Would you ever break up with someone during the holidays because you can't afford to buy them a gift?

[coachTanthony]

[ImHere22]

No, because that’s an incredibly stupid reason to break up with someone. If money is tight, make something! If you struggle creatively, plan a special day with free things to see and do! And honestly if your partner is not at all impressed or excited, nor understanding about your situation, then you may want to reassess your relationship with them.

[NathanDavis]

what kind of relationship is that... lmfao...

no...

besides, there's so many things I could make myself, lol

[IslaTheWitch]

What kind of twisted logic is it?

If we are in the relationship, it's not for the sake of presents. If we are together, it means we know our situations and support each other.

We can decide that this year we bake presents, or do something manually. What is important is the gesture not how much money we can spend.

[purplepoppy]

No need to spend money. Just put a ribbon and a bow on your dick and she'll be happy guys.
You know you can trust me on this.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Gifts don’t always have to cost money..

anyone that would break up with someone for that reason maybe shouldn’t be dating/in a relationship… same as anyone that would break up with someone if they didn’t get a gift

[Likes2drive]

No but it’s probably a good idea to not date so close to Christmas or Valentine’s Day since it might be awkward not getting anything if you just met

[Nikki1989]

I don't celebrate Christmas or buy gifts, so be prepared for disappointment.

[exitseven]

I know people do it. Its called the turkey Dump.

[Miristheiss]

No.

Gift giving isn't part of the equation when it comes to being with them romantically or not.

Gift giving is just a tradition. It has zero bearing on whether a man and woman are a good fit for a long term relationship or marriage.

[Lynxistp]

Just like the top comment says- if you can't stay in a relationship for that reason it's a really silly relationship. Besides, if you get creative there are awesome gifts to give that doesn't have to cost anything.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

That seems like a terrible reason to end a relationship, or even and what could be a wonderful relationship.

if you're broke as a joke, let 'em know. Honesty is always the way to go.

[IslaTheWitch]

Honesty is the key, isn't it?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

@IslaTheWitch yes. Honesty is the only way to get a true and proper decision made in any situation. Otherwise it's reliant on false information.

[IslaTheWitch]

@middleagedclimbee exactly basing on our assumptions only without asking for information can kill every relationship. Honesty works both ways. Also saying - "I don't know, help me understand you properly"

[MissStrawberry912]

Lmao that’s not cool…! Gifts and love don’t cost a thing (referencing a song hehe). Gifts can be made through DIY, arts, personable written cards, and etc :)

[Drumlin2001]

No. I'd talk to them, manage expectations. If they made any sort of issue over it then I might ponder whether we're compatible.
Plenty of things you can do that don't cost much, or anything

[serious_miss419]

Seriously? 😳


Big holidays, life events and a relationship are one of many things a couple juggles together. It builds them up, or so it should.
If it leads to break up, it speaks volumes and let’s not analyze it.
Just my two cents, actually my five cents because the penny is gone! 🤦‍♀️

[JC_jester]

Could this even be called a relationship? Who in their right mind ends a relationship, one that required so much effort, because of an empty wallet?

In such a situation, I would simply take on the next challenge. Even if it had to be a woven bracelet like those kids make in elementary school. Anything I can do for her to show her I care

[TacosRAwesome]

No. I'll tell them, I'm too broke to get you anything. And be extra nice to them for the month.

[sheikalana]

No, I'd rather be honest than loose my relationship.

[Joshydavid25]

Nah, I would just tell her, she got the only gift she ever needed... Me..

[Fromdusktilldawn]

what kind of terribly shallow and golddiggerish person would that be? If someone would do that to me I'd cut all contact immediately

[JacobJordan]

I just wouldn't get them a gift. I would instead do my very best to create a very romantic date or similar. candles, roses, a walk in the snow, hot chocolate and a movie etc

[Lonen]

Even if I can't afford anything I would still find the perfect gift for the occasion

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope... a person who is with me just for gifts i don't want them

[7Phoenix7]

Lol that's funny and no I wouldn't

[cloud9vortex1234]

No, I would give a gift that doesn't cost money.