Should I do something for a one month anniversary of being officially together?

[slyfox318]

The question says it all me and my girl been together for like four months but official for one month soon, i’ve given her flowers before but do I celebrate this anniversary?

Should I do something for a one month anniversary of being officially together?

[sejla]

The one month thing sounds like the romance that I've seen in Korean dramas.

I don't think an one month thing is necessary and in some ways she might be a little overwhelmed since it is so early but you could do something special like go to a cheap concert at a local venue or go to an entertainment venue or something. Nothing you would spend a lot of money on but nice enough.

Then instead of saying it's an one month celebration just tell her how much you have enjoyed the month together. It doesn't sound like you are getting overly attached too fast. And it won't make her feel guilty if she doesn't feel as much toward you as you feel toward her. Feelings take time to develop and not everyone goes at the same speed. it doesn't mean both won't get there eventually. Some women like men don't want to feel things are getting too serious too fast before they really know how they feel about a relationship.

If you are still with her in say 4 months then do something special. What counts the most is how you treat her on a daily basis. Respect and caring daily trumps wow celebrations. If you make sure she gets home safe when she drives home late, you take her food when she gets sick or you help her out when her car breaks down are the little things that matter.

[BrittBratt2416]

Honey it's only been a month, at least wait until you make it a year to celebrate an anniversary. y'all don't even have anniversary at this point.. why? Cause it's only been a month. When you've made it past 3 or more years then sure give her the flowers, the ring, and the anniversary.

[VikingBlood86]

Here's an interesting dilemma. You can if you want. But there's a term called 'setting the bar'. You don't want to go crazy with it because then that becomes the norm.

Im not saying don't do it. But I would suggest maybe keeping it small. Besides, it's just one month. No reason to get crazy.

[ShadezMcgee]

It depends on what you had in mind. Personally I would say not to make it a monthly thing. One month is understandable, but that isn't something you should do every month that passes

[shimmeryns]

One month? I prefer to wait it out until 1 year to actually celebrate.

[Hamsteroids]

Sure why not? If that’s what you feel like doing, I don’t think there’s any wrong in that. And women love little surprise gifts. Seriously like my boyfriend could bring me an apple, deliver some silly pun with it and say it reminded him of me, and I’d love it! 😂

[maddog998]

It's no good to do anything for the one month anniversary cause like you say "you been together for like four months but official" but I would wait until it's actually official like 6 months because if you do celebrate it might not last.

[StephenCF]

Not something too fancy, or she’ll expect that every month (& it’ll make the yearly anniversaries less special).

Of course you can surprise her every so often, but not on obvious dates such as that day in the month-iversary

[Melshmallow046]

I wouldn't and don't find is necessary, but you could get her a card or candy bar or something inexpensive but thoughtful if you want to play it safe. Just let her know you were thinking of her and appreciate her.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

That's a young person's game. Anniversary is a year, you can wait. Just go on a date and spend time together

[Poppykate]

Wow! A whole month! 😲 I think maybe flowers might be a nice gift. But don’t call it an anniversary gift. It might scare her off.

[ChronicThinker]

Er... no, that's way too much for just a month of being together. I'd just wait a year like the rest of us.

[MajesticTwelve]

I wouldn't. 6 months sure. I mean you could mention it offhandedly but I'd think it was a bit strange if someone celebrated our 1 month.

[kanelives]

Never been in a relationship, but a 1 month thing seems stupid to me. 6 months and a year, sure... but 1 month?

[EmotionOfFear]

Definitely. It doesn't have to be something big, but one month is still a milestone considering what could happen that makes couples not last past the second date. A month marks you two are starting to dig each other.

[NyxGaia]

No. That's pushing it. It's nice to be romantic and all but balance is the key

[HOAAH]

I don't do one month anniversaries, only one year anniversaries but that's just me.

[Avicenna]

No, I wouldn't, especially since you have already given her flowers.

[Massageman]

Give a single rose at first month, two roses at second month, three at third - - - up to a dozen after one year!

[hafinjun]

Yeah , I tend to agree with shimmeryns, anniversaries are for years, that being said there's really no bad time to give her flowers and a modest gift,

[Lone099]

Nahh
a month together is a free trial for 30 days...
but it might be just my pov
you do you

[mishmishayezie]

Lol no... its just 1 month🤦‍♀️

Do it when its 1st year anniversary

[Holy_Ghost_Fire]

Not really. It's not special and anniversaries are using done on year basis. If you want, you can.

[d3ofol]

No. Itll make you seem weird. 1 month isn't a milestone, it's a beginning

[jassminnne]

I wouldn’t personally do anything for one month

[Anonymous]

No one month is way too early to celebrate

[HereIbe]

An anniversary is annual--YEAR.

[Xavier1954]

Why, unless its a milestone for you

[1828avaava1828]

sure

[mermaidia_lol]

Yes.

[Jmmmfi4]

I wouldn't