So I’m 28 and there’s this guy at my work that’s 46. He’s really protective of me and makes sure I’m ok. I can’t tell whether he’s attracted to me or thinks I’m too young for him. I caught him looking at me smiling but was also thinking that it was a sort of I’m proud of you look. Then again it’s only a 18 year age gap and his kids are like 16-18. Would it more be a much older man that would have fatherly feelings towards me? What age would that be then the age of a man who would feel fatherly towards a 28 year old? Thanks
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9 mo
He’s single by the way but has kids
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I've had younger partners and it's both.
Interesting feeling so fatherly and sexual combined?
There are definitely attributes to it. I like taking care of someone, helping them grow, and being that reliable source for them.
Also, sex.
I think he's good for you
Interesting guys say he’s too old girl says go for it!
That's because guys are butthurt because they are biased against the man
DO NOT listen to men
Move on, he is too old for you
So I’m like a daughter to him?
That's a pretty big assumption.
So he’d feel ‘wrong’ for having feelings towards me instead wants to protect me as younger than him?
I have no idea what he thinks. It could be neither.
Flirt with him a bit and see how he responds.
He wants in your panties
Move on to someone better 😯
What do you mean better? Thanks
Your own age or few years inbetween
So I’m too young to him like a daughter?
The age gap Is crazy he must be desperate
So he’d feel ‘wrong’ for having feelings towards me instead wants to protect me as younger than him?
No he's looking for something easy
What do you mean by easy? Thanks
Well any 46 year old guy would like to get with a 28 year old.
His love language being protective. I get aroused when a much older man is protective of me don’t know why
😂😂
I'm sure he is too all 28 year olds
I have daddy issues who cares. The thing is when I say daddy to an older man it has more meaning.
Have u hooked up? He's using you
No just wondering why he’s so protective
Why you think he’d use me?
To get laid