Fast answers please, How should I reply to this?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I told him thank you 💕💕 but i am definitely not perfect and He wrote to me “ No one is "perfect," but it's your imperfections that I honestly love and those imperfections that make you so perfect to me. I honestly don't think I can imagine a woman as truly amazing as you I really hope I'm not taking things too fast 💗💗 I apologize if so“

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How about “ Thank you I honestly think that you’re a really great and amazing person too ❤️ And it’s ok you’re not taking things too fast or anything you’re always very kind and I’m very grateful to have you “ is that good or is that too much since we’ve only known each other for a month and aren’t even dating?

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I also sent him “ You’re the most amazing guy ever “ is that okay too?

[JiminsHoe]

Sorry, you already responded but I just wanted to share my insight because I had an ex-boyfriend who was moving too quickly and always told me things like this, which is SUPER sweet, and no doubt, this guy you're talking to is seemingly super nice, but when you rush feelings, or rather, expose too much of them, too early on, things can just get go haywire. But if you're like me, it seems harsh to turn down those feelings or try to tell them to slow down. At least he's aware that saying something so personal and in-depth to someone who you aren't dating and have only known for a month seems fast, so if he says something again and asks if he's moving too fast, maybe just completely ignore the question, so it's more of a subtle hint? You're not being too much though, and your response was really nice, so don't sweat it!

[jasco]

i agree with what your saying

[DizzyDesii]

Just say thanks 🤷‍♀️ Or be funny and be like “weeeell you're not lying”

[bklynbadboy1]

Your moving to fast its red flags all over this. You doing that same thing with this guy as you did with the other. Your a nice girls but you have to stop being so gullible obviously he doesn't love you he doesn't even know you. He's running game on you hoping to get some sex

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Damn..

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Are you sure because this is what he said about perverts and guys that ask for pictures “ It shouldn't, guys like that are dumbasses to only see and want one thing from women Rather than seeing a companion to share memories and emotions with, the experiences of support for each other, the beautiful nature of a relationship that one another could have, etc. Instead to people like that it's only all about sex... People can just be really blind that way.“

[bklynbadboy1]

Okay just slow down a little

[SALIM28]

He's damn right🤦‍♂️

[elieg]

I completely agree with @bklynbadboy1

[elieg]

Obviously you like him a lot and your message confirms it. Your message is saying I want you too and I'm waiting for you to ask me out. isn't this what you want?

what was that first feeling and impression you had when you first met him?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Yeah i do like him. My first impression was wow he’s cute 😂

[Sweetnessxoxo]

He also seemed very cool since the beginning

[elieg]

Cool how? How you two met anyway? Explain please

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Ummm why?

[elieg]

So I can have a clear understanding of the situation. This way I could have a clearer way if maybe knowing what he wants

[Sweetnessxoxo]

We met on bumble but we attend the same college. In real life we have met two times (at college) and we have been texting for a month. He is 22 and has had 3 relationships meanwhile i have had only one. He said that he was willing to meet my parents since the beginning. I have so much to say but i guess i’ll just copy and paste the things that he has written to me.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

This was at the beginning of March “ I've told myself in my head that you are shy countless times lol, but I tend to overthink things and forget stuff. I've just never really met someone as shy before or as quiet. But that's more than okay with me, being yourself is all I could ever want. That's the person I really really really like ❤. And thank you ❤ I think you're incredibly beautiful and sweet. To me you seem like a very kind and gentle person. You also have a wonderful personality that I really love. It's okay to not have a lot of relationship experience, I've just been unsure when we meet each other more and more, when would we be able to take the next step. I'm sure there's probably no timetable on such a question, but that's just what's been on my mind. I mean I'm gonna be here lol, I'm not going anywhere unless of course you want me to 😂. Overall, you and your parents have the final word and I will respect that to the fullest extent. But overall, when it's all said and done. I would honestly love to be with you and for us to be together. Whenever that may be ❤❤ “

[Sweetnessxoxo]

This was when i told him about how I didn’t let random perverted guys get to me he told me this“ It shouldn't, guys like that are dumbasses to only see and want one thing from women Rather than seeing a companion to share memories and emotions with, the experiences of support for each other, the beautiful nature of a relationship that one another could have, etc. Instead to people like that it's only all about sex... People can just be really blind that way. “

[Sweetnessxoxo]

and this is what he told me when i asked him what kind if thinsg does he think about me “ I think about your beautiful smile and how much it makes me smile, I think about your cute laugh and how it makes me laugh, your big beautiful brown eyes and how enchanting they are, I think about your hilarious sense of humor, I think about you hoping you're okay and safe, I think about us snuggling on the couch watching k-dramas, I think about holding you in my arms and not letting go, etc lol Stuff like that 😂 Of course ❤❤ and my heart races and feels so light when I think about you..

[Sweetnessxoxo]

He is always reminding me that I’m beautiful and amazing and he says that my his favorite person in the world. There’s something weird though he often leaves my messages open for like 20 minutes or more and then answers but that is the only weird thing

[elieg]

How does he know you are a shy and quiet person? was this his first text message? And was this whole text his or you as well?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

All the texts in the quotation marks were written by him. He wrote these after meeting me of course and the first one was after meeting me only one time

[elieg]

Ok. Were his first text messages short? Who asked to meet up first?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Me i asked to meet up it’s usually me asking to meet up except for one time he asked to meet up but school ended up getting canceled so then i had to invite him over to meet my parents

[elieg]

Ok first you showed you were needy and vulnerable when you first asked him out, and he found out what your week point is.

Why do you want him to meet your parents?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

It’s the only way that we could hang out

[elieg]

What's his nationality?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

American.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I have a hard time trusting guys. Do you think that he is genuine?

[elieg]

He already had 3 relationships which did not last. This suggest that he maybe just plays around. You dont know for sure why exactly was the reason to break up and who broke up the bond.

I'm not from the USA, but I know you should not ask a guy out. Usually guys ask to meet a girl. You asked him out first SO he knows you were TOO KEEN. So he already got you, all he has to do is to say you're beautiful and you melt. You should have tuned back.

What's his occupation?
by the way it's a hit hard to write on here do you have WhatsApp? Uou can email if to me on ag0193286@gmail. com
Much easier to guide you through that

[Sweetnessxoxo]

The first one lasted two years the other 8 months and the other 10 months i heard that they broke up do to ling distance, family drama, and one of them cheated on him

[elieg]

You can't be sure! Who did you hear it from?
by the way are you virgin, waiting for marriage?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I’m a virgin but i don’t want to wait until marriage i would prefer to just wait until 5 months to 1 year of dating

[elieg]

I wouldn't if I was you with this guy. I wouldn't trust him if I was you.

I know your personality, you get attached too quickly. And he knows your weak point.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Even after everything he wrote?

[elieg]

You are a kind caring girl.

He can't say he loves yo be with you after he met you once or twice. In my opinion you are a young inexperienced virgin girl and he found this opportunity to play with your mind. I could be wrong but That's my opinion. However if I was you I wouldn't rush it. Be strong and Dont be needy. Be careful and dont fully trust anyone except your parents. What's your nationality btw?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I was born in the usa but my family is from the Dominican Republic

[elieg]

Yes even after whatever he wrote. Don't ever have sex with him. Trust me. Where is Dominican republic?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

It’s in Latin America in the Caribbean

[elieg]

I have a question for you.
How would you feel when you have sex with him, and later on you two break up for whatever reason?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Sad that’s why i want to wait to make sure that he loves me

[elieg]

And you think he loves you?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Can you answer this please Should I listen to my guy friend and ask this guy ( through text) about his body count and if he’s okay with slow moving relationships? ↗

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Not yet i have to date him for 5 months- 1 year at least and we’re not even dating

[elieg]

That's obviously stupid to think he will love you after some period of time. He loves your pants now yeh that's for sure. My advice this guy is brain washing you.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Why do men do this :(

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Also why do you think that?

[elieg]

You can't expect him to love you in 5 month man! Your ex met your parents and he was a player. Exactly! Stop being needy!

[elieg]

by the way what's body count?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Me and my ex lasted a month only. Snd i never asked him his body count im too scared to ask should i ask him if he’s a virgin? And tell him that if he dates me he will have to take things slow with me?

[elieg]

Would you accept if a ha some guy comes along now and asks you to get to know him and marry him?

[ArrRenn]

What, exactly, is the level of this relationship? His response sounded like something from a 90s RomCom. I might have gotten away with that when I was still dating my wife (when we were both younger than 25), but not after we were married.

Ask him, flat-out, what he is wants/expects/hopes for from you.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Just tell him your not perfect but you try your best and
tell him no one is perfect , just leave things at that

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him "Thank You "

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

That's good you tell him he's amazing Man @Sweetnessxoxo

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I just sent the first one is that okay? I ended up erasing that he’s the most amazing guy ever because i felt like it was too much

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes that sounds good @Sweetnessxoxo

[ZackBan]

I doubt I'm fast enough answering this.
But I think it doesn't matter what you answer he's clearly so taken with you that no matter what you say he'll be happy.

[Ripper_E]

He is very infatuated.
I think your response is fine but he is very much infatuated with you.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

So i should send that?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Im so nervous

[Ripper_E]

Yea that's fine, just be smart. I think he is interested in you, but the way he is complimenting you might make you believe he feels a lot stronger about you than he actually does. He might even believe it. I'm not saying that's true, but being young, those emotions can be overwhelming lol

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I also sent him “ You’re the most amazing guy ever 😊“ is that okay too?

[Ripper_E]

I would have just said You're an amazing guy lol it's kind like when guys tell girls you're the most beautiful girl ever.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

He tells me that im the most beautiful girl in the world lol

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Was that reply too much?

[Ripper_E]

Yea it's just like how many girls have you told that too? because if you say it to every girl, it doesn't mean much. I learned that. When one is infatuated, you say things like that.
Your reply was fine lol I wouldn't have used it, but it's fine.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I erased the you’re the most amazing guy ever but i kept the rest

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Is him being very infatuated a bad thing?

[Ripper_E]

It might be. It might not.
If there is nothing more beyond it, then it's a bad thing.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Thank you for answering 😊

[Ripper_E]

Of course lol that's what I'm here for

[Sevenpointfive]

he's going to need to meet your parents. your parents are the only thing that hinders the escalation of any relationship. you're their little girl and they like it that way

[Massageman]

I'd leave out the part about "... and I’m very grateful to have you..."
Makes it sounds as if you've been desperate, which I'm sure you haven't been.
The compliment about him being amazing seems ok.

[Jamie05rhs]

I thought your response was really good. Well done.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Even if i deleted the second one? I kept the first though

[Jamie05rhs]

That's okay. It's still good. :)

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Thank you :)

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome!

[Silverio_Stieger]

Talking about imperfections: do you have a slight squint or your profile picture is weird?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I always have had one eye bigger than the other lmao

[sillyfairy474]

Just be genuine. Don’t overthink. Tell him how you feel too.

[uuummmriiii]

Yeah I think so; you can always adjust the temporary later... Can't help if your that genuine; to express your feeling, something he'll have to get used to and understand. ...

[jasco]

nothing wrong with telling him you like him but trying going out with him not sex just a regular fun date ask him questions and see how he reacts be nice

[pizzalovershouse]

Slow down an see where it goes the quiker you try to rush feelings the more chances we make the wrong choices in who we really should card for

[LEADFOOTboi]

now is when you say... "we'll see about that after 2 years"... HA

[colin77]

Say thanks for sweet words... u put a bright smile on my face, I didn't know u feel and think of me highly...

[Rx_knows]

You don't really know someone until later on getting to know them.

[LexyIsSexy23]

You got stop with the boys

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I’ve only had one boyfriend in my life lol like whaaa

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I’m shy i’m not boy crazy when i like someone it’s just one person

[LexyIsSexy23]

You seem like they are a priority

[SALIM28]

U don't ask me anymore ur tired of my ideas😂😂

[Pink2000]

Say Thankyou.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I always do lol

[Pink2000]

That’s all you have to say...

[888theGreat]

Sure, seems like a nice guy, maybe a keeper

[prashant9643]

reply him with the hug