So I like this guy. We saw each other last was a little over a month ago. He would be shy and nervous around me. But always willing to help me. I did text him about a test and he did help me, but we never meet just texted and that was two weeks ago. He told me he’s a bad texter and so am I so I didn’t think anything of it, but it just seems weird to me that he did all these things in person but didn’t ask me out. Do I just ask him out or is he just scared of rejection?
Why does he seem interested in person but doesn’t ask to hang out?
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You said yourself he's shy and a bad texter- meaning he probably does like you, but doesn't know how to ask you out, or fears you'll say no.
But you're a bad texter too so this might be a problem, lol. Next time you're with him in person, and he helps you with something, anything... offer to go out with him as a thanks. Or ask him if he's free and does he want to hang out sometime-
There you go- it's a date!
This is probably the best advice I’ve ever heard! Thank you sooooo much! I will definitely do that!
if he is very shy you need to be the initiative one
but also need to determine is he into you or just being friendly, still if you like him you should try
So basically just shoot my shot with him
He only see's you as a friend?
I don't know that’s why I’m confused. He seems interested and gets nervous when I’m around him in person but doesn’t text. So I’m just confused with that whole situation.
I say ask him out, if he says no or makes up some excuse, than stop talking to him.