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My boyfriend told me even if I die he doesn't care. (Page 2)
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i hate to tell you this, but I do this kind of thing sometimes when I want to break up with somebody (especially if the sex is good). I'm pretty spineless when it comes to breaking up and have an inability to do it myself, so I do stuff like your boyfriend is doing. sounds like he wants out but just doesn't want to do the dirty work himself. Evolution86 is correct. and my advice is to get away from this guy pronto and find someone stable that will treat you like the great girl you are!
I agree with the ones that said talk to him. He might be going through something that's really hard on him and just wants to push you away. Make sure he knows you won't put up with it, but also make sure he knows you're there for him...
dump him, if he really loved you he wouldn't say that. I think he wants to break with you, and he is treating you like that so you can dump him, ohh just dump him, you deserve better...
I know I do but I don't know if I am ready to give it up yet. I know I sound pathetic.
Yes you do
He's not worth it girl(s). If said he wouldn't care if you die for him then he's not worth your time and effort do be around. I would dump him and find a guy that really appreciates you for you and not for silly little games.
OMG GURL BREAK UP WITH HIM OR you can pretend ta use him bk and say I never wanna break up with I lyk you this way better buh other girls don't that's how you know were right fo each other ... if he has a look on his face he might wanna change because he wants more girls in his life buh yeah
he was probably just nervous about the fact that he had said I loved you and that may be a very big step for him, regardless he shouldn't have treated you that way, but somewhere along the way he was probably hurt and just didn't want to feel that again.
I think there is more to this story than she's telling. A person you've been dating for 3 years doesn't just hate you that quickly unless you've done something. Tell us the full story.
Read the updates also to add I am honest and faithful. I have never betrayed him in anyway,
That's all well and good, but again we still haven't got the full picture, all you've done is massage your ego a bit by complimenting how good you are.
Why would I post something on here and leave a major bit out if there was. I am here for peoples honest views and opinions. I did nothing for him to treat me this way or to trigger this off. Stop being one of those suspicous people. Is it so hard to believe that someone could do this? Yes, which is why I am so hurt , devasted and confused, just as much as your are confused with what I am telling you.
Well you know its natural to miss out bits to make it seem your 100% the good person here. MAybe you are. But I don't buy it easily. The way I see it is this. If what you say is 100% accurate then leave him, not worth it, he's a nutjob. But if there is something else to it that you haven't mentioned then tell us.
There is nothing major I forgot to mention.
He just wants to break up and is too spineless to do it directly.
Do him a favor and wrap it up before you hurt yourself even more.
He has broken up with me twice of stupid stuff, it lasts overnight and then he is the one who always wants me back the next morning. I don't know anymore.
He just wants something to happen. This relationship isn't about him caring for you, but caring for the excitement that a messy relationship brings. He is just being selfish.
Sounds like he might be on drugs? Really, who knows. He's obviously mentally unstable. Maybe you should dump him.
He has never had past trouble with drugs or alcohol. May it's possible, I just don't know. I am so confused ;(
Yeah but it sounds like one of the most wicked things a guy can say to a girl. Get rid of him and ask no questions afterwards...
get out of this relationship.
he obviously doesn't care about you.
and I know it hurts, but it's better now than later.
My heart tells me yes, but my head tells me no. Don't know what to do...
Thats that little voice inside that is telling you to walk away but your emotions won't let you. you can't let your emotions blind you from what is right. It is right that you atke yourself out of a bad situation as soon as it comes out. This is a sign and if you stay, only you are to blame.
You deserve better and even though it hurts, let him go.
Or take some time apart to clear your head.
he's being the bad boy, asshole, jerk, that all of you girls love
In some respects your probably right...:(
I just wish girls would openly admit that they hate and despise the nice, friendly guys, it sucks that girls in general perceive and view us nice and friendly guys that will treat you very well as being very weak, needy, desperate, etc.
This guy told me this advice and he made very much sense, he said "The reason it's so much work for a guy is because you are going against what has been taught for such a long time. What did your parents (and almost all parents) teach you? Be nice and a good person and women will love you. But they aren't telling you to be a good person, they are telling you to be a jellyfish with no spine." See all the work us guys have to do? you girls just have to be cute, pretty, and nice, friendly, that's it
I agree with you, It's so sad though. Not that I'm using this as an excuse but going up I never got love and attention from my Father or Older Brother, they never showed me affection. Till this day My Dad has never hugged me or said I love you.
I meant to say growing up*
Yeah, initially it is so much harder for us guys, that's why I just can't picture myself ever getting a girlfriend, yeah I know that being depressed and moping around won't solve anything, but how can you feel confident and good about yourself if you have been single your whole life?
Ultimatum: 'If you're serious, end it. If not, at least talk to me'. I dno, he sounds pretty sadistic to me.
I want to talk before even think about breaking up/
Have you tried to yet?
Tried what exactly?
Talk to him.
Update: Sounds like there's something up, but he still loves you and is dealing with it the best way possible. Be supportive and see how things go on.
Update: Stop spamming updates, :P. Since he wants to talk to you, let him explain himself...
Sounds like he might be bipolar. Has he ever seen a psychiatrist?
He was just like me, Fool in love with a big temper. If he loses you he will go crazy. I lost my chick doing all this and you need to talk to him about it to PREVENT losing him or just leave him.
I don't know I have never broken up with him or threatened breaking up, so I don't know what his reaction would be. I don't know it it would backfire on me though, as crazy as it sounds I still do love him. Thanks.
Ask him to explain all these shenanigans and see if the answer does it for you.
you need to sit him down and have a chat! you don't deserve to be treated like that. NO ONE does. wtf? he can't be like that. And I'm not gonna say dump him, but seriously rethink your relationship and do what you can to work it out that's all there is to do. best of luck
xoxo
tay
Well that's my Very Same Problem But
We were already broken up by our parents
& now he treats me like a piece of sh*t
Only One Way
Ignore & Break Up
No Exuses !
I am really sorry. I don't want things to end up like that. I do love him.. Thanks for your advice.
Aww honey sorry
i answerd & I was p*ssed off by all guys
u should talk to him
& discuss it
& tell him how you feel
You should leave him for a couple of days to teach him that your not going to put up with that and his taken you for granted at the moment and if you do nothing about this he will keep treating you like this .
Maybe he developed a bipolar personality.
he's a stupid --'
dump him...
crazy man...