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Have you ever developed a romantic or sexual interest in someone who was already a good friend? (Page 3)
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We got married.
Before that, with other guy friends that I liked, the feelings were never reciprocated and we drifted apart.
Yeah, but she indicated that she is not interested in me at all at the start, that was when i wasn't even that interested in her. So there is no reason to reveal my feelings now.
It's healthy to admit your attraction to another person. She admitted she was attracted to me and that we both thought about getting together many times, but we were headed in different directions and involved with different people. Things are great between us, I even officiated her wedding! It's called being an adult.
Yeah one time I did and always wondered if it would work as more than friends but I knew it wouldn’t and never told her, eventually I did get a girlfriend I was dating and ended the friendship pretty much because the girlfriend wasn’t having it
I've never had any female friends the only one I had was an old lady one time when I was younger
Nothing wrong with older women! :)
But I'm not going to have any sexual interest in them that would be like the movie Harold and Maude
When I was 23, I dated a woman who was 46. I was very much a young man then and I was receptive to casual sex. The woman was my neighbor; she fed my fish for me while I was out of town for a week. I offered to take her out to dinner to express my appreciation. We ended up in her bed that night (her daughter was with her dad that weekend) and she was eager to please and appreciative for all that I did.
We dated for about 6 weeks. Her 17 year old daughter lived with her and I was much more attracted to the daughter, but her mom never knew that and I never acted on those feelings in any way.
She was a nice lady and generally fun to be with. I think she became embarrassed about dating someone so much younger and eventually broke up with me.
Interesting on everything you told me. To bad she wasn't 18 the daughter back then after your broke up. I had a case one day that I acted as my own personal attorney in a lawsuit on my broken ankle I'll have to tell you about it if you're interested one day. Right now I'm watching the Dolphin game there in a second lightning strike delay
Okay. I watched FSU last night and they had a 90 minute lightning delay.
I saw that game myself. The Dolphins had an hour and 57 minute delay and there now im their second straight lightning delay. How about if you watch it?
I am off to a meeting at Jacksonville University. I am an alumnus advisor to my college fraternity's chapter on that campus. Later!
Okay have fun enjoy
Interest, yes. Then I took the reins, told her and she wasn't interested.
At least you tried and you won't be an old man wondering if you should have told that girl 30 years ago.
Well, I guess so. I've been rejected every time, lol.
I was rejected a few times when I was younger. I don't think having that experience made me stronger but is also didn't kill me.
Yes somebody gets hurt and things change friendship wise
You can't go back
I have. It worked out great for 3 years but it didn't work out because in the end she got too comfortable and didn't put much into the relationship and took things for granted. So I cut it off.
Yes, he was kind of like my friend. We were in the same youth group.
By the way, he only liked me as a sister and I was crushed. We. Did not stay friends
Nope. I don't date or pursue anybody either way, regardless of whether they are a friend or not.
Voted C because we are still friends, but the friendship did change from what it used to be.
They never reciprocated. It hurt worse every time.
A lover who is a friend is the best kind of lover. If only they had loved me too.
I'm sure that happens all the time but yeah.. it sucks too.
Rarely. I've seen gals I wasn't into at first and had something suddenly snap finding myself completely in love. But that's very rare now and I can't recall the last time it happened.
No, and for some reason I can't. Every time I have a female as friend I just don't see her as something else. They stay in the friend zone for eternity.
Yes it was a friend of my late wife , got to know her through the wife. A group of us met up often , use to tease each other. After wifes death we met up by accident got chatting and got close. It was good while it lasted but drifted apart through work ……..
i asked her for a date but she had other commitments. i was too embarrassed to ask again.
I have never developed feelings for a close friend. Mostly because I've rarely had guy friends that I was really close with.
Yes. He is several years older, and married with grown children. We loved each other for eight years in a purely platonic relationship, as he was most unwilling to jeopardise his marrisge. But last year, in an unexpected moment of passion, we bonded physically. Initially there was guilt on both sides on account of the immorality of what we did; but it wore away with time, and we are now in a clandestine relationship though we do not meet as often as we would like to.
I have, and when I asked her out she rejected me which hurt me even though I knew she was gonna say no
So at least you aren't still waiting on something that's never going to happen.