Should I be ok with my boyfriend wearing grey sweatpants in public? Like to the gym or class? (Page 3)

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So grey sweatpants season in upon us and I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend have gotten into arguments over him wearing grey sweatpants or sweat pants in general. The problem is his dick is way bigger then average and like 5-6 soft so it leaves an obvious outline and he circumsized so the head leaves its own giant outline smh. So u can just see his junk and head all swinging around at the size or a regular hard on but u know he not hard cause it's just flopping around. Don't get me wrong it's a turn on and I love seeing it but I don't need other girls seeing it. We gotton in arguments over it and he got really mad because I said I woudnt care if he was small or average but he not and he said that not fair cause just because he large he can't be comfortable when at the gym or class like every else. He also sayes that I like to show off my body at the club. This is kinda true but not completely (I like to make girls jealous of my bod Im not trying to get male attention I love my bf). However he claims he only trying to be comfy but admitted to liking when people realize he bigger then them. I do kinda see his points tho cause I do wear sweats to class sometimes ans I love to be comfy plus I hate jeans. However I can't get over not wanting other girls to see. I get he's large and he can't hide the buldge all the time like it's seems like whatever shorts he wears shows a giant buldge when he sits down. All shorts seem to do that to him so I don't make a big deal out of it even though I noticed girls staring before. I just feel like he can avoid the whole sweatpants thing so I would like him too. So what should I do girls? Should I let him participate grey sweatpants season or stand my ground? Ps he hates wearing boxer briefs to control it cause he saise it squished him and ruins the point of be comfortable. Also do any of u girls struggle with something similar?

booprincess2 · Answer

if its creating an issue between the two of you and its showing off that much then he should respect you and not do that. for one its not appropriate I sure as heck would not want to see that even if I was single. I sure as heck wouldn't let my other half do that cause its not appropriate

flaskhalffull · Answer

I would want my man to be comfortable, and I wouldn't be with him if I couldn't trust him enough to wear sweatpants. People will always look but it's when they touch it's a problem.

Anonymous · Answer

Is he expected to be ok with you wearing the standard tights as pants (cloth bodypaint), see through clothes, baggy easily over exposing clothes (rompers), jean thongs (booty shorts), and all other general female attire?

and don't pretend you are one of the rare few females who doesn't dress in the attire almost every female 12-40 wears.

Anonymous · Answer

Get over yourself. Unless you tape your boobs flat so that no one can see them you are being a raging and hysterical hypocrite. He should dump you fast for trying to control him because you choose to be insecure.

binginghockey · Answer

I’m not reading all this sorry and don’t follow me to invite me to your question right after I follow you back

CarpetDenim · Answer

Have him wear compression shorts under them. I don’t understand how he could be comfortable working out if everything is swinging around anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel you should be okay with him wearing what he wants it's his body and he should be allowed to be comfortable

Does he not wear underwear under his pants if he did surely his dick wouldn't swing around

LowSelfSteem · Answer

Flip the situation around How would he feel if you have/had large breasts and other lads could see your tits and fanny.

NaughtyWife81 · Answer

Does he complain when you show off your chest? Is take the looks he gets as a compliment because that's your man and you get that dick no one else

Semasu · Answer

this guy is bigger soft than I am hard jesus christ

fionaglenanne · Answer

I think it is ok if you are going to a place like starbucks or panera but if you ar going to a restaurant then maybe he should wear pants or something.

Aaliyahvcxz · Answer

You better tell him to get bigger sweat pants. I’m DEFINITELY that chick that would be staring at him all day and night at his junk 😋😋😋

Harmseygrace · Answer

I'm sure people can see that you have a chest in shirts, so does it really matter? You seem pretty insecure trying to make girls jealous and stopping your boyfriend from wearing comfortable clothes.

circumstances · Answer

I have the same issue and I try to avoid wearing anything that clearly shows the shaft and head.

s_alj04 · Answer

If you wear revealing clothes it’s hypocritical to force him into not wearing sweatpants

RHK36 · Answer

If you really think it's a serious issue, you go find him the most comfortable pairs of boxer briefs otherwise let the man wear his sweatpants.

Female_assasin · Answer

You are a one annoying bitch , leave the guy alone.

VIVANT · Answer

He shouud wear comfortable briefs 🤷‍♀️ Not bc of the relationship... Just for decorum sake.

updog45 · Answer

Society tells men to not tell women how to dress, so I think he should be allowed to wear what he wants also.

rionrion · Answer

They are sweatpants... like really? Let the dude where what he wants.

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