Yes, I Am Young And Attractive...So What? (Page 2)
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You know I'm a guy who hates the glimmer that girls put on them selfs and end up being identical to each other.
What I find attractive and outstanding among girls who are effortlessly beautiful beside their appearance is their big heart.
Just work on your skill for being unconditionally helpful and caring, that will help you stand out of a crowd.
What I mean by that is not the posts about how good you are on Instagram, but really be open to people offline.
It's hard to do because many people consider it as easy to get, but it's not.
isn't your username part of Across The Universe by The Beatles?
Thank you!
@Schrodingerscat it is) "Nothing gonna change my world")
I'm the kind of guy who assume that any girl in a party is neither already in a relationship or tired of guys annoying her, so i keep away and even when i know that's not really the case i preffer to avoid troubles, but reading the feelings of someone who is on the other side of that treatment, geez is rough... i'm sorry for not being able to say something better...
It’s alright, have a lovely day😊
Thanks... Although i feel i should be the one wishing you to have a good day, haha
I feel like I can relate to some of these things you said, in a straight guy kind of way.
If it helps, knowing myself, I feel like a lot of guys would be all right if you put yourself out there to them. Be careful, but give things a try more. Maybe try dating guys more around your age too if you're okay with that.
I agree with the fact that it is hard to find the guys that want a relationship. I have never liked when women stare at me in public though. It feels strange for some reason. I think that joining a cam site is a profession for some women. However, you do already know that beauty can't last forever. Please make a plan to get out of the industry if you have already entered it.
I don't mind when women stare at me in public but I just wish they would say something.
I think I might have something to offer... To you..
I did something new with this girl..
She didn't showed me her face or any physical feature about her..
Our conversation friendship was all but words..
And it has been amazing so far..
I am a level 100 pervert and she had made me realize that "A man and a woman can simply be friends" now I always look forward to talk to her..
So how about you pick
A telegram
Or email or anything else that does tells me your physical criteria and let's talk..
Just a valuable quality conversation..
Let me know whatever you choose..
Well, if you eat properly, exercise regularly and just take care of yourself in general, then you can still look really hit as you age. Look at Salma Hayek. She's past 50 and still hot. And if it were hot guys trying to smash you instead of creepy guys, I doubt you would mind it too much lol. But srs, not everyone wants to be in a relationship, but similarly, not everyone hitting on you only wants a one night stand
Stop posting takes like this! Nobody assumes that just because you have one thing going for you, that you have zero problems! Everyone’s got their own set of circumstances, and a unique set of both benefits and detriments come with each and every single circumstance, since every person’s circumstances are completely different. No two are the same.
You better find your alpha male and lock him ASAP before you hit the wall. That can only be accomplished while in your prime. Many former hot women fool themselves into thinking their hotness steak will never end and they can keep playing the game trying to one up the ladder of mate quality. Before they know it they hit the wall and end up only being able to land a beta male that they resent the rest of their life because they know at one time they did better.
Try to live an honest life, get an honest job, make honest decisions, and over time you will get an honest guy. Don't focus on your beauty, you did nothing to get it; do things at your own pace and good luck!
So... you seem to have a lot of hangups with it. You don't sound too attractive to me. Maybe you're pretty but like you said you have ego issues. You can be the hottest girl in the world but you'll always feel this way if you need validation.
The attention you get is empty and that's why the lonlyness sets in, it's like going to a fast food place when really you need a proper meal, it will scratch an itch but once you've finished it won't satisfy you like you need.
My advice, focus on who you are and not what you look like.
Good take, also like 500% likely I would stare at you. Not sure if that makes you feel better, I don't know what else to say really.
Thank you sweetheart.
No problem! :*
Sounds like you have a lot of issues you need to resolve, beyond what GaG can do for you. Too much of your self-image is tied up in your physical appearance and how others react to it. So yes, unless you do something to change that you will be in for a rough time as you get older.
Interesting. I am ugly af and I always thought that being beautiful as a girl solve 80% of your problems. But apparently it's not so. It also creates new problems.
But honestly, I'd rather be more attractive if given a choice 🤷
"I am ugly af..."
Incorrect
Being attractive does indeed bring a new set of problems to the table: people being jealous, unwanted attention, people being suspicious that any advances in life were unearned, etc.
I have grown up around people who were deformed. I assure you, being unattractive brings *more* problems to the table, and generally they're problems of greater magnitude: people mocking you, no attention at all, loneliness, people more suspicious of you in general (the opposite of the halo effect... it's real, people).
@Bluemax You're right. I wish it wasn't like this. At least I try not to discriminate on basis of looks. But it's years and years of conditioning
Interesting. Genuinely interesting.
You'd think that being attractive has generally pretty much only advantages but then this stuff comes up. I didn't think about the things you mentioned.
Hehe Glad to hear that.
insightful. I know women have an entirely different experience than men do, yet I can’t get my mind around why it should be so different. It sounds like your able to see through a ton of bs, but are trapped by it just the same. In that regard, I wonder if we’d be better off if we couldn’t see, and just be trapped.
I could go on go for volumes about this stuff
To be honest, and this will infuriate people, your angst, and all the doubts and second-guessing and distrust if men, is the result of feminist teaching.
Feminism started with a great idea. Girls and women should not be denied the opportunity to do things just because it wasn't a "feminine" thing to do.
Butg it was an uphill struggle. Men in positions of power, and the boys who aspired to fill those positions, worked to keep girls and women out.
The feminists, in order to address that resistance decided to de-emphasize femininity. It was a good mechanism. By eliminating femininity they made it difficult for the men in power to claim that there was an intrisic difference.
I wouldn't worry about it or overthink it. Just do what makes you feel good. Just go hit the bars, get laid, feel guilty about it and then get back to your studies. Relationships are shyt anyways; you aren't missing anything.
Self doubt can hurt you --just be yourself and you will grow stronger.
Thank you!
"I feel blessed about my body, especially as an Asian girl."
Now that's interesting. I was married to an Asian girl. I'm going to ask, and I feel she would also ask, why "especially to an Asian girl?"
I forgot to mention that I'm skinny. Because there's a stereotypical concept that all skinny Asians girls are flat with "pancake-flat" butts, with no hips.
I see.
I believe if something happened that rendered you unattractive, you wouldn't be asking the rhetorical question "so what?"
Just live your life and focus on your goals and hobbies, the good stuff. Nobody said life is supposed to be easy.