Most of the time... I don't get any thanks for it and it does get frustrating when I have to provide moral support for other's relationship problems.
If it is just something small then it doesn't bother me that much. Reaching a high shelf or carrying the shopping isn't too bad every so often. Unfortunately this can become all too often or interrupting me when I'm busy.
@DizzyDesii wanted is a attraction due to the instinct for procreation and continuation something we as people need to do better is choosing a better person to be our mates most important is to choose a person who is or can be your best friend first (respect and cherish) then a person you can trust your life to, why you ask? Because you are giving power to another person to hurt you deeply in the hope that this person will never use that power against you but protect you always, this is where a lot people fails since we are not thought this anywhere... In your assertion you are right but only if you do not use what I thought you.
I believe that any two lovers who are understanding and really love each other are complementary to each other, and each of them complements each other, so both of them will be in need and want each other
I picked wanted but tbh I would rather be desired. It feels good to be wanted/ needed yes I agree. But it feels much better to be desired. That's what I think.
Wanted cause your wanted you get their attention and needed once they get what they want they forget you until they need you again. It's not a good feeling but i fell for it.
Wanted because it's that person's choice to want me. Needed sounds like the person is in a situation where they need me now but once the situation is taken care of would they still need me 🤷♂️
Pop media has brainwashed you into not being needed - even though that's the only basis for a relationship. You can, of course, be a product, not a person, and so be wanted.
Wanted. Being needed in a sense, feels like a clingy reaction, or like someone requires you for financial or social obligations. I like being wanted, not just sexually, more so emotionally.
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I've been needed many times, a shoulder to cry on, a strong back to carry things or otherwise required to do a task they are unable to do.
I'd like to be wanted for just being me.
Does being needed make you feel used
Most of the time... I don't get any thanks for it and it does get frustrating when I have to provide moral support for other's relationship problems.
If it is just something small then it doesn't bother me that much. Reaching a high shelf or carrying the shopping isn't too bad every so often. Unfortunately this can become all too often or interrupting me when I'm busy.
I'd rather be needed. It makes me feel special, I like it when a guy couldn't live or breathe without me. It's just my definition of love.
It seems I have a need to be Wanted. I want to be wanted. Reminds me of some Cheap Trick lyrics.
Haha
Definitely wanted because need it once the need if gone so are you...
And once they lose attraction to you they won't want you anymore
@DizzyDesii wanted is a attraction due to the instinct for procreation and continuation something we as people need to do better is choosing a better person to be our mates most important is to choose a person who is or can be your best friend first (respect and cherish) then a person you can trust your life to, why you ask? Because you are giving power to another person to hurt you deeply in the hope that this person will never use that power against you but protect you always, this is where a lot people fails since we are not thought this anywhere...
In your assertion you are right but only if you do not use what I thought you.
No you're right
Wanted. It brings desire and passion.
Needed is just being there for someone and fulfilling hers/his personality.
Very true
I'd rather be wanted. Needed implies some insecurity with the other person and thats a turn off.
you're right need does seem insecure. But want (which i chose as well) also seems like temporary lusting/desiee
i would jut hope he always wanted me and make efforts to ensure it.
Wanted
Needs can be replaced and changed overtime, I need food daily but not the same food day in and day out.
Want is also temporary tho
Not necessarily... I wanted a knife when I was a teenager I still have that knife, among other things.
I stop wanting this real quick
Wanted, since needed feels like if you abuse a situation :o
Oh wow
I believe that any two lovers who are understanding and really love each other are complementary to each other, and each of them complements each other, so both of them will be in need and want each other
I picked wanted but tbh I would rather be desired. It feels good to be wanted/ needed yes I agree. But it feels much better to be desired. That's what I think.
Want is desire
Wanted. Needing someone is more utilitarian. Wanting them is sheer desire
Ooo great point
Wanted, it's easy to say no if you're wanted but when someone says I need you you're a douche If you say no
Lmao true
Wanted cause your wanted you get their attention and needed once they get what they want they forget you until they need you again. It's not a good feeling but i fell for it.
No thats true but same for want. They dont need nor want you once they get what they want or lose attraction
True so just enjoy the moment and don't get attached to much or not at all be best
Wanted because it's that person's choice to want me. Needed sounds like the person is in a situation where they need me now but once the situation is taken care of would they still need me 🤷♂️
Yea but want is temporary too
wanted, someone desires you, they want you. i feel liek if someone needs you- its to beneift them.
I’ll rather be wanted because if they only need me how long would they really need me for.
And the moment they dont find you attractive, how long will thwy want you for? I realized both options starting to suck 😂
🤦🏾♀️ so true damn.
Both, because if you want me you can get sick of me, if you need me you start to take me for granted till I’m absent.
Lmao
Pop media has brainwashed you into not being needed - even though that's the only basis for a relationship.
You can, of course, be a product, not a person, and so be wanted.
Wanted. Being needed in a sense, feels like a clingy reaction, or like someone requires you for financial or social obligations. I like being wanted, not just sexually, more so emotionally.
Very true but want fades. Want is just an appetite
I'd prefer both, but if I had to pick one, I'd rather be wanted than needed..
Same