Bruh you were so grossed out to had to leave? That's pretty sad. Definitely don't ask her until you're much deeper in your relationship. Unless you guys are purely physical
Why is that sad? I don't know know why but it was a turn off. I might wait it out maybe give it a few more months till we are more comfortable around each other.
Why is it weird? Some girls don't like guys with a unibrow or a hairy chest although most guys have a hairy chest and unibrow. I pluck mine and wax my chest so girls aren't repulsed.
Eh, why did you date her, if you didn't like her hairy arms?
I think that if you do tell her how you feel about her arms, she's likely going to take offense to it, and she's likely going to dump you.
But on the off hand she doesn't, then she MAY take your opinion in to thought, no matter what she does with it. Then you can decide if you want to stay with her or not
Don't! It's rude and if you shave them the hair will just come back thicker and hairy. But how hairy are her arms that it bothers you so much? Are they like a man's?
You can try. I personally wouldn't do it just to please a guy, and would break up if he is turned off by it. If she gets pissed off just make sure you see the girl's arms next time.
I believe you should feel close enough to her rlo be able to tell her what you like and dont likr. i have always told women rite up front I font like hair snd I f wsnt their moist area kept dhsvrf smooth. One told me yontjr drs. br
No, can't you read? It says arm hair. And we've only known each other for a week. Plus I usually only see her wearing a jumper or a jacket. So that was the first I saw her arms.
"you know... I would like it if you could remove the hair from your arm and i would help you achieve that but I'm fine with whatever because i love you either way".
It's not okay to ask. Unless you want to offend her. If you really care that much, shave your own arms, then you will have the leverage needed to get her to do it.
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Bruh you were so grossed out to had to leave? That's pretty sad. Definitely don't ask her until you're much deeper in your relationship. Unless you guys are purely physical
Why is that sad? I don't know know why but it was a turn off. I might wait it out maybe give it a few more months till we are more comfortable around each other.
If your turned off by hairy arms you obviously have no balls there's a lot worse things in life!
Hairy women are not the worst things in life but theyre still unattractive and undesirable
@IIGrifterSixII then find yourself a walking slippery female dolphin and fuck her instead
I think it’s a weird request because everyone has arm hair. My arm hair is blonde so you can barely see it and I’m happy about that.
Why is it weird? Some girls don't like guys with a unibrow or a hairy chest although most guys have a hairy chest and unibrow. I pluck mine and wax my chest so girls aren't repulsed.
If it bothers you so much - just finish it with her.
That simple.
Throw the baby out with the bath water solution eh?
@IIGrifterSixII kinda
Eh, why did you date her, if you didn't like her hairy arms?
I think that if you do tell her how you feel about her arms, she's likely going to take offense to it, and she's likely going to dump you.
But on the off hand she doesn't, then she MAY take your opinion in to thought, no matter what she does with it. Then you can decide if you want to stay with her or not
Don't! It's rude and if you shave them the hair will just come back thicker and hairy. But how hairy are her arms that it bothers you so much? Are they like a man's?
You can try. I personally wouldn't do it just to please a guy, and would break up if he is turned off by it.
If she gets pissed off just make sure you see the girl's arms next time.
How long did you even know this girl before you decided to date? How did you not notice this before?
I met her in the library. She was wearing a jacket at the time, so we didn't know each other at all prior to us dating. Why?
Maybe get to know someone better before deciding to date her?
If you guys barely know ea h other and it's only been a week, she's not going to shave her arms for you. Just saying
If I find someone attractive I just jump straight into a relationship with them. I don't want to get to know them beforehand because that takes time.
And you don't know that. She might like me enough that she'll do it.
Not after a week. You're basically still a stranger
Lol I am definitely not a stranger to her.
If you didn't know she had arm hair, she's a stranger
We kissed. So I am not a stranger.
There's no polite way to do this. Just do your best to be honest.
Maybe shave yours and see if shell follow, also what's wrong with arm hair?
Nah, girls don't mind a bit of arm hair.
And I just don't find that ish attractive.
I believe you should feel close enough to her rlo be able to tell her what you like and dont likr. i have always told women rite up front I font like hair snd I f wsnt their moist area kept dhsvrf smooth. One told me yontjr drs. br
Are we talking armpit? I dont get it, how is she your girlfriend but youve never seen her arms before?
No, can't you read? It says arm hair. And we've only known each other for a week. Plus I usually only see her wearing a jumper or a jacket. So that was the first I saw her arms.
Then you should not ask her.
"you know... I would like it if you could remove the hair from your arm and i would help you achieve that but I'm fine with whatever because i love you either way".
This is a bit silly in my opinion...
You can ask in a kind way and see what she says.
Nope, don't do it. You just need to love that part of her unless it's a deal breaker.
In terms of free speech it's okay, but you're probably going to get dumped if you do it.
You do realise that your "girl" is already extremely well known all over the internet.
What do you mean?
@Lauren-green That picture is Not his girl.
Yeah I think that was just an example picture 😅
@Lauren-green Possibly.
I think so 😊 because from the looks of it, the arms in the picture is actually a guy hugging the girl from behind?
@Lauren-green Gosh, I do believe you could very well be right.
It's not okay to ask. Unless you want to offend her.
If you really care that much, shave your own arms, then you will have the leverage needed to get her to do it.
Buy her a laser hair removal
That shit cost £325!!! I am not forking out that much.
There are less expensive ones, you give her as a gift and done ur problems are gone.
Good idea, I might buy her one for Christmas. I just hope my gift doesn't offend her.
It won’t, it will be something useful, don’t mention the hairy hands tho, just buy one that can be used on the entire body and she’ll be happy
Arms* not hands
Okay then thanks. I will try to not mention it in hopes she actually uses it.
No wtf. Especially one week! Can you really call her YOUR girl if it's been ONE week and you can't be around her just because of arm hair? 😂