How would you react if your partner/crush started sagging their pants and walking like a gangster?

[Anonymous]

How would you react if your partner/crush started sagging their pants and walking like a gangster?

They're still the same person. The only thing that is different is the pant sag & pimp walk.

Would it affect your attraction towards them?

[KaitieSearching]

You can’t tell me that if someone starts sending outward signals that he’s “gangster” that nothing else has changed. If he’s trying to pass as a different type of person, then he’s trying to be like a different type of person or attract a different type of person, or live the lifestyle of a different type of person. I would be concerned. There’s a difference between a 10 year old boy watching Barbie Rapunzel movies (just internal enjoyment of something feminine) and wanting to wear dresses (external signal that he is feminine). The same principle applies.

[Asker]

I mean nothing has changed about his personality towards you! Like his vibes are the same!

[AdHdSqUiRrEl]

I'd laugh my ass off. Then I'd hide all his under wear and buy him some really embarrassing ones that I know he won't like people seeing him wear. That would probably make him think twice about wearing his pants like that. If he bought more underwear I'd hide those too so he'd have no choice 🌚. But I'd try to talk to him about it too. And find out wtf happened to him all of a sudden 😂.

[Asker]

That would be funny if that was his plan all along because he just wanted free underwear 😂

[Cynicaldreamer]

I'd tell him to put on a belt, pull up his damn pants, and walk like a like a real man, or he's going to be single real soon!
I hate sagging pants on anyone... instant turnoff

[Anonymous]

Someone said that in prison, if a dude went around with boxers showing, it was advertising that he was a 'bitch' wanting a new 'Daddy'!
Don't know if that is true, but who wants to see dumbass guys that can't figure out the concept of a belt to hold their pants up!!
Who really wants to see some idiot guy's boxer ass like that?
They look like idiots, or like they are advertising, like those in jail!

[FunkyMonkee]

So far, I've only ever seen one girl do that. If I WAS a girl, I'd tell him to pull his fucking pants up like a big boy and act like a fucking adult!!! If he refuses, no more pussy for him! I'll go find a guy that ISN'T proud of the underwear his mommy bought for him!!
Why is it you never see any guys doing that going commando?

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I would probably laugh and think it was ridiculous. It would definitely be a turn-off, that is for sure.

[SpacedCharr]

Pants them. Frequently and often.

[jennifer_bloom]

I'd tell them they need to see a therapist

[Clarke510]

Well I'm not gay and girls don't do this.

But a tip to anyone listening, you could always remind them that this "style" started as a prison sign that the inmate doing it was available to be fucked.

It's literally a sign to let people know you want to be the bottom guy in gay sex.

Sooo maybe if they do this, spare yourself the revelation that they are gay in a few months and just break up with them.

[Elleymei]

I’d give him a a gift card to Walmart and say there is this new thing called a belt why don’t you go by yourself one.. or I’d role play as a prison guard and take his ass to a jail cell cause he straight up dressed like a gangsta.

[jadelaid]

I would not associate
With them.
If see them trying to talk to me
And act out of
The way of.
Put it this way

It would make me feel like there invading my personal
Space
I don't tolerate that

Use your imagination
No
Telling you
I drop you With a king hit
End of story
Out cold bitch
I d piss on you if I had the time
And if I was in a really bad mood I d kick there teeth in.
Tbh.

[emmily2396]

Dressed like a gangsta'? More like an idiot. There is nothing badass about that.

[Thatsamazing]

Yep.

[IAmRedThunder]

I’d pull his pants down in public every time he sagged them until he stopped

[MotherEarth2020]

I'd pull their pants down in public! I've done it to my stepson. I've even done it to complete strangers. WEAR PANTS THAT FIT!!!

[lydiad]

Loool I had a relationship with a guy who was walking around like this. I considered him dumb and hot at the same time. Everyone was telling it was disgusting, but for me it was a turn on. (I knew he was a little bit retarded though)

[LonewolfMeme]

I'd hate it but at least my experience wore a belt and my crush does too so yay but I hope he doesn't start that

[Asker]

What if he starts wearing these types of belts?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ny6ZLssFR3g

[LonewolfMeme]

Fuck no.

[Asker]

[Daniela1982]

I'm sure you would have seen the signs before you got in a relationship but to those who love it, you are lame ass. You love assholes instead of nice guys. What ever!!

[treespirit]

I'd have a chat with them. While the kind of person they are inside matters the most, I would not like my man to look like a gangsta, because I'm generally not attracted to that kind of guys. It would be very weird if all of a sudden my partner started dressing like that.

[Hai_tis_E]

I'd pull them right up and ask them what the fuck they're doing

[Thatsamazing]

*walking like a fucking idiot

Fixed that for you. Anyway, I'd have to reconsider dating her.

[Asker]

😂 I think that addition would get my question taken down

[wondergirl26]

Not sure how or why they wear their pants like that but Personally I think its dumb

[Asker]

Same! Would it affect your attraction towards them?

[wondergirl26]

Ya I think it would

[Zeephy]

I would tell them to get out of the house and make some drug money, since they want to dress/act like that

[Devasena]

i would not date a guy like that. Sagging pants means inviting other men sexually. That's how the concept started in prisons. And i don't like gay guys.

[hahahmm]

If she even started wearing flip flops all the time I’d dump.

You want to be ‘comfortable’ being a slob/celebrate low class stuff, I’m not interested

[worldscolide]

Lol I'd not have that bullshit in my home.. You know what that is right? Prison inmates sag to indicate willingness to be someone's bitch. It's disgusting.