Do men respect attractive guys or do they envy them?

[Anonymous]

One of my apparently attractive male family members gets hit on by most woman he runs into & from what I've personally seen

Most men don't seem to mind him or the fact that he attracts woman left & right

My male family member went as far as to dye his hair blonde & now he looks more "METRO" & men still don't mind him

BUT I'm the 5/10 guy & most of the same men who "respect" my male family member tend to start problems with me

I don't attract woman but I dont dress flashy or go out

[Makeushiver]

My experience has been that if I approach her with confidence I'll succeed. When I was in HS I was pretty shy in 9th & 10th grade. When I switched schools I looked exactly the same but I re-invented myself as a far more confident guy and the was incredibly successful. Since hen I've not had a problem. A recent trip south I approached a girl who was pretty hot in a very revealing bikini. We had sex in the laundry room shortly thereafter. Also, when you speak with her be interested in what she does. Many guys blow it by telling women about themselves in an effort to impress them. Don't say anything that sounds boastful- esp. about job or money. Probe her life with questions. Its one of the most flattering behavior. Don't demean her taste in music films etc.

[inhua]

it's a bit of both but not for malicious reasons. he gets respect because he can do things average guys can't do and that's getting women to lust after him without trying. he gets envied because a lot of guys want to be in his position

if it's just for pure friendships amongst the brotherhood, looks don't matter much but he's definitely a bonus to have around when approaching women

[Asker]

What about in a situation where said guy doesn't attract gals but yet many dudes asse he's "gay" & pester him about it?

[LazerBean]

It depends on what sort of people he associates with.

[ChefPapiChulo]

only if theyre charismatic. even then you still have people with tendencies towards being the jealous type.

[Asker]

I'm just curious because my male family member draws woman towards him & he has blonde streaks & dresses somewhat feminine & most guys do t mind him

YET I'm the "homely" looking guy who isn't a sexual threat & most men try to "TEST" me

[ChefPapiChulo]

probably because you have a chip on your shoulder.

[Asker]

Its odd though

Most woman are netruel towards me but men try to TEST me

I'm not a "Chad" by the way

Just would like a guys perspective of this

[ChefPapiChulo]

mfer i already told u that u have a chip on ur shoulder. people will test you when you do.

[Asker]

So you're willing to take risks messing with an ugly ass fool just to maybe or not win the fade?

[LiamJHayden]

Most guys will not care unless he starts hitting on their girlfriends.

[Asker]

Hmm

It's odd because I had an acquaintance who dressed "proper" & most dudes would low key refer to him as "gay"

So how do men view "gay" looking dudes from "Chad" types? How do they differ?

[LiamJHayden]

@Asker Some of the most stereotypically Chad-looking guys are gay. Some guys who "peacock" are super straight.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

'M considered a Handsome Man, despite having "weight gained". Before- you were able ruh see the result of your question. I wz dealin with "sex slurs" at the age'uh '9!

[Anonymous]

I respect people who deserve respect, which has nothing to do with how someone looks.