MrOracle

The purpose of your first few dates with someone is to determine if the two of you have long-term compatibility - at least for people who are dating seriously. And it's not uncommon to discover... Dating

It means that they were using you. Men get used for money/clout/lifestyle/attention and girls get used for sex. Then people either want more, and leave when they realize that they won't get it, or... Dating

Where would you choose if YOU were paying? That would be a good starting point. He's not expecting McDonald's, but he's also not expecting $100 per plate either. Keep it under $50 per plate... Dating

Finding a good partner is hard for everyone, but I can tell you what most women do wrong. You can only find a good partner if your choosing criteria is their morals, values, and life goals, but... Dating

in my opinion, your first few dates are for determining whether or not you have long-term compatibility with this new person, so that you don't get too attached or waste each other's time if you... Dating

My preference would be a casual dress (sun dress) on her if weather allows - which means 3 out of 4 seasons here in California - but I'm also fine with jeans/shorts and a T-shirt or whatever. As... Dating

This is one of those times when context is everything. Is it okay for a man to run into you full force and knock you to the ground? Under normal circumstances, obviously not, but what about... Dating

I would have trouble dating someone with a 70 IQ, but that's a pretty extreme situation. I test in the 98-99 percentile, so while there definitely are people smarter than me (I've met some of... Dating

You are comparing two different things. Pretty privilege gets you more and better options to choose from, BUT you are still required to make a good choice. The fact that some people squander their... Dating

If you have a lot of exs, and especially if they all seem to have the same problem, it's because YOU are picking them and YOU are not vetting them properly. And if you don't address this, nothing... Dating

It's fine to have high standards... IF you can afford them. But, say, if you want a big house or a luxury car, those demand high prices, beyond what most people can afford. Clearly some people can... Dating

Luck is always a bit of a factor, but it's maybe 5%. Making good choices is about 45%, and putting in the work is about 50%. @thesimfans I obviously don't know you or know anything about you, so I... Dating

The majority of men realize and accept that people will age, may become injured or sick, will gain some weight, and if she has his children, that's going to have some permanent impacts on her... Dating

I've never personally used online dating, but I've tried helping friends who insisted on using it, and I've read some of the profiles, and the whole thing is just a dumpster fire. Who wins? The... Dating

Certainly not impossible, but more difficult for sure. Especially for marriage - the laws are so one-sided that most men don't have a good reason to risk so much unless they want kids. I would... Dating