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My boyfriend choked me until I experienced something what's called "tunnel vision" he now tells me to "get the fuck over it" because I didn't die? (Page 2)
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You were about to faint. Its happened to me before. You just go to sleep for a little bit.
Do the obvious.. which is to call the police and leave him.
Aside from that if it ever does happen to you again, simply play possum by pretending to be knocked out. Then keep pretending for a good minute. Whomever is doing it should surely let go of you unless they want you dead.
You're both toxic people. You acted irrationally and so did he. Just breakup by phone and have no contact with each other. Block his phone number, Facebook whatever.
I wish it was that easy
It will be REAL easy when you're dead. So , do it now before THAT happens.
So? What's the question !!! Your bf is a sick douche !!! So yea leave him before he starts abusing you everyday or get over it !!! This makes me sick !!! Why would you be with such a guy!!!
better question, why is he with such a violent, deranged girl who commits assault and battery "attacked him with all my strength" over a text message?
I made it clear to him that texting other girls on Facebook was not ok he deliberately went against that
this dude is right !!! Lol
Why did you attack him, you should have talke to him instead. We're not animals.
Still if a girl would attack me I would never choke him to death. Gentlemans rule, you never hit a girl. I would hold her hands until she calm down and them we could talk about it.
You attacked him first so you are in no way a victim. You both seem horrible together and I wouldn't call the cops because if you did you should be right beside him getting arrested also. You both seem terrible together
Him choking you was wrong but you shouldn't have attacked him. You can't just attack people because they are cheating on you. Regardless both of you need to get out of the relationship. If you feel the need to attack someone over a text instead of you know talking it out like normal people then you don't need to be in a relationship.
So shouldn't he be right now your ex bf and spending time in jail for attempted murder? The fact that he said "if your not dead after me hitting you, you're find babe" what the fuck? should be enough reason to freaking worry about your safety.
Whoever downvote me... sorry but choking someone is attempted murder and mocking someone how they got lucky they didn't end up dying is sick. That goes way beyond defending yourself.
Dump him NOW. He is abusive psycho who will probably kill you one day. Do you have any brothers, cousins, or other male relatives who can warn him off?
I don't have any brothers and my cousins live in another state :(
problem is it's a provoked attack, however choking in retaliation is NOT ok... so either way take it to the police, find a nicer guy, if yah need to vent or talk about it, just message me i'm all ears or eyes, or whatever you'd consider it.
"attacked him with all my strength"
She attacked him first.
o. o i know, it was a provoked attack, he was being an ass so she retaliated.
So using physical violence against someone because you don't like how they behave is ok, or because you don't like the word coming out of their mouth? WTF! He retaliated because she attacked him WITH ALL HER STRENGTH!
Oh my God this is disgusting. Get out of the house right now and go to your parents house or family's house seriously.
Yes, listen to this, Asker. It is disgusting, I find it intolerable and hard not to kill a man for any physical violence toward a woman, go away from him, and tell someone.
maybe next time the ask a question first? like 'who is this girl who called you babe?" then leave him. oh and if he's choking you, you need to GTFO of that relationship
He was wrong to choke you. However, why did you attack him with all your strength? What is it with girls who think it's okay to hit their boyfriends? That being said, you need to end the relationship with him. You're both toxic people.
He was hiding things from me and I finally had enough so I hit him :( I tried to end it today but it didn't work. I know I need to see a councilor
It doesn't matter what he does. If you were fed up with him and his lies, you should have just dumped him, as you should now. Of course that didn't give him the right to choke you. I just don't get why certain girls think they can smack around their boyfriends. I've been with my boyfriend for six years now. There have been times when he has really pissed me off, but I have never once hit him. Next time you get in a relationship, first of all make sure he isn't an asshole and secondly, never ever hit him if he pisses you off.
Girls shouldn't hit unless they want to be hit back. If you can't take it don't dish it. I'd never hit a guy knowing that legally by law he can hit me back. I'd leave though.
The problem is he didn't just hit her back, he choked her till she practically couldn't breathe. That's really attempted murder.
If you feel as if your life is in danger by law you can do whatever it is you feel necessary to sustain your life. That's pretty much the law. If the asker wants pity she won't get it from me. I'm not saying abuse is Ok. but this isn't abuse. It's self defense technically.
You both are in the wrong, but if he choked you till you almost passed out you should leave the guy. Clearly.
this is an abuse, instead of taking time to explain who's that girl and why they are texting to begin with.. he decided instead to get physical with you?
i say step back and stop answering his calls for a while. deactivate your Facebook if you are friends with him.
if he doesn't learn how to appreciate you then better move on. they are better guys out there
You both are NO good for each other. You just need to explain this to him. It's good that you want out, hopefully he feels the same way.
God how are you now? That bastard is fucking sick call 911
I'm getting better slowly but surely :( I couldn't eat anything for hours because it would hurt my throat
NEVER see him again. Call the police, he can't hurt you in jail.
But what if he gets out of jail?
Learn to protect yourself
What do you mean by: "Attacked him with all my strength"? That is not okay either. But, what he did needs to be reported, since it's so serious you could have died. You need to leave him, now.
I was fed up with his lying and I punched him in the face with all my strength he knew I wouldn't accept his mistake then it got crazy
Go to the police station and report this. They will give you support and justice.
What a toxic relationship. Pain and pleasure shouldn't mix...
pain and pleasure most definitely go well together... it's pleasure and abuse that does not.
It does not
lols
Plan meticulosly. Pull a quiet Katie holme but make sure he doesn't know where to find you.
Ok I am not sure why you attacked him and threw his phone in the first place. You were wrong in that. He was wrong to even put up with your shit and choke you. You both are crazy as hell