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Guys, You're out on a date... do you focus on enjoying the date or do you keep trying to chip away at the person to find their flaws?
I wouldn't ask those questions) or, perhaps, only a few of them) on a first date, for exactly the reasons you didn't like it, but those questions DO need to be answered, and sooner rather than... Dating
He committed to someone he told me not to worry about, now wants to have an affair with me?
So, you choose to get involved with someone with serious commitment and boundary issues, and now you have problems with his commitment and boundary issues? If you don't want messy, confusing,... Dating
What are men supposed to do to get women to like us?
Stop worrying about women, and by all means, never EVER simp for them. Focus on building your solo life. Accomplish your goals and set new ones. Get your own place to live, a car (unless you live... Dating
How much do you tip over the holiday season?
I normally tip 15%, but I bump it up to 20% in December and I'm a bit more liberal in who gets tipped. Normally I wouldn't tip someone working a take-out counter, for example, but I do in... Holidays
How will I ever meet and marry a man knowing they can just change out of nowhere?
This is a very good question, and there's a very real answer: the vetting process. For most of human history, the vetting process involved the family of both potential partners, not just the... Dating
Is it a total turn off when someone asks you "what do you bring to the table" in a relationship?
Women feel completely free to bring an entire laundry-list of requirements, and every women I've ever taken out on a date has vetted me for the major items on her list. Sure, they're more subtle... Dating
Would You Take Dating Advice From The Opposite Sex?
Over the years, I've been given good advice and terrible advice from the opposite sex about dating. Generally, the good advice comes from the ones who are really grounded in reality, as harsh or... Dating
Wham! just Knocked Off Mariah Carey with #1 Christmas Song?
I think the video (or, rather, short film) played a big role in that. In the 80s, a lot of music videos were actually shot on video - standard definition analog video, but usually higher... Holidays
What do you call the last Friday before Christmas?
I call it "just another work day". I always seem to be swamped in December making it hard to get into the Christmas festivities. January is usually slow, and then it picks up again in February as... Holidays
Why are women so hard on guys who are scared of rejection (lack confidence) yet are often mean to the guys who approach them or don't approach guys?
It's because you aren't a top 2% guy. That's what they are looking for. Mostly because social media and dating apps allows women to see men literally from around the planet, they have come to... Dating
Is Christmas A Good Time To Meet Your Partner?
I don't think there is any specific time that is better or worse to meet someone - it's all going to depend on the circumstances. But it's good to take advantage of any opportunity to meet people... Holidays
What are some of your favorite holiday tv specials?
The Grinch is at the top of the heap: https://www.youtube.com/embed/3bYKkcQYb2w Holidays
Should Store Santas be Multilingual?
I'm completely finished with multiculturalism. Holidays
How do you avoid being liked for your looks alone?
You have to look at the color of his socks... LOL. The truth is that there's no shortcut "easy way" to tell unless the guy is completely obvious about liking you only for your looks - and because... Dating
Am I wrong for feeling trapped?
in my opinion, THE most important factor in relationship compatibility is that the person you are dating is LOCAL to you. Which means they could get to you within 15 minutes or less under normal... Dating
Single people, how many people do you talk to at once?
I'm not single but when I was, it was never more than one at a time. I've never lived my life for chasing women, so I never spent the amount of energy on them that is necessary to balance more... Dating
What's the point of dating if not to marry?
Most people don't take marriage seriously today because of a bunch of legal changes made since the 60s that have completely undermined marriage. It used to be that marriage was for LIFE, and... Dating
Do you believe that dating apps are useless for the majority of people?
If your goal is to find a real relationship, they are worse than pure random chance. That's because people don't use them to find relationship partners. Men mostly use them to find casual sex... Dating
Has a friend ever given you bad advice?
That's TERRIBLE advice and comes from someone who is, AT BEST, incredibly manipulative, but more likely is trying to sabotage you. This is something a lot of women do - destroy their... Dating
Why do men say they like clingy women, but when a woman is clingy she’s too much?
No man wants a clingy woman. Many men want a woman who likes to be physically close and likes physical affection, and they assume that this is what you are talking about when you say "clingy", but... Dating
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