When he passes me by and greets me he looks to the side annoyed, with everyone else he makes good eye contact, he always tries to keep conversations short, makes excuses to leave early and never tries to make small talk with me despite being chatty and charming with everyone else. However around others he is very nice to me and gives me his best smile etc. We never had any arguments, I am not ugly or overweight so why does he act like this? Do men really treat unattractive women like this?
I'd say it's because he's putting on a show to everyone that he's some amiable guy, but does not want to give you any impression that he's interested in you. Maybe he's the type that thinks if he's nice to you, he believes you'll think he's hitting on you. Maybe he's just phony and doesn't like you. Whatever the case, he's making it clear to you in your presence that he doesn't respect you enough to be cordial, but he cares enough about his image to others to put on a little show when needed.
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No one except him knows. You can ask him, but it doesn't change what you would do with him around or not. Just make sure never to gossip about anyone. It can lead back to you, as those that gossip with you also gossip about you.
He has to be nice to you at work. Why he finds you unsavory I can't imagine, nor how he's so horrible at hiding it. Nevermind him. You're not missing out.
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