Each person is different but if it makes you uncomfortable talk about it, my boyfriend was doing same thing liking girtls covered in tattoos in revealing clothes on facebook, I have tattoos but only small ones and he's covered in tattoos and i always figured i wasn't the right style of girl he wanted and sure enough i was right, didn't work out, but could have saved me time and heartbreak if I talked about those pictures and didn't waste time if I wasn't what he really wanted
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I think you have every right to be jealous, that's disrespectful. People like to say "oh he's just looking, that's what guys do" but that's still taking away from you and your relationship because he's spending his time looking at girls like that instead of you. It's not realistic to expect someone to never be attracted to other people or to never look at someone else but there needs to be boundaries because that's not fair to you or your feelings.
Have you talked to him about it yet. That sends up some big red flags. I feel it's disrespectful of him to do that, he has you. There's no reason for him to be looking at girls on Instagram like that, let alone adding them. Makes me wonder if it's only a matter of time before he cheats.. I say, confront him and go from there.
I don't really care. It's just pictures. Everyone has eyes you Know?
It's not like he's out hitting on other bitches
your are beautiful, if i was your boyfriend my fingers would be all over you and not the keyboard typing on instagram. in fact. i would throw the pc out of the window and get down to admiring you and not trying to chat up girls, no man needs anyone else but someone like you. some guys are so blind not to see a beautiful woman like you right in front of them.
Some jealousy is normal... sounds like a normal reaction. Have you tried talking to him about it? Like bringing it up in a casual, somewhat joking kind of way? Based on how he responds you might be able to tell if it's a big issue or not. Does that make sense?
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Not a big deal, he's just looking. Although I think most guys who are into adding tons of girls like that on Instagram are generally shitty people.
But you know what? If one of those girls tried being mean to you and saying "he liked MY picture on instagram" You could just as easily say "Well, he's DATING me"
Honestly, I think it's a silly reason to feel insecure. He wouldn't be with you if he weren't attracted to you. You should be more worried about whether or not he respects you.you have a good reason to feel that way because he's only adding those skimpy girls. it seems he's into those girls on instagram more than he is interested in you! talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he continues to do it, leave. he doesn't care about you or wants anything to do with you. he wants someone attractive (to him).
give me your instagram. i will add you and like all of your pics :) make him jealous to understand your feelings ;)
it's just social media to me. i don't think anything of it.
Seems not cool. I dont add every butt pic i see but carefully select depending on my interests. Do the same and that will show him!
doesn't bother me. As long as he's not meeting these girls shouldn't really be an issue
You're extremely insecure obviously. I'd work on that.
you are being jealous but from woman's stand point i understand.
Start adding and liking pics of hot guys on Instagram
Welcome to the world. Guys will fuck anyone most anytime
can't control what he does. you can only tell him how you feel about it
Shhh he is hunting there xD
Thats not good confront him!
He is a deal breaker
Stop being insecure.
Do the same
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