Will my girlfriend trust me after I admitted to a drunken one night stand with my ex? (Page 2)

Question

Hey guys, I have a relationship with a great girl for 2 years now, we love each other and we have many future plans together. The problem is that the first week we started hanging out and sleeping together, i had a drunk one night stand with my ex-girlfriend at a party. The truth is that i hadn't got over her yet when it happened (she hurt me really bad, including cheating, ignoring me etc ). I hadn't told my current girlfriend about it, because then we hadn't had talked yet about being exclusive, I really liked her and didn't want to hurt her. I have really regretted about what happened and I'm not proud about it. She asked me if something happened between me and my ex that night before 2 years ago, and i couldn't help but telling her the truth, i couldn't lie to her. She told me that she felt bad about itbit it's okay because we weren't that serious back then , we were just getting to know each other better and that she appreciates I told her the truth. I don't want her not to trust me anymore because of this. It was a mistake which i fully regret. Today I'm trying to give her all of my love and she does so and i don't want her to feel insecure. You think she will not trust me after that?

Thatsamazing · Answer

The real question here is why you even told her. Do you care for your girlfriend any less? If the answer is yes, then it matters. If no, then it doesn't matter.

Mellontikos · Answer

Drunk doesn't mean shit. All it means is you did what you wanted to do.

Justneedtokno · Answer

She will be thankful that you’re being honest with her. But you will have to give time for her to trust your judgement.

Anonymous · Answer

It sounds like you’re probably okay. You answered her question honestly, which was the right move. Based on the way she asked you, it sounds like she already knew what the answer was anyway.

BlessedDaddy · Answer

Absolutely not and you will never hear the end of it.

CocoBatFloof · Answer

She shouldn't, you're an ass, so is she for cheating, this was doomed from the start

Bandit74 · Answer

It sounds like you already td her and she didn't seem to think it was a big deal.

CrazyRay43 · Answer

If you weren’t exclusive at the time, there’s nothing to regret and feel bad about

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

You are about to get so much hate from the girls here!

smb930 · Answer

You should remain loyal. If she's willing to forgive you and stay, this is something to never repeat.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Were you OFFICIALLY a couple at the time? If not do not tell her anything. If you were, tell her but be prepared for the worst.

douride2 · Answer

I can't speak for your girlfriend. All I know is if it was me it would be over for the 2 of us.

whitehide · Answer

Didn't you already told her about it when she asked in the first weeks you started dating?

Anonymous · Answer

Im sorry but she deserves so much better and you shouldn't let her get back with someone who cheats on her.

Jack9949 · Answer

You were drunk. You didn’t have the proper judgement to think logically. She’ll forgive you.

Geminiheart69 · Answer

U f*** up buddy. There ain no coming back from that. Sorry fam

Anonymous · Answer

Trust is like paper. Onces it's crumbled, it can never be perfect again.

Gedaria · Answer

Who hasn't been there...

moonpie89 · Answer

Nope. She'll probably leave you

Lightsoutallout · Answer

You have to be honest and own what you did

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