Why do most of the men on here complain about feminism and women 24/7?

[sassy_receptor]

Like do you guys not have anything better to do? Don’t you have a job to go to or a book to read? Most of you are old so don’t you have a family to take care of since you guys are so well versed in talking about what women need to do to be “good women” and how they need to divert to their traditional roles. So since you think that that means you’re a traditional man with a wife and kids you should be working hard for and taking care of right? No? You’re not doing that? You’re actually lonely with no family or spouse to love? I thought you guys were traditional men though😩 “Rule for thee but not for me” I guess.

I just want to understand the male joy of circle jerking with other guys about how much they hate and resent women all the time. Does it turn you on to see other men bitch and moan about women too? Is that why you constantly talk about it all the time, because you’re trying to get off with your guy pals? Enlighten me❤️

[SteveSmith1985]

I think you make a great point.

The problem is... there is no "good" or "valid" explanation for their views. You are trying to understand something which is fundamentally 'ununderstandable'.

These guys are angry. Angry for many reasons (most not even having to do with women... but they've chosen 'women' as the target on which to focus their anger.

I'm old enough that I've been able to watch what's happening to 'men' (as a whole, in the broadest sense) and in particular guys under 30. It's absolutely insane. It's almost unbelievable. It's like a rot is spreading through a subset of men. Brain-worms maybe?

These views were the fringe-edge of fringe 20 years ago. Now there are different flavors of fucked up men, with a deep-seated hatred for women. A lot of it's linked to far-right politics (I specifically avoid talking politics on GAG, but I can't not mention this link).

I really don't know how a society can continue to function when so many men have developed (and baste-themselves in--) hating women. At least the women who want to have their own agency, opinions or independent thoughts.

These are lonely guys. But instead of doing something that might serve to reduce their loneliness... they embrace the opposite. It's a really really twisted phenomenon, and I am also at a loss when I look at the fucked up way too many guys relate to (or think about) women.

Don't these guys have mothers? Or sisters? Or any fucking female friendships at some point?

I really don't get it. It's genuinely scary.

All I can advise, is to avoid engaging with their bullshit whenever possible. DON"T ask questions like this. DON"T engage in stupid-ass debates with idiots about dumb shit that nobody needs debate (e. g. Women shouldn't work).

Just roll your eyes and walk away. go talk to some people who aren't so goddamn stupid and ridiculous in their views. Life is too short, and there's certainly guys out there who aren't like this. Just don't give these idiots any of your time or effort if you can avoid it. 🙂

[sassy_receptor]

wow i really appreciate you writing out your analysis and sharing it with us. it was very insightful. thank you.

[SteveSmith1985]

Well I appreciate you calling-out the guys your age for this bullshit. Because it IS bullshit. I wish more girls your age (guys too) were more vocal about how silly, hypocritical, pathetic and wrong these asshats are. 🙂

[MrWolf]

Sure it's always cool to blame and yell at men that we are all hateful and so on and so on.

Ain't that awesome world we live in right now. We gotta do this and that and it's still not enough. And the moment we speak about it. Well it's a problem and a big one. Imagine being a men in this time and age and trying to live normal life, while being blamed for everything and anything by almost the whole female population of women on this plant.

Sure it's a walk in the park. Sure blame everything on men. While women they are angels. Both sides are to blame for everything that's been happening. But if the world's gonna burn why not enjoy it at least.

[DermalPunch]

Feminists are always posting questions asking people's opinions s about why they are annoyed by feminists. I have never seen a "why I hate feminism and feminists" post yet.

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahhaha I LOVE HOW YOU ROASTED MOST MISOGYNISTS ON HERE

[sassy_receptor]

I’m just trying to understand their logic😌

[CoolCatMar1]

Me too but i think we will never understand those "men"

[sassy_receptor]

You’re so right. I’m always trying to figure out why they think we care about their complaining because they sure give their unasked for opinion like it matters. I guess we’ll never know…

[CoolCatMar1]

Exactly and look what this dude lower said. As if men don't post their selfies on here lol

[sassy_receptor]

Oh yeah the “Women, would you date me?” selfie posts. PURE COMEDY.

[CoolCatMar1]

TheFlak has always been mean towards women he is laughable

[CoolCatMar1]

Exactly!!! They so insecure it hurts

[Noahzaid]

Well, you girls really have the upper hand.
I don’t talk about feminism a lot because it doesn’t exist where I’m from.
When I Look at the posts on gag, I think men are just mad at society as a whole.
Life isn’t easy like it used to be, including marriage.
Instead of laughing at them, why not try to understand them!
You do know men love women to death so surely there is a problem when a man acts like this!

[Noahzaid]

by the way, coolcatmar1.
You’re really really cute ☠️

[sassy_receptor]

they don’t care about women’s feeling or safety when they spew the hateful things that they do so why should we care? this is why women continue to focus on themselves and prioritize their wellbeing and careers. there is no incentive to do otherwise when men act like this.

[Noahzaid]

Not all men are bad and not all women are bad.
We categorized as one entity which a human, a human can anything from a serial killer to an innocent baby.

These men have their own issues, they probably just want to feel safe as you do

[sassy_receptor]

okay then maybe they should go get the mental help they need. but instead of doing that they rather put out hateful rhetoric about women that essentially complains about women not being willing to solve all their problems for them. can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves. i don’t think guys like that deserve any sympathy honestly.

[Noahzaid]

They are complain like you are complaining about them too.
Its a cycle that will never stop

[sassy_receptor]

i’m not complaining about them. if anything i’m laughing at them. and guys like you who urge women to just “see their point of view”.

[Noahzaid]

For fks sake, your username is sassy☠️

[sassy_receptor]

yep randomly generated name. not sure what that has to do with anything i said though :)

[Noahzaid]

Destiny choose you, you belong to the sass

[CoolCatMar1]

@Noahzaid thank you

[USLegionary]

Well these are issues. Women are just as bad, the are walking contradictions. They want a traditional man but lead untraditional lives. They want equal rights only when it suits them. Don't want to be objectified but hate when they aren't. Demand a 6ft + guy whos athletic/musclar with a dick like a firehose while they 5ft nothing, fat/obese, and have odd sized saggy breasts and so on

[sassy_receptor]

okay and? if they have those preferences and wants it’s really none of your business and to get upset about someone else’s preferences shows that you’re entitled and childish. you need to be worried about what you’re doing and what you have going for yourself, or the lack there of.

[AnUglyBarnacle]

Because feminism in its current state is a militant ideology that has weaponized women against their own civilization. It's fundamentally changing how the sexes interact with each other, which is having disastrous results.

Across all cultures and races, the more feminism creeps into a society, the more birth rates crater and the more unhappy that men and women become.

The earliest proponents of radical feminism did not account for the fact that most women (4/5) do not inherently want to live the "liberated" life. They would be happy with a husband, kids, and a home. But the loons (many of them lesbians) were very vocal and influential, and they drug all of society along with them on their great march forward. Now all of us have to live with the consequences.

Men protest about feminism constantly, because they see and feel its effects, and they're tired of being the enemy.

[sassy_receptor]

L. O. L

[AnUglyBarnacle]

Wait about 30 years...

[Lionman95]

First of all it happens online. From my experience some guys are different online than they are offline mostly because the internet is a guy´s vessel to get rid of frustration.

The short answer is to your question is as way of backlash for various reasons either because they want or wanted a relationship and never had the chance to or they´ve been told that men are the core of social and environmental problems so they should step down and shut up or what ever.

Complaining is their answer since they got the feeling they are hold for every evil on the planet. Some complains are legitimate while many are not. It´s actually not the case that guys masturbate to such questions it just seems more reasonable when different guys have had similar experiences that´s why other guys join.

[DribbleGodCurt]

Bc they are sad i think, or they haven't found the right people to surround themselves around or bad experiences caused them to think that way me personally i don't think that way even though i got did dirty a-lot some of my friends tell me it's bc i'm too kind.

[Alex8736]

speaking of books to read I would recommend "The Coddling of the American Mind:
How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure" by Authors First Amendment expert Greg Lukianoff and social psychologist Jonathan Haidt Just Saying

[inhua]

most men here don't complain about feminism. from what I've seen most men here have no issue supporting it and throwing their fellow men under the bus.

and stating facts isn't complaining when it's true.

[Anpu23]

Certainly not 24/7, I have a life. But I do think that feminism is a hate movement hiding behind the language of acceptance.

If you were the victim of a hate movement, would you just let the propaganda machine continue unchecked?

[Anonymous]

You do your own share of whining about men. You’re kind of a hypocrite to be perfectly frank. Oh and your little “sassy” come backs are bullshit.

[OlderAndWiser]

Not me! I LOVE women and I just ignore the ones who aren't interested in traditional men/traditional dating.

[Sparkie460]

I'm not one of those guys. I love and respect women for who they are.

[TheFlak38]

Because without these complaints the forum would consist only of women playing the victims or posting their selfies hoping that men will masturbate for them.

[sassy_receptor]

Hm I only really see women asking about relationship and dating advice but granted, I actually have a life and real relationships offline unlike most of you, so maybe you’re right.

[AsaKyo]

They have nothing better to do

Just like the women who hate on men without a real, valid reason

[boggboss]

Wpuldnt say its most but meh fair enough if that's how u view it

[Anonymous]

I don't know, maybe because feminists have been complaining about men 24/7 year after year?

[sassy_receptor]

you’re not a woman. try harder.

[Opinion Owner]

Actually, unlike you, I was born with a vagina and still have it.

I am a better woman than you'll ever be. That doesn't mean you can't try harder. You should.

[sassy_receptor]

unlike me? baby you wanna BE like me because you’re a man posing as a woman. keep cosplaying as a woman if you want but no one here believes anything you say. it’s men’s mental health month. go get the mental help you need❤️

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, no normal woman wants to be like you any more than any normal man wants to be like the guys you're complaining about. You are their female counterpart. You do realize that girls like you are the reason men complain about feminism, right?

It's a vicious cycle that is perpetuated by small people like you.

Get a life.

[Opinion Owner]

Buh bye now

[sassy_receptor]

go get the mental help you need sir🤣

[Anonymous]

Most men on here always have to blame their problems on something else, it's an easy cop out.

[TroyDT2]

I see a few who are very vocal, but definitely not a majority of the whole.

[Anonymous]

same reason most women bitch and moan about men 24x7.. to find your answer one need only look in the mirror.

[pizzalovershouse]

They are not abkento get people in person to listen to them

[SnowedIn]

Love this! :)

[Andres77]

Most?

Nope, most don’t: