My guy friend ( 22 M) and I ( 23 F) have been best-friends for almost 2 years. In the beginning of our friend ship everything was normal in a way, like he didn’t treat me any other way besides treating me like a friend. Recently in the past year, while I was in a relationship with my ex boyfriend , I noticed he would get jealous when I tried to make other guy friends. which to me was normal , who wouldn’t get jealous of there friends making other friends? Right? Anyways then I started noticing that he would call me my love. A month & an half past, I told him how my ex boyfriend cheated on me , etc. Right after I told him that , everything changed between him and I, in a sense that he he would say “ te amo “ , he would also call me love , sweetheart, my girl , etc. Recently I also noticed he told me to tell other guys to F off. I don’t know if any of this is normal in a friendship between a guy and a girl.
He seems conflicted and possessive. He seemingly cares for you. He may have recently discovered how much (jealousy). If he desired that your previous relationship fail then that would concern me greatly. You are there so you know the dynamic. It’s always good to proceed with caution. 🙂
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I wouldn't call getting jealous of your friend making other friends "normal". Also the way he's treating you is not how a friend normally treats their friend. He definitely likes you so you should ask him about it.
First and for most, it’s not normal to get jealous of your friends, friends. Secondly he definitely sounds like he has a thing for you
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It's not normal and he wants to be more than just friends but he's afraid of telling you.
Not normal at all
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