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The affair happen at the ages of 19-21 when both were young and relationship wasn’t at the best. Now you are married with kids and marriage has been great with no issues. You are both now 31 years of age. Condoms used half of the time. Oral sex happen once. Number of sexual encounters is unknown anywhere between 5x to 60 (spouse said few times).
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