Does he feel fatherly to me or is he attracted towards me?

[Anonymous]

So I’m 28 and there’s this guy at my work that’s 46. He’s really protective of me and makes sure I’m ok. I can’t tell whether he’s attracted to me or thinks I’m too young for him. I caught him looking at me smiling but was also thinking that it was a sort of I’m proud of you look. Then again it’s only a 18 year age gap and his kids are like 16-18. Would it more be a much older man that would have fatherly feelings towards me? What age would that be then the age of a man who would feel fatherly towards a 28 year old? Thanks

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+1 y

He’s single by the way but has kids

[Ironic_Method]

I've had younger partners and it's both.

[Asker]

Interesting feeling so fatherly and sexual combined?

[Ironic_Method]

There are definitely attributes to it. I like taking care of someone, helping them grow, and being that reliable source for them.

Also, sex.

[Cherkez]

I think he's good for you

[Asker]

Interesting guys say he’s too old girl says go for it!

[Cherkez]

That's because guys are butthurt because they are biased against the man

[Cherkez]

DO NOT listen to men

[spartan55]

Move on, he is too old for you

[Asker]

So I’m like a daughter to him?

[spartan55]

That's a pretty big assumption.

[Asker]

So he’d feel ‘wrong’ for having feelings towards me instead wants to protect me as younger than him?

[spartan55]

I have no idea what he thinks. It could be neither.

[Anonymous]

Flirt with him a bit and see how he responds.

[Anonymous]

He wants in your panties

[Anonymous]

Move on to someone better 😯

[Asker]

What do you mean better? Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

Your own age or few years inbetween

[Asker]

So I’m too young to him like a daughter?

[Opinion Owner]

The age gap Is crazy he must be desperate

[Asker]

So he’d feel ‘wrong’ for having feelings towards me instead wants to protect me as younger than him?

[Opinion Owner]

No he's looking for something easy

[Asker]

What do you mean by easy? Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

Well any 46 year old guy would like to get with a 28 year old.

[Asker]

His love language being protective. I get aroused when a much older man is protective of me don’t know why

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sure he is too all 28 year olds

[Asker]

I have daddy issues who cares. The thing is when I say daddy to an older man it has more meaning.

[Opinion Owner]

Have u hooked up? He's using you

[Asker]

No just wondering why he’s so protective

[Asker]

Why you think he’d use me?

[Opinion Owner]

To get laid