My boyfriend hit me for the first time? (Page 2)
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He's already shown you that he's capable of physical abuse. I'd end it now, this oh I'm sorry baby it'll never happen again is bullshit girl. If you do stay which I'm sure you will don't put up with any kind of abuse.
I think it's time to break up, if he kicked you just for throwing his controller then just imagine what he'd do to you if you actually got into a real argument.
There is only one situation in which it would have been acceptable for him to strike you, this was not it.
This isn't the sort of thing you want to take chances on.
A toxic or even abusive relationship can make your life horrible for years to come.
There should be no first time.
Saying that you made him do it is stupid as fuck and not an apology.
You have good reason to be concerned. The guy could have called the police or sued you if you had broken his remote or whatever. But he chose to kick you instead. I would think long and hard before getting in a permanent situation such as marriage.
That's the way it starts. This is a man child so get rid of him if you value you time. Or get rid of him some years from now and regret the time you've lost.
It seems you both are too immature to be in a relationship. I can only see it now - "Immature couple gets arrested" on the TV show 'Cops'.
That's a hard thing to ask. I guess I would have to ask how has he behaved in other arguments?
What you did was not right and he was not right to kick you also, Just learn from your mistakes.
u got violent first but both were out of line.
if you beleive in equality and you hit him, he's allowed to hit you back
Well depends on how much control you think he has. If he can't control his anger... Then he may do it again even if he doesn't want to.
You are both toxic, I'd break up with you honestly.
If someone hits you hit them back. First rule of 3rd grade.
Her hits won't do anything but make him even more upset..
What's the second rule then?
U can give him a chance, but if he did again, you should leave him.
you both is immature idiot, he hit you but you don't have to break this things.
Do you have an idea who expensive is a joystick it's normal it goes crazy. It's the first time he hit you it's not a big deal as long as it don't hit you anymore.
It doesn't matter how expensive a joystick is? Even if she broke it entirely, that still doesn't give him the right to kick her. It was wrong of her to throw it but it was even more wrong of him to resort to violence. It IS a big deal when your partner hits you, even for the first time. The fact that you're willing to brush off physical abuse is not only worrying, but downright disgusting. One time is one too many.
the price does matter do you know how hard it is to find a job and make money? If my boyfriends break or try to break an expensive things I buy, I'll just hit him.
When your parents hit you because you don't listen to them or broke an important things it's not physical abuse it's normal so I don't see where is the problem.
My parents never hit me or even threatened to hit me. It's not normal. Breaking something doesn't justify getting hit. Scolded yes, but not hit.
I live on my own, and I have a job, so I do know what it's like to get a job and make money, thanks. If someone intentionally broke something of mine, I'd be pissed for sure. But I would never resort to violence, because I'm actually not a pathetic caveman with no self-control or respect for others.
@lumos the person who intentionally broke something is a pathetic caveman with no self-control or respect for others and I'll not blame the person who slap them. It's normal for parent to hit, slap their child when he don't listen to them my parent did it with me when I was younger. I don't see where is the problem.
The problem is that he's not her parent and she is not a child. It was wrong of her to throw it but nowhere did she say that she actually broke it. And again, that's not an excuse to hit someone.
it's the first time he beat her that's not a big deal, she can give him a second chance
you two obviously dont work for eachother. i like videogames too and if my girlfriend would not be ok with that, she would not be my girlfriend
It doesn't seem like the asker isn't okay with her boyfriend being a gamer, she just doesn't appreciate him leaving her with all the chores to do while he sits around and plays video games.
If he hits you once he will hurt you again.
If you give me his address I'll kick his ass
I love guys that protect women. ^_^ It's so comforting.
This video game shit needs to stop