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Anonymous
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Guys do you give flowers on the first date?

Women might say that they would like that, but if it actually happened, most would be weirded out by it, unless she already had a massive crush on the guy, which is NOT the norm. I also don't... Dating

InquisitiveObserver
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Can white guys be seriously interested in Latinas?

Most guys don't care what color your skin is - they care that you are at least somewhat attractive and fit, and they care if you have a nice personality and have a bit of respect and appreciation... Dating

coachTanthony
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Have you ever dated someone so long distance that you had to fly to see them or vice versa?

No, but when I was 20 I dated a girl for a year and drove 240 miles each way every weekend to see her, before moving to be with her. Never again. I can't say this often enough: DATE LOCALLY... Dating

Brainsbeforebeauty
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Do "game players" realize when they lost the "game" even when they "think" they won?

You'd have to be more specific, but, I think that, most of the time, they actually ARE winning - because they're playing a different game than you think they're playing, or think they SHOULD be... Dating

Anonymous
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Why do you think YOUTH is more of an importance or primary factor in attractiveness in women as opposed to men?

It's ALL about fertility . For all of history, having children was a critical part of long-term survival (at least, if you wanted to assure a comfortable end of life), because it was your... Dating

fonduegirl
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Men, would you respect it if your partner felt motherhood is a choice, not an obligation?

I absolutely believe that it is your choice. However, I also think that many people don't realize the long-term implications of that choice. You will get old, and you will become unable to... Dating

Dsg1193
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What drives the urge to have a relationship: companionship or sex drive?

Both. Obviously the sex drive is a thing, but there's far more hours in the day that you can't be having sex, and it's fantastic to have a great partner to share ALL aspects of life with. Dating

Anonymous
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Do attractive people have more options and chances to meet others and for others to want to meet them vs others that aren’t attractive?

Attractive people cast a much wider net. That means they have more high-quality options, but it means they also "catch" far more lesser-quality options too, and those all have to be sorted through. Dating

Nazgol
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Why can't love be forced?

Because we can't control or change other people . That's a hard thing for people to accept, but that's realty. And that has an impact on what you must do to both ATTRACT and to KEEP a partner,... Dating

Hellisia
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Is it rude to bring up a friend's ex when meeting their new partner?

Yes, it's rude. But it's not unusual - a lot of women can't stand to see another woman happy, even when their own lives are fine, and they'll drop little digs against her without even thinking... Dating

Dude_777
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What are some of the lamest and silliest excuses you said or heard, to cancel a date?

I've almost never had a date canceled, and of the few that did, I usually knew the reason ahead of time and expected the cancelation. I don't get all shook up over stuff like that; life happens,... Dating

Anonymous
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Men, what's more attractive in a woman--kindness or intelligence?

Kindness by far. She can be really smart or not so bright, but if she's kind, most guys will appreciate that. Smarts without kindness is useless. Dating

janbie_15
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Is it a turn off to guys if a girl is too invested into them as in if she says she misses him and their cuddles and such?

No. What is a turnoff is when a girl is so clingy and smothering that the guy can't go to work without a 20-minute goodbye, and can't run to the grocery store without her, or even spend 5 minutes... Dating

Anonymous
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Why do guys or men need to have social skills in order to get a girlfriend but girls, women don't? ?

Women have their own responsibilities - they have to be fit, dressed nice, made up, and they have to be at least a BIT social. Yes, men have their share of responsibilities, and, yes, a decent... Dating

OddBeMe
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Are you more attracted to body or mind?

I would say "personality" rather than "mind" - it's great if she's super smart, but that isn't necessary by any means. What's far more important to me is that the has a positive personality - that... Dating

Kate200005
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Are men giving up on women nowadays?

Men aren't giving up on all women, just the "modern women", who are career-driven, have masculine energy, and don't think they need to bring anything to a relationship than their presence. Modern... Dating

Anonymous
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Guys, would you date a woman who never drinks any kind of alcohol (ever) or is that a turn off?

The last time I drank (more than a sip to taste someone's drink) was 2004, at Mardi Gras in New Orleans. Dating

jennifer_bloom
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Does having a degree affect your desirability to men?

Most men (not all) do NOT care about your education or your career - those are not things we look for or consider to add value to us. Generally, the more successful the man, the less he is going... Dating

TessCasie
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Guys: is sense of humour a Top priority when dating women? what if the girl doesn’t understand your sense of humour but she good at other components?

As long as she's not offended by everything or completely clueless about humor, it's fine. She doesn't have to be funny herself or even be overly into humor - she just has to not be annoying about it. Dating

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