I don't hate fat people. I just have such a passion for health and fitness that it's really hard for me to understand how someone can live such a toxic life and be happy with it. I also can't see myself being okay with just watching someone eat their way to an early death. I basically want to live forever and die of old age in my sleep. Not by a heart attack at 48, cancer, or alzheimer's. I want to live the best life I possibly can without being held back by anything that I could have prevented with keeping good health. I just feel like they also play the victim and be very apathetic about their weight loss. I've never met a fat person who was happy about their weight, so I don't see why they don't do something about it.
At my biggest, I was 195 and I completely hated it. Nothing fit right, I didn't look cute in a bikini, I was insecure in bed when I was used to being so confident, I lost flexibility not because my muscles weren't as flexible but my fat got in the way lmaoo, it was terrible.
It's just that once you become healthy, your body feels so good that it's hard to ever imagine going back to the way you were before. I am so much happier and I've come to love myself a lot more. I've also found that it's very contradictory to say you love yourself, but then go ahead and feed yourself foods that will slowly kill you. Health and fitness is really all about aligning your actions with your values. If you love yourself, you're going to nourish yourself with food that will fight illness and strengthen you, and you're going to give your body the exercise that it needs as well. Loving yourself is about more than just being able to say that you like the way you look or you like your personality, it's about giving it the type of maintenance that it requires.
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I don't hate people period.
I don't hate fat people. Some of my friends are quite large.
However, there's something to be said about a person who cares so little about their personal health and well-being that they would eat to the point where they can barely stand upright - then complain about being fat.
There's also the huge epidemic the US has on obesity, and the enormous financial strain on the health care system that everyone pays for in one way or another.
In short, fat people are no gift to the well-being of society. However, neither are the homeless and the chronically lazy hipsters playing video games when they're 35 years old.
I don't hate fat people. I just don't gel with fat people in terms of what I do. So I never really hang out or date them. I'm a gym lover and am always active. McDonald's and soft drinks are the devil for me, I never have desserts (very anal with eating) so like we can't even gel over food lol.
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I find it interesting that a lot of people don't like fat people for reasons that include "lack of motivation" or otherwise. How does this explain someone like me, who is not lazy and is surprisingly energetic, but my weight problem is the result of hormones? I exercise and eat properly and I cannot lose weight. Fall of the wagon just once, and I will put on five pounds. Work to take it off and it won't budge. This isn't always the case with all overweight people, but I'd like to point out to the many here that just assume laziness and overeating (which seems to be the personal turn off) that yes, it can result in weight gain -- but it doesn't apply to us all.
I don't think people actually "hate" fat people. I just don't think they like the idea of being associated with them or their lifestyle. I've seen questions on here about someone mentioning their fat and still expecting to find a bf/gf who is physically perfect. Not to be rude but don't expect to find someone like that if you can't even take care of your own image. It's not that people don't like fat people that way just their lifestyle can be a turn off. Also the fat people who complain/cry about how fat they are yet do nothing about it! Another reason why people may be turned off.
i don't h8 fat people but i h8 those who SHAME fat people basically!
Hating someone because of their size or body type is so very childish. There's nothing more childish than making fun of a fat stranger whom you don't even know, in order to make you feel "cool".
Honey, if you need to hurt other people's feelings in order to make yourself look cool in front of your friends or feel good about yourselves, than you need to get your head checked. Immediately.No one hates fat people lol
I think people just get frustrated when they see overweight people complaining but do nothing about it
Also more often then not if your overweight and it's not due to some medical condition, it reflects on your personality... those individuals seem to be more obnoxious then the averageI hate how people assume someone is lazy because they're overweight. I play two sports and compete in show choir. I really don't eat that much but I have a really slow metabolism that makes it easy for me to gain and hard to lose. I'm 145 at 5'4 and people think I'm fat and lazy? Like what?
Numerous of reason... They take up to much space, they stink, it's disgusting, they get benefits because it can be classified as a disability, they complain more, their lazy, and so on and so forth... I know not all are what i listed above but a "large" number of them are... pun intended
I'm fat and I hate it. Not necessarily fat people but just being fat. It's caused many self esteem and confidence issues and no one can understand unless you are also fat and have been teased and made fun of and put down your entire if because of it. The people who are lazy and fat have never been degraded like I have because if they had they would feel motivation to change.
I would never "hate" anyone just because of their body type. That's just ridiculous. I also don't see the point in shaming anyone for being overweight. No one should be shamed for their body type, that's just rude and hateful.
It isn't a hate more than it is a frustration that we are constantly being forced to pretend that being overweight is "beautiful" and that we shouldn't expect people to be healthy. The anti fat shaming campaigns do everything they can to shame all other body types to make obese women feel "good" about themselves.
Shaming healthy to make unhealthy people feel good is counter productive.
Making them healthy would be a much more productive idea.Not hate. They see their life taking a huge toll from their inability to put in effort to solve a big issue.
It's more of a character issue that shows on the outside. It's the same as someone who didn't bother with school who lived in a 1st world environment and now makes no money. Both are not gonna end wellI don't and I could care less the media still tells people to hate on fat people and they do it subtly too I was watching a YouTube clip this one day from that show icarly and this one guy was being made fun of by other girls cause he was fat. They still do this today a better example is all those sex figures are slim or skinny.
because it shows they don't take care of themselves. unless you have a medical problem that makes it very hard for you to lose weight but you still try to lose the weight you are fine by me, but if you spend every weekend stuffing your esophagus with pizza and chicken wings you deserve to be made fun of
I don't.. Other peoples body shapes are none of my business, and I don't give a shit about how you look. I only get pissed, when people become so obese and our tax money have to pay for their overeating. Obese people cost society more billions every year, and I won't pay for other people to eat and become fat!
I don't hate fat people. I just hate how fat women keep calling themselves "curvy" when they're actually obese. I hate how people are trying to make unhealthy lifestyles acceptable. I hate being judged for my preferences in not being attracted to fat women.
Human nature to pick out someone for abuse. If only to take the focus off yourself. A fat persons an obvious and easy target. Usually the ones screaming the most abuse are the ones with the most to hide
I don't need a reason to hate overweight people because I don't hate them. I treat them the same way as I treat people that are not overweight which is nicely.
Hates a powerful word. I don't like fat people that moan and whine about thier weight and how no one is attracted to them romantically, but aren't doing anything to change
i only hate them when they shove me on the train and it's temporary
You can't hate fat people, you can hate certain people and those people may be fat. A lot of fat people try to be sexy, and they are sad when they aren't when all they could do is lose a few kilos.
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