Can a guy fall in love to the person who he has already rejected?

[Anonymous]

Just wonder if there is a slight chance for those rejected women to win the guy's heart. Especially when they see each other quite often and they still treat each other like before. The only thing different here is, they now knew how they feel about each other. We, women, once we decided to move on, we will never turning back. So, should we wait and never stop trying or let it go, as they have made up their mind.

Yes - He will eventually realize that she genuinely loves him for who he is

No - No means no and he is not going to take back his words

[freakyzeaky]

Anything can happen. People change. People have changes of heart. We are all human. I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket until you get into a committed relationship though for that same reason. There are no guarantees, even in a seemingly awesome monogamous relationship. We can die tomorrow. Men who are in their 50s can date women in their late 20s and still have kids. Women can go their entire 20s without so much as one partner, then become sex-crazed cougars in their 40s. Anything is possible.

[OlderAndWiser]

If a guy knows you and has had an opportunity but does not love you, it will probably never happen. He is not going to fall in love with you simply because he realizes that you love him. I don't think that has happened once in he history of the world, but I think I will post a poll on that topic.

[Miss_Mystique]

I have experienced that. The guy I had a crush on found out that I liked him and after becomming friends he started to like me back. We got together, but he broke up two months later...

[evelyn26]

Why did you two break up? So soon after too. Breakups suck.

[Miss_Mystique]

I actually have an answer for that. It's on my profile where the questions are.

[JustAnotherGirlie]

I mean anything is possible, doesn't mean that it's likely. If he says no, believe him. Men are less likely to suddenly change how they see you - women are much more changeable

[MikkiM]

He will, make sure one day when you came back you aren't that person anymore, the cooler version of you, but it will take lot of risk

[MrMysteryMan]

Not for me. If I got out of a relationship and they are an ex, they are an ex for a reason. I usually don't really keep in close touch with any of my exes. Facebook, maybe, or like an occasional hi if I run into them. But I don't go trying to hang out with them. I don't really understand the mentality of it all. Unless, it was just from circumstance you broke it off with them.

[17_38]

Possible of course it's also possible to win mega millions and Powerball in the same week. You'd probably have to change and improve a lot of aspects of yourself and prove him that, and I think with all that effort it's not worth it I'd move on and not hold my breath

[17_38]

I don't mean looks either I'm talking like drastic personality changes and then be around him enough for him to notice

[NaultD]

I think most guys retreat and evaluate everything afterwards. Not so say it will go in your favor everytime but just apart of the normal process. Honestly thats probubly why guys tend to approach first becaues this is the norm on the other side of the coin.

If there is a mood shift lean in and pull back and state where you stand with how things are.

[Walrus_au]

your answers don't cover the reality here

CAN a guy fall for a girl he's previously rejected? yes.
Does that mean he will? No, it just means that it is possible.
It sounds to me like the girl in this scenario needs to move on with her life. If he wants to come back into it, he knows what he has to do.

[slatyb]

Possible but highly unlikely. When you don't feel it for someone, there's a reason. Maybe they have some hidden quality that will change things, but probably not.

[vittle1999]

If there is a reason for the rejection but that reason no longer exists, then there might be a chance ( all other things remaining unchanged). If the reason for the rejection still exists then no chance.

[AnvilSeven]

I will say yes it's possible, it depends on a lot of things though, my ex-wife tried to win me back after our divorce, and I started to come around then she stopped trying. If you're trying to win back a guy, just understand the ball is in his court and don't get salty if he's not progressing how you want him to.

[Juxtapose]

I have pretty broad standards. If I reject something then that means I don't see a future with them at all.

I'm simple to please. Be honest, be empathetic, give me a lot of attention, emotional and physical.

[CoolYourJets]

Move on or you'll end up wasting your time in the end.

[noesbueno]

I have yet to reject someone but have been rejected. If any of them changed their mind, i would not accept. They rejected me for a reason, which i don't care to know but a reason nonetheless.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Always go for first response as it's most honest in circumstances like this.

[winterfox10]

He might, but I can tel you that his pride will keep him from trying to ask you out. Just give up and move on. Life will be less painful that way. 😕

[Sparkzs]

There's a chance but it's a statistically insignificant one.

[Nik1hil]

its possible,
depends upon the reason he rejected her for..

[genericname85]

well it could happen but if he rejected you, you should moveon and not hope.

[Mr_Jolly]

There's a slight chance things will turn around. But so what? Time is precious. Don't waste it on people who don't have time for you.

[pizzahut]

honestly, there's only a slight chance that he'll go against his words. but there are other fishes in the sea.

[Gl1tchz]

Yep, it happened to me.

[frozenhorizon]

I'd say the chance is less than 5%, so I voted no.

[BlueAndred]

A real man no.
A loser yes.