Guys, Been Seeing him a couple of months. He blocks me for a few days, then will contact me like nothing. Am I crazy for thinking I am the side chick?

[Anonymous]

He’s been doing this a lot since we’ve gotten together. And I’ve brought up keeping things secret, and he says he doesn’t need to keep me a secret. Yeah, we’ve never go anywhere in public. And he swears that I am the only one, but yet he ignores me, and does the thing by blocking my number, and then he’ll contact me like nothing.

[RHK36]

One of his side pieces. If you can't tell you're being played, then you lowkey deserve what he gives you. If people are going to remain complacent in their crap relationships they'll have no one to blame, but their own self. Find someone better who actually is trying to spend time with you and not just for sex.

[OlderAndWiser]

Ever been to his home? Do you even know where he lives?

[Asker]

I have been to his home several times and there’s never any trace of anything. Yet he always keeps the lights very very low.

[OlderAndWiser]

What about his employment? Know what he does? Ever been to his workplace?

[Asker]

I know where he works however with my work I don’t have time to go over there. Plus there wouldn’t be a reason. I wanted to know if I was crazy for thinking I was the side chick, and you guys have validated my question for me. I just wish he could he honest about it and just say he just wants sex, instead of making it appear like it’s more.

[OlderAndWiser]

It's a good possibility that you are the side chick, but was also wondering if he was hiding his work from you, like maybe he's a drug dealer; not likely, but trying to cover all the bases!

[Asker]

I appreciate you taking the time to write back to me. I’m glad I’m not crazy for thinking I was the side chick. It’s been awhile since I’ve been in the dating scene and I just couldn’t wrap my brain around the way he goes about talking to me etc.

[OlderAndWiser]

Whatever his reason or excuse, it seems disrespectful and something you should not tolerate.

[Asker]

I completely agree. Dating anymore sucks. People just aren’t serious and full of mysteries.

[spartan55]

Why th are you letting him treat you like that? Have some self respect, I wouldn't be havin that.

[BoopBoopBeep]

if he blocks you, you should be done

[Emanon25]

He has something not right.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely you're side chick...