Why do men change up when a woman decides that she down for the casual and is on the same page but then the man blots…dude ain’t this what you wanted?

[Anonymous]

[normalice]

Probably such men imagine the woman wants to please him and isn't in it for her own pleasure. Or at least he imagines that whatever pleasure she requires he will be able to provide without though or effort, as a side effect of pleasing himself. But when that isn't what happens the chasm between his fantasy and reality is too harrowing so he escapes the situation.

[Asker]

Why though, if it’s not the woman’s first rodeo?

[normalice]

Probably like half of men's self esteem is derived from how much ass they get and believing they can effortlessly please women in a way that makes it impossible for them to resist coming back for more is the simplest way of boosting that self eateem.

[AnAmazingGuy]

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