Do platonic boy girl relationships exist, if so are they a rarity? (Page 2)

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Okay so my question really says it, my boyfriend thinks they do exist and I'm completely cynical and what I believe is too much based on my own personal experience which is, the only real male friend I have is gay. All the others either developed feelings for me at some point,  sometimes I developed feelings back or sometimes they didn't have feelings but I guess I was attractive enough for them to attempt to get in my pants, they didn't care about risking a friendship. Girls I believe can start off with innocent intentions but most people are selfish and if they develop feelings, they don't care what stands in their way, in previous relationships my ex's who are now in relationships are/ have gone out with girls who they were 'friends' with when me and them were together, another ex who started to be 'friends' with one of my 'friends' ended up dumping me for her. My best friend from school is no longer my friend as she again started to be 'friends' with my current boyfriend, developed feelings and made a play for him . So yes I have had a lot of negative experiences maybe they colour my judgement?  Sorry for the rant, what's your experience with girl boy friendships?

diamond3 · Answer

very rare!

Do platonic boy girl relationships exist, if so are they a rarity? (Page 2)

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