How would you react if your partner/crush started sagging their pants and walking like a gangster?

Question

They're still the same person. The only thing that is different is the pant sag & pimp walk.  Would it affect your attraction towards them?

KaitieSearching · Accepted Answer

You can’t tell me that if someone starts sending outward signals that he’s “gangster” that nothing else has changed. If he’s trying to pass as a different type of person, then he’s trying to be like a different type of person or attract a different type of person, or live the lifestyle of a different type of person. I would be concerned. There’s a difference between a 10 year old boy watching Barbie Rapunzel movies (just internal enjoyment of something feminine) and wanting to wear dresses (external signal that he is feminine). The same principle applies.

AdHdSqUiRrEl · Accepted Answer

I'd laugh my ass off. Then I'd hide all his under wear and buy him some really embarrassing ones that I know he won't like people seeing him wear. That would probably make him think twice about wearing his pants like that. If he bought more underwear I'd hide those too so he'd have no choice 🌚. But I'd try to talk to him about it too. And find out wtf happened to him all of a sudden 😂.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I'd tell him to put on a belt, pull up his damn pants, and walk like a like a real man, or he's going to be single real soon!  I hate sagging pants on anyone... instant turnoff

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Someone said that in prison, if a dude went around with boxers showing, it was advertising that he was a 'bitch' wanting a new 'Daddy'!
Don't know if that is true, but who wants to see dumbass guys that can't figure out the concept of a belt to hold their pants up!!
Who really wants to see some idiot guy's boxer ass like that?
They look like idiots, or like they are advertising, like those in jail!

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

So far, I've only ever seen one girl do that. If I WAS a girl, I'd tell him to pull his fucking pants up like a big boy and act like a fucking adult!!! If he refuses, no more pussy for him! I'll go find a guy that ISN'T proud of the underwear his mommy bought for him!!
Why is it you never see any guys doing that going commando?

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

I would probably laugh and think it was ridiculous. It would definitely be a turn-off, that is for sure.

SpacedCharr · Answer

Pants them. Frequently and often.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I'd tell them they need to see a therapist

Clarke510 · Answer

Well I'm not gay and girls don't do this.

But a tip to anyone listening, you could always remind them that this "style" started as a prison sign that the inmate doing it was available to be fucked.

It's literally a sign to let people know you want to be the bottom guy in gay sex.

Sooo maybe if they do this, spare yourself the revelation that they are gay in a few months and just break up with them.

Elleymei · Answer

I’d give him a a gift card to Walmart and say there is this new thing called a belt why don’t you go by yourself one.. or I’d role play as a prison guard and take his ass to a jail cell cause he straight up dressed like a gangsta.

jadelaid · Answer

I would not associate
With them.
If see them trying to talk to me
And act out of
The way of.
Put it this way

It would make me feel like there invading my personal
Space
I don't tolerate that

Use your imagination
No
Telling you
I drop you With a king hit
End of story
Out cold bitch
I d piss on you if I had the time
And if I was in a really bad mood I d kick there teeth in.
Tbh.

emmily2396 · Answer

Dressed like a gangsta'? More like an idiot. There is nothing badass about that.

IAmRedThunder · Answer

I’d pull his pants down in public every time he sagged them until he stopped

MotherEarth2020 · Answer

I'd pull their pants down in public! I've done it to my stepson. I've even done it to complete strangers. WEAR PANTS THAT FIT!!!

lydiad · Answer

Loool I had a relationship with a guy who was walking around like this. I considered him dumb and hot at the same time. Everyone was telling it was disgusting, but for me it was a turn on. (I knew he was a little bit retarded though)

LonewolfMeme · Answer

I'd hate it but at least my experience wore a belt and my crush does too so yay but I hope he doesn't start that

Daniela1982 · Answer

I'm sure you would have seen the signs before you got in a relationship but to those who love it, you are lame ass. You love assholes instead of nice guys. What ever!!

wondergirl26 · Answer

Not sure how or why they wear their pants like that but Personally I think its dumb

treespirit · Answer

I'd have a chat with them. While the kind of person they are inside matters the most, I would not like my man to look like a gangsta, because I'm generally not attracted to that kind of guys. It would be very weird if all of a sudden my partner started dressing like that.

Hai_tis_E · Answer

I'd pull them right up and ask them what the fuck they're doing

Thatsamazing · Answer

*walking like a fucking idiot Fixed that for you. Anyway, I'd have to reconsider dating her.

Zeephy · Answer

I would tell them to get out of the house and make some drug money, since they want to dress/act like that

Devasena · Answer

i would not date a guy like that. Sagging pants means inviting other men sexually. That's how the concept started in prisons. And i don't like gay guys.

hahahmm · Answer

If she even started wearing flip flops all the time I’d dump. You want to be ‘comfortable’ being a slob/celebrate low class stuff, I’m not interested

worldscolide · Answer

Lol I'd not have that bullshit in my home.. You know what that is right? Prison inmates sag to indicate willingness to be someone's bitch. It's disgusting.

nomazi · Answer

Eh I’d much rather him sag in the house (I love seeing my guys butt in underwear), but out in public? No hun Walking like a gangster? No lol

AleenaAggrawal · Answer

It would definitely be weird! I really hate this gangsta style, makes them look immature. I probably will talk to them about dropping it.

nerms123 · Answer

Lmao I’d think they’d gone mental but I wouldn’t tell them what to wear if that makes them happy

klore · Answer

I'd ether buy him a pair of overalls or a really short dress

Mädchen · Answer

I'd not go out into public spaces with them anymore

NineBreaker · Answer

Why? For the love of all that is good and decent, why?

Annie12234 · Answer

I would dump him on his ass if he won’t pull up his damn pants 😂

vernalpath · Answer

Solely because I know my significant other, I'd tell her to knock it off and she probs would cuz she's not like that

ariadneR · Answer

I'd tell him to put on a belt.  he's a grown man stop acting like a child

broncobryan · Answer

No because grown adults won't sag their pants. If people knew what it meant in prison, they would stop doing it.

SydneySentinel · Answer

It would be a total turnoff.

Anonymous · Answer

If I was that stupid, I hope she would throw me out, to wake me up.

Juxtapose · Answer

I would mock them relentlessly for it and make gang signs at her.

LuWe22 · Answer

It´s a total turn off so I would tell him to stop or we part ways

Lunatic1 · Answer

HELL NO! I want nothing to do that whether it is my partner or my kids.

name_is_eric · Answer

Yes. A woman sagging their pants and walking with a limp is no woman of mine.

Anonymous · Answer

Make him wear a diaper. See if he still sags his pants

SupremeIncelman · Answer

I have to sag my pants I get uncomfortable with them up to my belly button

Anonymous · Answer

Fortunately, women don't deem to wear "Ghetto Draggers"

Anonymous · Answer

Instant turn off, NO ONE wants to see your underwear!

Anonymous · Answer

a girl dressed like that would be really fun to look at so i'd keep her around just for laughs

R_Cakes91 · Answer

I’d tell him to call me when he grows up

aloha96 · Answer

It’s literally the stupidest thing ever

xyz94 · Answer

I'd wonder what on earth he was doing!

Kylekasuboski · Answer

I would fucking dump their ass immediately

malachimccoy824 · Answer

Wouldn't ever be a crush for me!!!

Mysteriee · Answer

Dump him

Creepazoid · Answer

I would tell her to behave like a woman

OhThatsMorgan · Answer

That’s a big no no for me haha

mermaidia_lol · Answer

I would think he's just joking with me.

Sixgun77 · Answer

If a woman started doing that it'd be a turnoff.

Anonymous · Answer

What? Women do it too?

kellyjo · Answer

Hell yes.. leave his ass..

Denzelwanye · Answer

There are like Gucci gang

Anonymous · Answer

Would a girl do that ever?

hafinjun · Answer

Absolutely

BronzedAdonis · Answer

I’d be aroused

Lightning8 · Answer

lol awww

Anonymous · Answer

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