more than 1 year, and he said he doesn't want me to hangout with other guys, he feel jealous and its first time for him to feel get jealous.. He wondered why, I don't know if he really jealous or not, do you guys have idea why he feels jealous all of sudden? Thanks

[Guy13]

Somewhere between fear of losing you, controlling your behavior, and possibl personal experience with "friends" influencing this situation too.

Our friends are our friends because there was something that attracted us to them. Add alcohol and/or 420 in there and who knows. Even I would have a problem with best friend is opposite sex. That's a Red Flag for me and I move on when that presents itself.

[Asker]

Thank you for your answer 🙏

[Guy13]

Sure 👍👍

[MystiKaL]

He very likely feels jealous as he doesn't want to lose you again.

3 things. 1) You are allowed to have male friends, like he is allowed to have female friends. 2) Get the message to him that you really care for him and he has nothing to worry about. 3) Don't let yourself be controlled by anyone.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your answer 🙂

[FilmGuy93]

Jealousy happens when you don't feel secure in the relationship.

[Asker]

In the past he was a cold person, he never got jealous even to all his exes.. but now after we got back together he said he feels jealous if I'm hangout with other guys

[FilmGuy93]

Obviously there’s something different about you

[Asker]

Maybe bcs he feels regret? Cuz he mentioned that a lot

[FilmGuy93]

Could be. I don’t know enough about the situation to guess

[MadClown]

It’s normal for a guy to get jealous.

its not rocket science to know that.

[Asker]

Ah okay, thank you🙏

[20yearsolder]

Find a new boyfriend

[Asker]

Why?

[20yearsolder]

The jealousy isn't going to get any better. If you want to be isolated from your male friends then stay in this relationship. Next he'll be jealous of the time you spend with female friends, then family members

[Asker]

Ahhh I see, yeah you right! Thank you

[abc3643]

DUMP HIM NOW.

[Asker]

Why?

[abc3643]

Because he's a jealous control freak.
This means you will be miserable as your soul gradually screams out louder and louder, this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLCEUpIg8rE

And then one day, you will finally either dump him or kill him.

Stop wasting your time and his and do now what you will eventually do anyway.