One thing I have noticed is that men and women approach our complaining differently. Many times men will want to fix our complaining, when what we want is somebody to just listen and hold us. Men are by nature more logical as a general rule, and we by nature share more emotions as a general rule. We share with our girlfriends, but men don't always react the same way. Perhaps communication could improve some if we understood that about each other. We women need to tell our men that we don't want anything fixed, just listen.
Typically if your investmented in drama, being emotional, or killing the vibes. He has to stoop to that energy, time, and thought.
Just only hear about it means she'll most definitely do it again and entertain such toxic, negative, or manipulative behavior that went on. So why hear about it if it's season 12 episode 16 of what Mark did for the 5th time? Thus your not valuing our time.
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Because guys want to be the hero and be useful. If you tell him your problem and he can tell you are in pain, he wants to make you feel better.
Do you tell him that you Just wanna vent?
I hate this too! But threats how they are hardwired to fix things and it’s a good thing because I’ll just sit there and cry my husband will solve the problem 😆… we’re a great team I tell him this isn’t a solving convo it’s a listening convo
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Because who honestly wants to listen to people complain
Oh, right, that's what gag is for, LMAO
So basically, you're my girlfriendThat's what guys do. We fix things. It is in the guy code
I agree and good communication is key in any kind of a relationship whether it's an emotional or sexual relationship.
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