Guys, I need your opinion in regards to his behavior?

[Anonymous]

I’m 25 and he’s 20. I would help him with his homework and whatever else he needed. I was always nice to him and respectful too. Never considered any type of relationship because I like older men not you her. Anyway, he always told me I was beautiful from the start. We eventually had our downs and we’d bicker…he’d get frustrated and demand to know if I wanted to remain friends or not. I told him no several times and one time he got upset and confessed he only wanted to sleep with me because I was 3 hours away from him and was upset I didn’t want to be his friend. 5 days passed and we didn’t talk but he continued to watch my Snapchat stories. On the 5th day he sent me a snap of the food he was eating but I didn’t reply. On the 7th day I posted a pic of me in my yoga clothing (I was working out) and he screenshot it. He also sent me a message asking me how I was doing…. I opened it but didn’t reply. I posted another random story, a TikTok, to my Snapchat and he immediately viewed that too.

what is going on?

[DaveJord]

Okay, he is 20 and you are 25. So, there is scientific studies that show that woman is full developed physically by the age of 18 to 20. Whereas a man does not fully develop physically until 24 to 25. That woman is full emotionally developed by the age of 32, and men do not fully develop emotionally until 42.

On average women are 7 years more emotionally developed then men on are, and it all start to balance out around 32 to 36. So, it sounds to me that this guy lacks a degree of emotional intelligence and maturity.

Now on the flip side, why the hell have you not blocked this guy on your socials? he basically confessed his crush for you, and you told him to get lost. But you do not block him, you open his messages, but do not reply. So, it is almost like you are fucking with him. He knows you are reading his messages; he knows he is not blocked. Why would you even open them or read them if you did not care?

[Asker]

Hmm wait… how am I fuc*ing with him?

[DaveJord]

It sounds to me like you are not interested in this guy at all. You are put off by his responses and attention he is giving you on social media, but you are still reading and opening the things he sends and then not responding.

Why, not just remove him, why are you entertaining it?

[Alex-Snow]

He has the hots for you which is normal for a horny 20 yr old guy. I guess if you do not want to be sexually involved you have to tell him again or block him.

[Luckycharms12]

He is clearly into you