Can a guy like you but ghost the next day?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I have mutual friends (like I know he’s real lol) we talked mostly on snap chat but did text a lot before but to be honest we sent some tasteful pics and yeah it’s the best platform for that. Anyway, we talked for two months maybe a few days in between here and there. But constant, mostly my doing which idc and I know he didn’t either. So we both very much do not want a relationship rn this was just fun and yeah we liked each other and would talk about potential future things, not so heavy but just flirty or about our beliefs etc. so out of nowhere, he just one day didn’t open my last response on snap. He snapped me that morning afternoon then nothing. I didn’t think much of it but then it was a week, so I sent a cute pic and a flirty statement via snap to him. Still nothing! Low key I see his score going up and he posted a story… and he has looked at my stories. Wtf does this mean other than not interested which I know most of you will say. Is it too much pressure or talking or like why don’t you just block me? I haven’t tried again to reach out I thought that I would seem like I’m expecting something when he owes me nothing I get that. But like wtf I don't know maybe he’ll come back around?

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So if I don’t reach out and bug him does that leave any questions in his mind? Tbh I’m not as flighty as I sound I get it he owes me nothing, it just seemed super abrupt and like never blocked me and tbh I have a hard time believing someone caught his eye and he didn’t even try to play two at once. I honestly think it was too much contact I guess? But I never pestered or pushed a convo he want engaging in but still I understand. So yeah is it best to just hope he realizes idgaf and hope he reah

[GreekLorrd]

Based on what you've shared, it seems like he might be avoiding direct communication with you, but still keeping tabs on you through social media. This could mean that he is not interested in continuing the relationship or that he is not sure how to handle the situation. It might be best to give him some space and focus on yourself for a while. If he does decide to reach out again, it's important to have an open and honest conversation about what you both want and expect from the relationship. If he doesn't, it's important to move on and not dwell on the situation too much. Remember that you deserve someone who communicates openly and honestly with you.

[spartan55]

I've said this a million times and so few girls even try to understand this: guys DO NOT like texting, or the whole fake social media nonsense. We tolerate it so we can communicate with girls. It's boring, it's one dimensional, and it's about the worst way to get to know someone.

[Pinay_ako]

If he really really liked you, he won’t play stupid games at that age. Next!!!

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know why some people are like that. I assume different people are for different reasons.


If someone won’t talk to you. Move on. But also. Please understand some people are busy. Nobody likes it when someone has absolutely no life outside of them and you they just blow you up every minute of every day and expect you to respond immediately even if it isn’t important

[OfMiceandMen]

If something else come along better. Most guys are players on the internet these days. They'll talk you up one day and ghost the next because someone else caught their attention. it is easy to do as they barely no ya.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, anything is possible nowadays sweetheart <3 <3

[Iron_Man]

Why would any serious guy do that? Unless you got into a problem but that’s not good

[Asker]

Yeah we were having a basic conversation so no problems on my end so I don't know

[Iron_Man]

find out

[Asker]

I wanted to but I am also understanding if he’s not into it and I don't know I don’t want to seem like I can’t take a hint I just don’t get why wouldn’t you just block me lol or even open them and not answer it’s simple ! Plus he’s clearly not opening my snaps so it’ll just get unread and I have his ig and phone number but I don't know

[Iron_Man]

you want peace of mind just do it

[Fromdusktilldawn]

lol I feel more like women doing this constantly

[Glowdigger]

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[DermalPunch]

Yes, men can do that and way worse.

[boobliker]

Yep! and still like you

[Asker]

Then why ghost and risk losing me?

[boobliker]

who knows other guys around him don't like you with him

[Stevefiveo]

I guess he found a new girl. It sucks. Sorry.

[WonderSadness]

Yep unfortunately that’s what they do

[In_Trance]

Absolutely

[Asker]

Any reason why? I mean I’m confident he liked me for not even having met. He was subtle in a flirty way about it but prioritized me within reason. And did say he isn’t talking to anyone else because we both were very much like we’re not ready to date in general. Us talking just happened basically out of no where from a weird connection

[In_Trance]

What do you mean you hadn't met?

[Asker]

We have never met in person, but have mutual friends and initially started talking in Instagram. And then talked practically everyday for two months

[In_Trance]

There's the problem

[Asker]

I think he was the one who didn’t want to meet up yet.