My friend (coworker) never told me he was taken until after I realized he liked me and told him I was dating someone.
He only mentioned he was taken later on.
I feel like some men hide they are taken when talking to me.
Why?
I’d like to know if I am in the center of attention of a taken man or just a single guy.
I feel like I deserve to know as well as their girlfriends deserve to know.
Just cause he likes you doesn’t mean he has to tell you if he’s w someone or not. Unless he comes out openly telling you that. But if it’s something he keeps to himself about liking you I don’t see why he needs to tell you unless he’s acting on it. Now if he’s acting on it, sure you should know this. But if he hasn’t said something about it, it’s for a few reasons. One because he knows if he tells you his “chances” of something happening w you are ruined. Two he’s probably not a good person because more than likely he’d cheat w you if given the chance.
Only men who are unhappy with their relationship would do that.
But even then, it’s morally wrong to do, and disrespectful not only to the one they are with but also to the one they’re pursuing.
I agree that all men should disclose that they are taken.
If they don’t, it’s either that discussion topic just hasn’t come up, or they’re just up to no good and are bad news.
Because they don't think their current partner is the one and want to keep their options open.
Men are either cheaters or they have cheating as a possible option.
Opinion
24Opinion
Because they don't want to self sabotage whatever chance they think they have with you. It's super sketchy.
If you are spoken for but giving them the impression that you are single, that’s one reason.
Hell, you’re probably overly friendly or just plain flirty we don’t know. You’re not saying enough to go on
Haha. Complain about orbiters then pull these stunts. I’m assuming their language was inappropriate. When responsible and eloquent people pick up on being hit on, the word “boyfriend/girlfriend” or “wife/husband” is worked into the the conversation early and seamlessly.
"Because they don't want to self sabotage whatever chance they think they have with you. It's super sketchy."
That really is the best answer... But on a lighter note. I'm not taken... I'm all alone... hello free man here. :)
Those are the ones that are with one woman while still looking for someone better. They should just tell the woman theybare with that is not what they want and move on but this way they have somebody for sex and companionship until they move on.
They will date the next person to find out which one is better and then dump the other.
It would be fitting justice if a woman did it to him first.
one guy told me that it didn't matter if the girl was taken or not. but if you told him about your boyfriend and he immediately said that after, then he was pretending to have a girlfriend
I guess everyone flirts a bit with coworkers no matter if taken or not. At least I do it for fun. But I never want or expect something serious to come out of it or cheat.
That's super shady. He was looking for more from you.
There's clearly something going on in that relationship and they like to keep their options open. Or, maybe they're just promiscous. Or, maybe he just said that to get back at you
Because l0zer men can't be honest with a girl that they are in a relationship with. So they lie to her.
While they hunt other girls.
They can easily stay as friends and have fun. But they dont have the b#lls to be straight forward with women.
Because they are foolish and don't realize that as married men they get more pussy then single guys.
Because there full of shit that's why. It's like I heard some guys who are not married wear wedding rings to attract single women. I don't know how that attracts single women. But like I said this is just what I heard.
It's probably the insecurity they feel you will be reserved with them and not talk like that fearing the wife.
He was looking for a side piece. Men who are happy in their relationship will disclose being taken right in the beginning.
Yeah it is sketchy. Id steer clear. He may think of you as an option in case his current relationship fails.
He wants a side chick for when his girlfriend won’t let him between her legs, he wants to be able to get between yours.
1. The topic never comes up
2. They are cheaters
3. They are protective of their relationship.
That's what cheaters do
Isn't it obvious?
He was hoping to make you a side chick.
You can also add your opinion below!
