What's your biggest insecurity and why?

[Anonymous]

I'm just curious to know.😊 I know it's much better to focus on your better features rather than your flaws. So like I said I'm just curious to hear what you guys have to say. so I'll tell you first what I think my biggest insecurity is, my weight... I've NEVER been called fat before until I started middle school last year... Now, I'm pretty much

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Paranoid every where I go people are staring at me. Ohh the things words can do to people...😑

[Mistnigqa808]

Umm for the sake of your question I'm going to say my " #4Finga4Head ". But IDGAF about it (forehead) because I know I look good, I feel good + I like what I see when I look in the mirror. So even if somebody tried to call me ugly it wouldn't work #In! EarAndOutTheOther #FuckTheirRemark HAHA

And overall I haven't had a woman give me a "EWWW look" in about 10 years. So yeah I'm feeling good + I don't mind eyes being on me in public #UsedToITTheseDays <3 i1127.photobucket.com/.../ezgif.com-add-text.gif

[Mistnigqa808]

#In1EarAndOutTheOther *

[Asker]

Well if that's how you feel about yourself, then great. But not everyone feels that way about themselves.

[Mistnigqa808]

I know which is why I never choose to dog somebody our NOR call an "so called" ugly person "ugly". Cuz I already know what it is going to do to their self-esteem... and it ain't pretty >_<

[Asker]

Yep. Glad you know that and RESPECT other people's feelings/take them in consideration.

[Asker]

Good trait to have.

[Mistnigqa808]

And let me throw this out here right now while I'm at it "you'll never hear me talking about my looks #IRL " cuz once again, I know how jealous people can get of others + the fact that it'll make them feel like crap about themselves

[Asker]

Yeah

[Applefan1]

I have two big insecurities and these are my looks as I feel ugly to women and that women are constantly judging me. I overthink everything when it comes to women and it is so annoying. However, at the same time sometimes I am right about some women to. I can often pick up on which women are bad and which ones are good before a lot of other guys can I think. If I can help you out with your insecurities please ask. :)

[Asker]

Will do!😊 and don't be insecure if others don't like you, they can kick rocks if not!😉

[Applefan1]

Thank you, yeah I guess it comes from the fact that most of the time I know what women are thinking and pretty much all of the time it seems I am right to. I seem to have the ability to read women's minds just by glancing at them. I can pick up on women's behaviour well. I have always been able to do this.

[Asker]

Oh, well I guess that isn't ALWAYS a bad thing!

[Applefan1]

No it is not, usually it is a good thing because it means when I meet a woman that is a bad woman I pick up on it fast.

[Asker]

Ya, that's pretty cool. Good instincts.

[Applefan1]

Yes it is good. I can often explain things about women to men that other men don't understand that just seem so obvious to me.

[Asker]

Yeah. I wish I could do that with guys! Lmao

[Asker]

But whatever haha you almost always learn from your mistakes... Right? Lol

[Applefan1]

Yes well I am very good at explaining things to girls that men think and do so if you need help understanding boys just ask. :)

[Asker]

Okay, thanks.

[Applefan1]

I never make mistakes hahaaha lol :P Nah if I do make a mistake yes I try to learn from it but that is what I think everyone should do. I think my mind just thinks the same way a lot of women do about things and that is why I know what they are thinking.

[Asker]

Yeah

[XNicholeMariex3]

My skin! I wear makeup whenever I go out in public. I have extremely bad hormonal imbalance which causes me to break out. I'm honest with anybody who asks (most people don't though, they just look at me). You have those who will sympathize with you, and then you will have those who will judge you like crazy because they don't understand what it is like.

[Asker]

Yeah, they don't. It doesn't matter what you look like though, what matters is what's inside. You are Beautiful! Like seriously I'm jealous... Don't cover up with makeup! You don't need it.

[XNicholeMariex3]

Thank you, that is really sweet. :)

[Asker]

Anytime!💕😄

[Mistnigqa808]

But you're still my fav snowbunny on here <3 #WOuldBang/10 + some more LOL

[XNicholeMariex3]

@Mistnigqa808 hahahaha 😁

[Mistnigqa808]

But naw I'm not playing I love your "look" #SnowHarpy <3

[XNicholeMariex3]

@Mistnigqa808 lol thanks 😊

[butternut]

Probably my weight. My friends always tell me I'm not fat but I have heard people from my school say it as I walk by, and my crushes call me fat, and i am also overweight according to the Internet

[Asker]

I understand girly. Completely. It's a terrible feeling isn't it?😭

[Jlawson118]

Just generally my looks. I've grown up in high school being fat and being made fun of for it and now that's kind of stuck in my head really. Around two years ago I lost a stone through the summer time and then last summer I lost around three stone so I am actually really slim now but I hate my fat, baby face

[Deezyy]

My height/weight combo. I've always had wider hips and after I had kids my legs got thicker and sometimes I just want to diet and work out like a lunatic, though my hips aren't going anywhere. Lol 😕

[Victoriaann2425]

Mine is my scars. why? People normally judge what they don't understand.

[Asker]

Exactly!

[523206720]

I feel guilty when I go to church to meet guys instead of going for the worship service. That's about it.

[Sublime45]

If you can think of any name in the English dictionary that has to do with being skinny, or really slim then you hit the nail on the head.

[Asker]

Yep!

[dangerDoge]

I have more than one insecurity for sure haha. My biggest one is probably my looks though. I always feel like I look just meh at best.

[zombiebabe]

my height and those damn stretchmarks (thanks puberty >:( )

[Asker]

Yeah.😐

[Anonymous]

Honestly for me it would by my thighs (even though my friends tell me its fine). My lower body is pretty thick my legs and ass (but definitely not complaining about the booty) ;)

[Kay211]

Height. I just feel so small in comparison to everyone else.

[Genie23]

How tall are you? :o

[Kay211]

I guess I could be shorter, but I'm 5'0 :p

[Asker]

Same... I'm 13 and 4"11... Short girls are pretty cool though.😏

[Illusive_Man]

*no she's not... she's sneaking in a few cm

[Kay211]

My mom's 4'11 too, I am barely 5'0 i think. ;-;
You still have time to grow, I think? :D
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LIES! I went to the doctor and I was told I am 5'0.

[Asker]

I'm hoping I'll be taller! Haha, but everyone in my family is short so I guess it's genetics. Oh well though.💁🏼😂😐

[Kay211]

All of your family is? Maybe not then, lol.
That's what happened to me.

Tallest person (my dad) in my family is 5'8, was hoping to get some of those genes.. nope. xD

[Asker]

Well they aren't that short, I think the tallest is 5"11? I don't know haha

[Illusive_Man]

LOLOLLLLLLL
I honestly haven't had a good laugh for a while lOLO

"LIES! I went to the doctor and I was told I am 5'0."

Well then there we go lol doctor's certification for height.

Anyway I digress haha. Ahhh, mon petit chou-fleu

[Kay211]

Oh. Maybe you'll get lucky, be tall.. ;)
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WHAT? They had to check.
Y'know height and weight and all that.
Dunno why that's funny. >__>

[Illusive_Man]

It's like...

"I AM NORMAL!
My doctor say so "
Kay lol

Like...
"I am a model citizen. See! I have a library card"

Ah fuurgeeet aboot it , I'm weird.

[Kay211]

Guess I'm not a model citizen then, unfortunately I don't have a library card. c':

Alright, you said it not me.

[Genie23]

That's a really cute height! I bet every style of dresses looks gorgeous on you, plus you can wear heels!

[Kay211]

haha, thanks. i do love dresses, they're just difficult sometimes. I'm too picky. :p

But I don't really wear heels, surprisingly. :o
I suppose I should, but I've only done it once.

[Pink2000]

My stretch marks. I've earned my tiger stripes , but I don't find them attractive.

[Asker]

Sameeee!

[Ashely_Princess]

I'm insecure about my weight, I'm fat but you can't really tell because I'm average height :/

[Asker]

Ohh I'm 13 and 4"11 so I'm really short. I don't think I'm overweight, at least my doctor has never mentioned anything about it but I feel like that's what makes me look fat...😣

[Ashely_Princess]

Oh D:

[Asker]

Yep, story of my life...😞

[chocolateismylover]

Feeling like no matter how I hard I try, i'll never be good enough.

[mei0313]

my scars :/ sometimes my height lol

[Illusive_Man]

From bear fighting?

[Asker]

That's actually kind of rude to say... All scars tell a story that the mouth wasn't able to speak. Don't assume things. Sometimes saying things like that come across rude, sorry but that is what I think.😊

[mei0313]

Lol noooo 🐻 fighting. I got them from incidents and medical procedures and stuffs lol

It's okay @ asker 😳😬

[mei0313]

@Illusive_Man forgot to tag you lol

[Asker]

Okay, haha sorry I just wasn't sure if you would take that as offensive or not lol😬✊🏻😂

[Illusive_Man]

Ah well I get em mostly on my legs and on my knees from all the random scrapes I get into lol
I thought scars would look badass but they just look kinda weird but doh well I can always fake a good story behind them.

Tell them you got yours from fighting off muggers and robbers.

[xXiTacoXx]

My arms and my stomach.

[chuppachup]

My weight. I feel like I'm almost anorexic.

[Asker]

I don't starve myself... At least trying not to.😣 Remember, you are amazing and if you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here. Please, treat yourself better. I'm sure you are a great person and you don't deserve to feel any less. Hope everything gets better.💞

[chuppachup]

I perhaps went a bit overboard when I said I'm almost anorexic lol. I'm just really skinny.
But yeah I hope my insecurities get better as well, thanks. :)

[Asker]

Oh... Sorry! Lol know I feel bad for that little paragraph... Oops!😬 But yes, I hope you learn to accept your insecurities as well.😋

[Asker]

* now

[gapminder]

My horse cock is my biggest

[smahala1991]

sometimes my weight, but I don't let it get to me

[Omar5881]

My insecurities? Hmmm

[crs23]

My face, it's unattractive especially my eyes

[Anonymous]

Probably confrontation

[Anonymous]

Stretch marks.

[Asker]

Same. I have them on my thighs. I don't let it get to me though, at least I try not to!

[Anonymous]

prob my weight and my thighs and arms yah...

[Asker]

I feel ya girl.😕

[Opinion Owner]

:( i haven't be diagnosed with binging yet, but i feel like i do have a problem with binge eating, and usually after i feel terrible and i try to make myself throw, but i end up failing and then my brain start doing something like

binges> i eat to much> tries to purge> fails> i fail i can't do anything right> why did i eat too much> i should stop eating> still eats> why am i so fat> tries to count calories> forgets> cries = repeat

[Asker]

Awh, I'm sorry! Please don't do that to yourself! I know that probs don't mean much from a girl online, but really. This is something you need to talk to someone about. Don't feel ashamed. Or afraid to. They will be understanding and be supportive as much as possible. Don't EVER do that to yourself again, Kay girly? I'm serious. If you ever need to talk, message me!💞😊

[Opinion Owner]

thanks