Meanwhile when I turned 20 I just wanted to pig out on pizza and wear whatever made me look good to attract guys, LOL. But you go young man, I mean "adult" and show them who's boss!
I tend to feel anxious because I'm overthinking about the fact that I eventually want to build a family and I stress about finding someone too late to build a family.
You're still too young to be stressing out over that. When I was your age, I was trying to finish college, get my first job, and... well find a boyfriend- okay I see your point! Haha. But the more you stress about it, the harder it will be. Just focus on yourself and other aspects of your life first, then everything else will fall into place when it's time: love and family included~
Yeah, I know I'm overthinking and that there are other things I should prioritize like jobs for now but it's something that tends to be in the back of my mind a lot.
I'm probably the oldest person on this site, I feel like I'm 25 and would still like to have sex with women that age, (I've been told that compared to me females that age are still young) I still consider myself younger than I am... It's not great personally because you feel that your no longer attractive
I wanted to have some real investments by now, not so I am rich but so I am better off than just fetting by. Every time I seem to maje progress on something happens and I basically have to start over.
I understand, same here. While I have started working on saving more (retirement plan at my job, investing in a few stocks, and trying to keep an emergency savings account), I still feel like I could do more. My parents have been harping on me to start preparing now so when I get to be their age I won't have to work or stress over money. So I'm trying but... meh, it's hard.
Life is going to happen, you just need to start promising yourself to set aside a little money every payday or month- whatever works best for you. That way you can start working towards having some investments for the future.
It's very complicated. My mom is ill, she has artritis, and none of my syblings are willing to take my place. They worked for years in a foreign country, and came back home, due to the pamdemic. One of them think I don't want to work. Yeah, well, I certainly don't have the same urge to work as him. He has 2 child's, I have none, neither a partner, but I have my mom, and it's tough when you are a caregiver. I just ignore him.
I had really good plans of opening a serigraphy business, sadly, the political uneatability would make that business really unsafe for me and my family. I would likely be forced to produce political propaganda for the government, otherwise I would go jail, with false accusations.
The plan of opening a business is still there, only that the pandemic got me worried with it's future repercussions. Is not only the political scenario I am checking out, the pandemic is also something to think about, now. I gotta be careful with the type of business I wanna start, otherwise it would fail.
I see. That is complicated to say the least; I am sorry you have all that stress put on you, and you're still so young (at least to me!)
I hope I am not out of place for asking, but is there any means of your family hiring someone else to be your mother's caregiver? For example, here we have caregiver programs where if the family or person has medical insurance, or is able to pay, various companies send caregivers to sit and tend to said patient/client all day. This enables the family to go about their lives without stressing over being at home all day or not having someone to care for their loved ones.
I hope you are one day able to get your business open and going. but yes, with this pandemic, please be careful and choose when you open it carefully.
Unfortunately no, there isn't any program for that and is extremely difficult to find someone trustworthy for the responsability of taking care of my mother. My only option is a home business.
Well minus the sex, it sounds like you're doing well and staying healthy: good on you! I know it's hard without your wife around, but the important thing for you is to keep living your life to the fullest :)
I jokingly say that... I had two surgeries last year One in the summer to remove my appendix, the second was in mid December for hernia repair near my groin
I like to celebrate my Birthdays with my friends. I don't mind because I'm often told I look younger and I don't feel myself getting older to.
Although I recently turned 40 so I got my tits clamped for the first time which really made my age catch up to me. At least it didn't make them sag like I thought it would LOL.
YES! That is the kind of attitude to have: don't look at growing older as a bad thing, but as a way to thrive and conquer anything trying to stand in your way or defeat you from progressing.
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Call me cynical but every birthday only makes me think I'm one year closer to death.
Haha, that's true. Sadly true. That is why I'm trying to stay healthy: so ideally I can live as long as possible before that happens
That's why I only drink 5 beers daily instead of 8
Sweats me a little but no big damns given.
Happy birthday to you.
Ah, getting older is no big deal. But enjoy your youth while you can!
I turned 20 and am now no longer a teenager.
I had a sudden desire to wear sweaters and look for a favourite living room chair. :)
Meanwhile when I turned 20 I just wanted to pig out on pizza and wear whatever made me look good to attract guys, LOL. But you go young man, I mean "adult" and show them who's boss!
:D :D
I tend to feel anxious because I'm overthinking about the fact that I eventually want to build a family and I stress about finding someone too late to build a family.
You're still too young to be stressing out over that. When I was your age, I was trying to finish college, get my first job, and... well find a boyfriend- okay I see your point! Haha. But the more you stress about it, the harder it will be. Just focus on yourself and other aspects of your life first, then everything else will fall into place when it's time: love and family included~
Yeah, I know I'm overthinking and that there are other things I should prioritize like jobs for now but it's something that tends to be in the back of my mind a lot.
I'm probably the oldest person on this site, I feel like I'm 25 and would still like to have sex with women that age, (I've been told that compared to me females that age are still young) I still consider myself younger than I am... It's not great personally because you feel that your no longer attractive
I feel a little giddy when people stop ignoring my existence.
Happy birthday, Cyn!
Who would ignore you anon? You're awesome! It must be your name- they think you're anonymous, therefore they don't know you exist! LOL
Thank you~
I've gotten much less optimistic and pessimistic, and more realistic about basically everything in life over time.
And I stopped caring about birthdays by my 24th.
Happy Belated birthday. As I get older I feel like I haven't accomplished as much as I would like. It's not for a lack of trying.
Oh, why is that? What are some things you want to try or feel like you haven't accomplished yet?
Also, thank you! :)
I wanted to have some real investments by now, not so I am rich but so I am better off than just fetting by. Every time I seem to maje progress on something happens and I basically have to start over.
I understand, same here. While I have started working on saving more (retirement plan at my job, investing in a few stocks, and trying to keep an emergency savings account), I still feel like I could do more. My parents have been harping on me to start preparing now so when I get to be their age I won't have to work or stress over money. So I'm trying but... meh, it's hard.
Life is going to happen, you just need to start promising yourself to set aside a little money every payday or month- whatever works best for you. That way you can start working towards having some investments for the future.
Despite been unemployed with no chance of actually moving from my city, I am grateful to know that I have at least completed my carrier.
Good for you! I know being unemployed sucks, but hopefully you will find something soon. I know this epidemic isn't helping matters
It's very complicated. My mom is ill, she has artritis, and none of my syblings are willing to take my place. They worked for years in a foreign country, and came back home, due to the pamdemic. One of them think I don't want to work. Yeah, well, I certainly don't have the same urge to work as him. He has 2 child's, I have none, neither a partner, but I have my mom, and it's tough when you are a caregiver. I just ignore him.
I had really good plans of opening a serigraphy business, sadly, the political uneatability would make that business really unsafe for me and my family. I would likely be forced to produce political propaganda for the government, otherwise I would go jail, with false accusations.
The plan of opening a business is still there, only that the pandemic got me worried with it's future repercussions. Is not only the political scenario I am checking out, the pandemic is also something to think about, now. I gotta be careful with the type of business I wanna start, otherwise it would fail.
I see. That is complicated to say the least; I am sorry you have all that stress put on you, and you're still so young (at least to me!)
I hope I am not out of place for asking, but is there any means of your family hiring someone else to be your mother's caregiver? For example, here we have caregiver programs where if the family or person has medical insurance, or is able to pay, various companies send caregivers to sit and tend to said patient/client all day. This enables the family to go about their lives without stressing over being at home all day or not having someone to care for their loved ones.
I hope you are one day able to get your business open and going. but yes, with this pandemic, please be careful and choose when you open it carefully.
Unfortunately no, there isn't any program for that and is extremely difficult to find someone trustworthy for the responsability of taking care of my mother. My only option is a home business.
Lucky to be alive. I had a double bypass done almost 2 years ago.
Oh wow! Yes sir you are VERY lucky to be alive! I am glad you are still here and hopefully enjoying life to the fullest!!!
Thank you. Evern more fortunate that I decided to drive myself to the ER since I live alone.
honestly other than a few pains caughted by a surgery in 2018, i don't feel any different than when is was 35
ok and bad spelling lol
Haha, no worries! I promise I won't hold it against you :)
And good for you! I hope I feel that way when I get your age as well! Keep on living sir~
no plans to do otherwise Darlin. wife passed away fen 2018, I've been sad. but still trying to keep in shape. only without the sex so far. lol
Well minus the sex, it sounds like you're doing well and staying healthy: good on you!
I know it's hard without your wife around, but the important thing for you is to keep living your life to the fullest :)
i'm trying very hard to do just that. but i do miss sex lol. July 23rd i'm having neck surgery again. had it done in dec 2018 they screwed it up
Happy birthday and it is okay
The older you be and the more you learn
Thank you! And you are so right; I feel like I have so much more to learn~
That’s a good way of looking at it
You’re welcome 😊
Happy bd! Mine is in December, so I know how you feel...
Thank you Legal! :)
Pfft, please, you're only 43, soon to be 44. That's still pretty young sir~
@Cynicaldreamer dont call me sir, makes me feel older :( trying to inbox you too..
Sorry, it's habit. I call anyone older than I am sir or ma'am; blame my folks for raising me to be respectful, lol.
And my messages are off because I barely check them! Hang on... I'll turn it on just for you
@Cynicaldreamer Im not that much older!
Happy birthday, I don't really celebrate my birthday, since I was like 17
Haha, same. I mean my friends and family do stuff for me, but as for me going out and doing anything special? Not really.
I don't have many friends and family is far away, so I end up stuff myself and calling it a day, haha
I'll be 32 in December this year...
I am starting to feel old
At 32? I started feeling old at 30, but realized age really is a number. So now I just don't stress over it as much
Buckle up dude, it's all downhill from here! LOL
@Tamera952 LOL, give the poor guy a little hope about getting older so you don't scare him too bad
I jokingly say that...
I had two surgeries last year
One in the summer to remove my appendix, the second was in mid December for hernia repair near my groin
The older I get the better I get and I'm sure it's the same for you
I do! I always thought I would feel worse with age but nope! Quite the opposite!
Your just getting better with time
Like fine wine~
I like to celebrate my Birthdays with my friends. I don't mind because I'm often told I look younger and I don't feel myself getting older to.
Although I recently turned 40 so I got my tits clamped for the first time which really made my age catch up to me. At least it didn't make them sag like I thought it would LOL.
I feel, accomplished!! I conquered another year. I am still standing. I have not given up, like I have often wanted to.
YES! That is the kind of attitude to have: don't look at growing older as a bad thing, but as a way to thrive and conquer anything trying to stand in your way or defeat you from progressing.
Yessss 🤩🤩🤩
Happy Birthday 🎂 no cause can’t wait to see what happen next. Though year 21 sucks though we’re doing better.
Thank you!!!
21- I remember that year; it sucked, LOL. I promise your 20s get better, they really do
Your Welcome that’s what heard from ex partner. Lol. That what she told me.
LOL! See, everyone knows the 20s suck!!!
It gets better around your late 20s, and by the time you hit 30? It's all uphill girl~
I will lol.
No real answer cos I want to get older but happy birthday