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Women take care of men emotionally non stop. It never ends. At least the men who claim they are not emotional. That just jeans they don’t understand themselves and rely on their gfs to fill in the Gaps and be silent invisible emotional support so just do not have to feel “ needy”
Non-stop? 🤔 why do think its like that?
From my understanding it is women who need the emotional support.
Women actively persecute men who are "emotional", WTF are you talking about?
All these answers are shocking to me. 🤓
Women take care of everyone. I Dont think it SHOULD be that way ~~ but it simply IS. It’s a heavy expectation. It tends to start from early on where it is expected you concern yourself with everyone else's feelings above your own.. guys are given way more leeway to be assholes. . Women just get get used to it.. its a tacit understanding~~ you just do it.
I don’t know where these people exist where the men are caring for women’s emotional needs and women are cold. I want to meet them 😃
🤔 🤷♀️ I don't know maybe you guys are talking about putting in certain acts to get sex.. which stops as soon as the novelty wares off. that isn’t really caring for someone. It’s a means to an end. That ends.😏
Obviously there are very caring men and dick head women.. but that isn’t the Norm. and I don’t meet these types IRL~ I hear about it only on line~ That I’m seeing reported here lol 😛
I’d love to meet these people it sounds very progressive and fascinating. 😉
Usually I see men who are emotionally in touch and supportive, called names and attached. I find myself forever arguing Against that ~ultimately very damaging ~ kind of prejudice, with very little if any support... 🥱
NOW Suddenly everyone is arguing that men are so emotionally evolved.🤔 Fascinating. I’m speechless lol 😃 I love it 😂
Women keep relationships together. I think it is learned. I think men are 💯 capable of it. I think it should be equally reciprocal. but it absolutely isn’t. 🙄
You are living in a very different reality.
@VIVANT I thought you said back in time that insecurities are arrogant in men! What happened to that opinion of yours?🤔🤔
When you want to give an opinion make sure you don't change it the next time darling 😉😁
Attacked not attached
honestly You guys are so full of sh*t. I mean that as an observation not an Insult.
Caring men and women who argue everyone should be aware of other people and helpful mindful respectful and caring ~ get attacked (for expecting men to go against nature and trying to create “soy boys” ) constantly in every other post but this one. ONLY bc you want to argue
“ men do it better”
Such a lame lack of swift awareness.. I’ve seen how the topic of emotional support is dealt with on here And it isn’t arguing men should excel. NONE if you you come rushing in to argue that
This isn’t about authentic interest in emotional support, its so clearly a pissing contest ~ It’s pathetic and tired honestly 🥱🙄
Hey I’ll be happy if you all prove me wrong🤷♀️
Show up hailing the superior much admired trait of emotionally aware in touch caring men, selflessly supporting the people around them~~ in posts that are not simply set up as a competition for “who does it better “
I’ll take back everything I says , gladly 😌
Men don't show lots of emotion and tend to be to the point and when women aren't we have a hard time figuring them out because for some reason women expect men to read their minds, when they can't even do the same. Lots of women over Analys a guys feeling, and often make this worse, so they really aren't emotionally aware when it comes to guys. Lots of men will go to the end of the earth for a girl they like. Men plan most dates, give more on special occasions, are often the breadwinners, and are expected to die for their wife and kids. Men do all that while what do women do?
It takes both men and women to make a relationship work, but from my perspective it is the guy putting in more work.
Who are you talking to?
@VIVANT You've been arguing with everyone who said they didn't get as much as they gave, and telling them they are wrong, and now you say this? I don't know but WHAT THE ACTUAL F*CK!
You have been the disrespectful one and not me, and moreover you are the one full of sh*t! When you want to be judgmental, you are gonna be judged too!
Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if you are single! Moreover wouldn't be surprised if you are one of the girls that says "All men are the same, and all of them are cheaters"
Thank you for the time you spent writing your opinion, but next time when you don't want to be in a controversial situation, don't comment in the first place.
Kraken i was talking to Vivant
My response it to
1 everyone who is on THIS post saying men are more caring than women, but everywhere else saying it’s not manly to be nurturing and women are more emotional.
2 everyone saying men are more caring but say absolutely nothing on posts where the question is not set up as a competition between the sexes.
My skepticism is founded.. as This post IS set up as a competition between the sexes
It is NOT set up as an encouraging space for men to reject sexist stereotypes that attack their emotionality and instead support men being nurturing.
And like I said im HAPPY to be wrong. Please do that would be awesome. I VERY MUCH want Men to be encouraged and to be respected in being nurturing human beings and to not have that very valuable human trait, endlessly mocked.
by all means drop the hypocrisy ~~ have at it.
I’m rooting for you 😌🌹🌹🌹
I gave you examples that prove that you're wrong and you aren't addressing them so you obviously don't want to be proven wrong.
@VIVANT Hahahaha 😂😂😂 see it the way you like it, or the way that satisfies your ego, don't care about you, your opinion, or your view of it.
And please don't make me get really disrespectful, and insult you.
Why do some women "parent" their partner? ↗
I’d like to hear your opinions on this topic on this post 😊
I find it relevant to the subject we’ve been discussing bc “Parenting” is really just nurturing behavior “ caring”
Protecting etc..
that is here being claimed resides more in men than women.. bc women are less caring.
What I of course notice in general is there is a tendency to dismiss the care women do give it insult women when they are nurturing , or insult men nurtured by them. It’s fine if you disagree 😊. I’m not asking you to agree... I’m interested in your opinions over on the post 😊
Why do some women "parent" their partner? ↗
I responded to a post that was subsequently taken down.. in it I was quoted as insisting women care more for men. abd anyone who disagrees is wrong. ( I’m by the way, totally OK with that misapprehension, . I recognize I did a very bad job of illustrating my view)
First of all I’m 💯 comfortable with being disaagreed with. My original point was hypocrisy and I was welcoming people to prove me wrong. Literally I’d be happy to be wrong.
I was simply intending to point out that 1 is 1, “ expectation of women to be care givers which puts disproportional burden on them ”
2 I rarely see support for the concept of caring men caring for women elsewhere. Though i would love to.
3 women and men are perfectly valuable of caring for each other. nurturance is learned it’s not automatic and kids don’t get taught that efficiently nor consistently. In addition I think men often get attacked for demonstrating such ability by men and even women~~ which like I don’t get bc it works against them. 🤔🤷♀️~~ which leads not only to the absence of being taught but akso
~To strive to learn what is not known
~ As well as a reticence to put into PRACTICE what IS known.
I’m all in support of men that are caring and I’m sorry tyst I had our things in a way that seemed Like I was attacking such men. I really truly am.
I normally write things down if I’m frustrated and instead I just wrote and my frustration came through on here and I feel really bad about that.
I am sorry.
"Parenting" is NAGGING... no one wants to fuck one of their parents! "Parenting" a partner is a guaranteed relationship killer.
I always thought we were the ones providing emotional support non stop. I mean I can't tell how any times I was feeling horribly when I meet my girl and I see she is also having a bad day. I put my best smile right away, swallow all my problems and take care of her.
This went on with every single girl I had.
If anything guys don't show emotions. It's very rare when we do. You girls are more open about them. That alone makes us have to held you emotionally more often.
@VIVANT OK, stop. Men and women "take care" of each other differently. How to men take care of and show love to the women in their lives? How about changing the car oil, making sure the tires are good, brakes are checked, fixing things around house, going out in the blizzard to get the family groceries, doing anything that involves risk or is really shitty, confronting any real threat to the family.
Men take care of women in a THOUSAND ways, it's just that women don't appreciate it.
@KrakenAttackin
Nope. Sorry I respectfully disagree. I understand you have a view you are comfortable with snd I know it is very popular.. to me that just exemplifies how very little respect men’s ability to be caring, as a live emotionally intelligent human being, not as a machine, is actually given. And of course It again points to how little respect women are given as full functioning competent adults. in my opinion
Stereotypes are demeaning and stunt growth.
Human beings are all equipt with complex emotional intelligence and can care for and nurture each other as humans, not objects.
Women don’t need men to change oil and men don’t need women to cook. They can of course do these things if they chose but anyone is capable and at the end of the day no performance will never take the place of true emotional support... that is why even when bc people desire love.
They can pay for everything they need done. These are tasks. They are not emotional connection understanding support and nurture
And fathers are snow to raise children alone bc they are emotionally intelligent humans, not zombies movies and can provide a rich environmental of love and compassion for their children. Not just change oil.
Everyone needs nurturing. And everyone is capable. Many people resist snd it is often discouraged , but it is a human capability.. without which we would not have survived as a species.
Your problem is you refuse to accept that men communicate differently than women. You think anything a man does a woman can also do, but the reality is most nurses are women and most engineers are men. This is not a conspiracy, it is where men and women can maximize their strengths.
Vivant, you say you want people to try and prove you wrong, yet I've given you examples which you keep ignoring. Kinds hypocritical there.
I think if both the male and female partner had each other's interests at heart, life would be a lot better and easier. Phil 2:4 explains it - it's God's way of doing things.
Yes of course, each in the way they can.
Like some women clean the house wash his stuff, cook him food, support him with his success and so on
I do take care of my man even more than the way he takes care of me. I love taking care of him like a baby. it makes us both happy.
Is it in the right way?
you have different love languages.
@crazy8000 he tells me that so I believe it is in the right way.
Oh fuck no!
Think about it.
Women believe they give sex in exchange for being taken care of.
But out of the other side of their mouth they say they enjoy sex as much as men do.
So which is it?
Women have very successfully weaponized sex.
@KrakenAttackin Weaponized and monetized.
Yes sir.
Do you even need to ask? Of course they don't, I won't ramble with examples it's pretty self evident
I fully agree with the post and live in the hope that women and men take care of each other with equal loyalty, dedication, and devotion.
That'd be nice be unfortunately most people don't think that way anymore.
Yeah usually... but in different ways... any girl who never says no deserves to have her bills paid
pssh... its 2020 women take care of themselves. men just have to give them allowence.
"Women take care of themselves"... yeah, until something needs to be fixed, built, designed, protected, killed, or some shitty/dirty task needs to be done.
Women take care of men but men don't take cake of women sometimes
I would say, in both cases, it depends on the man and on the woman.
I can only speak for myself and I say yes. ♥️
Depends on the relationship.
In good relationship, yes
Definitely not in this day and age.
Never in my own experience , quite the opposite.
No way in these times
I guess not, IT depends on the girl😐😐
It should be 50/50.
It should, but is it?🤔