Well, it's funny, the "rules" only seem to apply to certain guys. Some guys, the sort of suave don't-give-a-fuck guys who are funny, they can do whatever they want and still have girls offering them pussy. Most guys, though, have to jump through quite a few hoops to make girls happy, especially the young ones. They give up a lot of those unrealistic expectations when they get older.
I just want a guy to like me. Most don't because I am not attractive. If there is one who does like me, he hasn't told me. So far though, I've never been in a relationship. If a guy ever wants to be with me, I'll never expect anything from him except mutual love and respect. I make good money myself, I don't care about money.
@bubblegumlover99 ... You certainly seem to have a balanced & mature head on your shoulders for 16 , I would say the honest answer is a resounding yes. The poison from the " media " has a huge effect , especially on you ladies. My own 9 yr old daughter stated " I love being a girl , we get treated better & get more stuff ! " Can't argue there at all !!
Not really. Girls that age don't ask much. Unless it is a special case. Even women in their twenties and thirties don't ask that much these days. So this girl is the exception rather than the rule.
I think you should not generalize all women. Some Men and women expect too much from their partner which is why some men and women stay single because they think the person is not good enough for them
Yes, girls expect too much from guys. Anyway, that answer of "y'all expect to much... before his main concern is you" is wrong also, because the main concern of a man should never (and will never) be his wife, no matter how romantic that sounds.
right now its a weird time in history. the relationship dynamics between men and women are at a pivoting point and many men are finding women to be obsolete for anything other then sex and reproductive purposes.
What the fuck? That's all relationships have ever been about. There's a reason that generations past have had life so easy and it's because they were part of a two income system. Nobody short of a doctor or lawyer can responsibly raise a child in a one parent system so we cohabited. Now women believe they're strong enough to take on the world and things men have known for generations can't be done on their own. It's all posturing by feminist leaders and setting boys up from failure from Pre-K.
@Gommers well I think relationships in the past worked more like a small company rather then how it is today so I think relationships have changed a lot since then. I agree with you on everything else.
I agree. I think relationships are at their worst point right now due to equality. Everything is in flux. People are changing. Maybe in another generation when the dust from these changes has settled down life will be easier. Sort of like how it was before but in reverse.
@heartattack25 You think relationships are at it's worse due to equality? What about me as a woman getting respect? Is that not as important as men trying to control me:/
Of course they werent respected fool. Only blind people think women in the past that had their lives planned out for them, told they couldnt get a job except be a teacher or be baby maker, sold to rich men, and many many more believe that
@CapricornSwagL common misconception men were paid to marry women because women were a liability in the past. its not like that now because we have modern technology. also yes women were respected don't be so naïve.
Lol suuuureee they were respected. Women were raped (like now except we are blamed for it) in those days men didn't have or need a reason to pretend like it was the woman's fault. There's sooo many things men got away with in those days. You would pretend those women were treated right. Also if they were treated soo good, feminist wouldn't have needed a reason to fight for equal rights. They were basically trash
@CapricornSwagL feminist never fought for equality they fought for special privilege that even men were not granted which is why we live in the feminized world today. women now have more legal rights and protections than men and its due to feminist fighting for unequal laws in society. also life was shitty in the old days that doesn't really mean anything though because it was shitty all the way around for everybody. men were treated poorly the same as women. if you really think the majority of men would allow their mothers and sisters to be abused then you have a very skewed outlook on men in general and you need to deal with your own issues. you're still young id get on this so it doesn't effect your adult life.
@CapricornSwagL well I do live in reality and I am educated so I know a lot about a lot of things. in the western world that we live in women have more rights and privileges then men and at the same time have less responsibilities. this in no way is good for a civilization long term and we are already seeing the consequences of such short sighted thought that feminist have brought to the forefront of modern politics and social norms.
@CapricornSwagL that was accomplished a half century ago. for the last fifty years feminism has done more harm then good. it may seem silly to quote a batman movie but sometimes the hero can live long enough to become the villain and that is the current status of feminism and its lobby.
Well I disagree. Some women still aren't getting paid the same amount as men, people are STILL trying to control our bodies, the world holds double standards, and more. Can't deny that
I am an adult and my facts on life have helped me better than pretending women aren't treated terrible. Because of my way of thinking, I demand respect everywhere I go. That's include being treated fairly.
I hate the sence e of entitlement many girls have nowaday. Like a girl who is really fugly in our grade was saying that this guy she was asked about was to fat when he is only chubby but she is really obese. Also, some girls bring nothing to the table really but a pussy and expect a big dick, money, a good job, money to spend on them, and etc. I know some a lot of guys expect good looks and a good body, but that's not an overwhelming amount of things
I can't say all girls expect lot from a guy but will say some want things that their boyfriends can't afford to give them but i look for real love within a girl that means more to me but if she wants lot things she would have to wait..
Relationships now are based more on what you can give for her than if you can both feel good together and have a shoulder to cry on or a companion to keep you going in life.
Not just these days, it's always been like that. It's getting very tiring. If you're not at least 6'5, rich, hot, incredibly dominant and assertive, you won't even get as much as a passing glance from 99% of women.
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The problem is that feminists have emasculated men, and now women can never get what they really want - a manly man.
Those girls that are demanding these things see how their mothers get spoilt by the father and expect the same treatment from some broke teenager #Unrealistic
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Yes, they do. A lot of girls are far too picky and demanding.
I agree with this!
Well, it's funny, the "rules" only seem to apply to certain guys. Some guys, the sort of suave don't-give-a-fuck guys who are funny, they can do whatever they want and still have girls offering them pussy. Most guys, though, have to jump through quite a few hoops to make girls happy, especially the young ones. They give up a lot of those unrealistic expectations when they get older.
I just want a guy to like me. Most don't because I am not attractive. If there is one who does like me, he hasn't told me. So far though, I've never been in a relationship. If a guy ever wants to be with me, I'll never expect anything from him except mutual love and respect. I make good money myself, I don't care about money.
@bubblegumlover99 ... You certainly seem to have a balanced & mature head on your shoulders for 16 , I would say the honest answer is a resounding yes. The poison from the " media " has a huge effect , especially on you ladies. My own 9 yr old daughter stated " I love being a girl , we get treated better & get more stuff ! " Can't argue there at all !!
Not really. Girls that age don't ask much. Unless it is a special case. Even women in their twenties and thirties don't ask that much these days. So this girl is the exception rather than the rule.
I think you should not generalize all women. Some Men and women expect too much from their partner which is why some men and women stay single because they think the person is not good enough for them
i just expect mutual respect. yes it's nice to be spoilt sometimes but i don't expect that and it's not a condition or basis for a relationship.
Yes, girls expect too much from guys. Anyway, that answer of "y'all expect to much... before his main concern is you" is wrong also, because the main concern of a man should never (and will never) be his wife, no matter how romantic that sounds.
Then what should it be according to you?
Himself. Same with a woman. We aren't sacrificing our happiness for anyone else, even though we may share it with them.
right now its a weird time in history. the relationship dynamics between men and women are at a pivoting point and many men are finding women to be obsolete for anything other then sex and reproductive purposes.
What the fuck? That's all relationships have ever been about. There's a reason that generations past have had life so easy and it's because they were part of a two income system. Nobody short of a doctor or lawyer can responsibly raise a child in a one parent system so we cohabited. Now women believe they're strong enough to take on the world and things men have known for generations can't be done on their own. It's all posturing by feminist leaders and setting boys up from failure from Pre-K.
@Gommers well I think relationships in the past worked more like a small company rather then how it is today so I think relationships have changed a lot since then. I agree with you on everything else.
I agree. I think relationships are at their worst point right now due to equality. Everything is in flux. People are changing. Maybe in another generation when the dust from these changes has settled down life will be easier. Sort of like how it was before but in reverse.
@heartattack25 You think relationships are at it's worse due to equality? What about me as a woman getting respect? Is that not as important as men trying to control me:/
@CapricornSwagL are you saying women were not respected in the past? I think yours foolish
Of course they werent respected fool. Only blind people think women in the past that had their lives planned out for them, told they couldnt get a job except be a teacher or be baby maker, sold to rich men, and many many more believe that
@CapricornSwagL common misconception men were paid to marry women because women were a liability in the past. its not like that now because we have modern technology. also yes women were respected don't be so naïve.
Lol suuuureee they were respected. Women were raped (like now except we are blamed for it) in those days men didn't have or need a reason to pretend like it was the woman's fault. There's sooo many things men got away with in those days. You would pretend those women were treated right. Also if they were treated soo good, feminist wouldn't have needed a reason to fight for equal rights. They were basically trash
@CapricornSwagL feminist never fought for equality they fought for special privilege that even men were not granted which is why we live in the feminized world today. women now have more legal rights and protections than men and its due to feminist fighting for unequal laws in society. also life was shitty in the old days that doesn't really mean anything though because it was shitty all the way around for everybody. men were treated poorly the same as women. if you really think the majority of men would allow their mothers and sisters to be abused then you have a very skewed outlook on men in general and you need to deal with your own issues. you're still young id get on this so it doesn't effect your adult life.
Wow. I can't believe you actually believe that smh. Ok
@CapricornSwagL well I do live in reality and I am educated so I know a lot about a lot of things. in the western world that we live in women have more rights and privileges then men and at the same time have less responsibilities. this in no way is good for a civilization long term and we are already seeing the consequences of such short sighted thought that feminist have brought to the forefront of modern politics and social norms.
Omg dude feminist are helping women (me) get treated like a human being. The only privileges we haveare ones that does not matter
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that was accomplished a half century ago. for the last fifty years feminism has done more harm then good. it may seem silly to quote a batman movie but sometimes the hero can live long enough to become the villain and that is the current status of feminism and its lobby.
Well I disagree. Some women still aren't getting paid the same amount as men, people are STILL trying to control our bodies, the world holds double standards, and more. Can't deny that
@CapricornSwagL I deny it 100% none of what you said is true. the wage gap is a myth and nobody is trying to control womens bodies.
Lol ok. Whatever you say
@CapricornSwagL again your denial of reality and the world around you will effect you negatively in your adult life.
I am an adult and my facts on life have helped me better than pretending women aren't treated terrible. Because of my way of thinking, I demand respect everywhere I go. That's include being treated fairly.
@CapricornSwagL women are treated more then fairly. they are treated as a protected class leagally
Not true but ok. Agree to disagree
@CapricornSwagL no we can agree that you are in denial of reality. that's the only thing we agree on
Lmao ok
I hate the sence e of entitlement many girls have nowaday. Like a girl who is really fugly in our grade was saying that this guy she was asked about was to fat when he is only chubby but she is really obese. Also, some girls bring nothing to the table really but a pussy and expect a big dick, money, a good job, money to spend on them, and etc. I know some a lot of guys expect good looks and a good body, but that's not an overwhelming amount of things
I suppose sometimes, I do. But I'm sure some guys expect too much from girls, too.
I can't say all girls expect lot from a guy but will say some want things that their boyfriends can't afford to give them but i look for real love within a girl that means more to me but if she wants lot things she would have to wait..
LOL!!!
I actually think they do not demand nearly enough :)
Relationships now are based more on what you can give for her than if you can both feel good together and have a shoulder to cry on or a companion to keep you going in life.
Not just these days, it's always been like that. It's getting very tiring. If you're not at least 6'5, rich, hot, incredibly dominant and assertive, you won't even get as much as a passing glance from 99% of women.
The problem is that feminists have emasculated men, and now women can never get what they really want - a manly man.
Those girls that are demanding these things see how their mothers get spoilt by the father and expect the same treatment from some broke teenager #Unrealistic
Yup very true
But when i was that age i never experienced that.. maybe i just had a good crowd.. we all shared what we had
Young women have always been unreasonable from the dawn of time.
They get more reasonable with time and experience.