My boyfriend skips classes a lot and I dont have the guts to call him out on it?

[Anonymous]

He’s my new boyfriend and i haven't been in a relationship for almost two years and i really like this guy. We’ve really only been started being in an official relationship.. We’ve had a few misunderstandings but we’ve handled it well so far.

Should i say something about this or just let him be? I dont want to upset him or get into an argument w him. Id like to avoid any kind of fight as much as i can. Fights and arguments with dramas are too much for me I've had enough before.

[btbc92]

Then why are you dating him? If he doesn't care about his future then he can forget about dating you further. I would not want to be with a person who has no logical excuse for what is happening with him. But in the meantime, if you can't handle arguing with him. Maybe rethink about dating as a whole? It shouldn't be toxic, but there will always be arguments and fights from time to time. It should NOT be to where you're afraid and what to avoid. That says there that is a lot more to this relationship. And he is more and likely hiding something from even you.

[MissDawn7961]

let him alone for now for maybe he has a good reason for skipping classes

[slatyb]

You can bring this up without starting an argument because you don't have to be judgmental, just wondering what he's thinking. I'm assuming this is college and not high school. First question: why is he taking classes if he's not that interested? That seems like a waste of both time and money. Is there something he wants to do that requires a degree? What are his goals for say the next five years? What are yours?

[CapnHawk]

Mind your own business. If he wants to cut classes, let him. It's his downfall, not yours.