My girlfriend doesn't respect my feelings!!! HELP!! :( ?

[philanthropist]

Hi... frndz... I just want to say.. that my girlfriend doesn't respect my feelings... n keep on hurting me... even I talk to her about my hurted feeling many times.. but she keeps on saying that she can't help and feel guilty about not giving me the complete happiness I deserves. She says she can't help and suggest me to move on if I want. She started crying after saying this..

BT how can I leave her... I love her.. I m in a big trouble please help me... I m tried of doing compromise again n again in this relationship... how could I get her back.. how could I make her want more respect my feeling? :(

should i leave her

should i stay with her and wait for her

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Help please.. why my girlfriend is doing this to me?

[mobilefrequenter]

If she's telling you that she can't give you what you need, she's trying her best and really just can't help you. She isn't as in touch with her feelings as you are, and she really just doesn't even understand where you're coming from in order to change her ways. As much as you love her, it doesn't sound like she's the right fit for you.

[LunarLight]

Could you give some examples of her not respecting your feelings and situations where she has hurt you? I need to get some more perspective on this before I answer.

[philanthropist]

From the past one year... she completed her graduation and move to a far universtiy... whenevr she goes there after enjoying her vacation, she never calls me... she just do few msgs on fb.. twice or thrice in a week... that's makes me feel she is not interested... I talk to her about this... many times... BT she keeps on doing d same... saying I can't help this... u can move on if u want and started crying...
On my birthday , i want her to be d first person to call me bt she does not even call me.. to wish me... whole day...:(... that's really hurt me...

On asking why does not u call me... her answer remains d same...

[LunarLight]

Personally I would move on and find someone who does those things naturally because they want to. It does seem she is being insensitive and isn't as into the relationship as you are. Maybe her saying you can move on is her way of saying this isn't working out either. You will find someone better suited :-)

[fun-weird-guy]

First of all learn hot to spell and use grammar better that way it would make more sense. Also better wording would help. You can not make someone respect you. They should ant to respect you on their own or it means they do not respect you if you have to make them respect you.

[Nathand]

females don't care about a guys feelings. Its always and only about themselves.