Yes friendship is sometimes better, love can be fickle, you have to put more effort into love, friends dont ask for more as they are pleased with just being there for a friend
i haven't had it happen to me specifically, but i've heard of it happening w some of my older friends, so yeah :} gl tho lmao
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Many guyfriends fell in love with me but I didn’t know what to do. Because there were too many. Most of them werent my type!
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What made you special that guys pursued you and fell in love. I'm trying to understand attraction... I've been abused and mistreated a lot. Other these men who mistreated me... I've been told that I'm pretty and nice, good girl... wife material. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I get friendzoned a lot.
I am usually well dressed while most girls werent and I got told I had a baby face. I guess I wasn't taken seriously no matter what I did. I looked too young or something
Hmm interesting. I'm told that I have a baby face too and I dress really trendy, so I wonder what I do wrong. I know it's not my appearance. I am shy and I guess I feel left out that I never been in a committed relationship. I'm a domestic violence survivor. I've been treated horribly and I have severe PTSD.
Hey you seem to have the same experience like me. Maybe it is the reason why we have similar consequences in life. What I do wrong is that I avoid contacts whenever I feel uncomfortable. But it is a defence mechanism I developed. I had to deal with bullying too. So I didn't take the compliments too seriously.
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It totally can. I have not experienced this though 😇
I've never gone from platonic to romantic. Although I'm open to it.
Yes. Three year long friendship turned into love.
Should've stayed just friends.
Yes friendship is sometimes better, love can be fickle, you have to put more effort into love, friends dont ask for more as they are pleased with just being there for a friend
@teachgirsx Not the reason we should’ve stayed friends.
I believe so. I think good relationships start well when the two are friends first
I haven't had it happen. It's nice to think it could though i suppose.
Yes, if there is physical attraction, at least a bit, then it’s possible.
i haven't had it happen to me specifically, but i've heard of it happening w some of my older friends, so yeah :}
gl tho lmao
Many guyfriends fell in love with me but I didn’t know what to do. Because there were too many. Most of them werent my type!
What made you special that guys pursued you and fell in love. I'm trying to understand attraction... I've been abused and mistreated a lot. Other these men who mistreated me... I've been told that I'm pretty and nice, good girl... wife material. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I get friendzoned a lot.
I am usually well dressed while most girls werent and I got told I had a baby face. I guess I wasn't taken seriously no matter what I did. I looked too young or something
Hmm interesting. I'm told that I have a baby face too and I dress really trendy, so I wonder what I do wrong. I know it's not my appearance. I am shy and I guess I feel left out that I never been in a committed relationship. I'm a domestic violence survivor. I've been treated horribly and I have severe PTSD.
Sorry for venting and thanks for answering :-)
Hey you seem to have the same experience like me. Maybe it is the reason why we have similar consequences in life.
What I do wrong is that I avoid contacts whenever I feel uncomfortable. But it is a defence mechanism I developed. I had to deal with bullying too. So I didn't take the compliments too seriously.
You dont have to apologize. It is okay. I am sure you are a very nice person.
Thank you :-)
Meh, romance is a joke. Just masturbate (Not joking) Once you masturbate all that silly romance day dreaming goes away.
Anything can happen when you have two people spending time together...
I have absolutely no need for platonic relationships with women so it's never a problem.
Under the right situations, I think any of the other 4 types of love could become eros love, yes.
Of course. There's a reason you were attracted to each other in the first place.
This is the best way. Be friends first. Then date. Then much later atop trust consider adding sex.
Hmmm. Maybe. But chances are very low that it will happen to both sides.
No, but I dreamed of the moment literally, and she talks to me almost every day, I have a girlfriend though
No. I’ve never had a male best friend turn into someone I like.
Nope I know personally the friendzone is like the pit in 300 your kicked into it never to be heard from again
Seriously a lot of guys have been kicked into that pit
Do you think it is easier for a girl to get out of the friendzone or the same?
Way easier
I see... thanks for answering
Yes. In fact I think that is the most logical way to go about it.
Yes, my current girlfriend. Six months into our friendship.